| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 8/8/2009 12:57:57 PM | Hi, i just wanted to say that i have met a few lovely people, but too have met many married men looking for extra marital fun, maybe they should run it past there wife first, some open but some who lie through there back teeth.
We all make our own choices in life and have to be prepared to take the blame , not blame pof.
The sad thing is that the people who really would benifit and maybe meet someone who they would like to spend the rest of there life with , end up being put off by the low lifes .
I too take pride in knowing i was one who truly is normal. | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 8/24/2009 3:24:57 PM | | Crikey!! If talking to my ex was all I needed to do to mend his perverse ways of having sex with me, I wouldn't be divorced now! It may have been cowardly for me to have an affair too but I don't have any regrets not getting the man I had the affair with, he showed me what I had been missing for 15 years and I was definitely not going to miss any more years living in a celibate marriage. PoF has not lead me to an ideal partner yet but it is a great site to meet people on. Be brave, you only have one life! | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 9/4/2009 6:23:09 PM | | Ditto, here. I find someone to talk with but they say that they would like to meet. Set it up - NO show. Such is life. Don't like to be alone. My wife makes me feel like that. I f this is cheating, to want to talk to another being, of similar situation and composure. God is a sick god. | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 9/6/2009 3:01:33 PM | I dont understand, you came online to chat to friends and found a dating site to do this? Did you not hear about face book? Are you being honest with yourself???
Sorry to hear you HAD 2 loving children, I do hope they are ok and you see them...
Cherie xx | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 9/25/2009 10:10:46 PM | Wtg OP!!! Amazing the hipocrites, who are jumping on the monkeys back!! At least you had the guts to post what you feel guilty about, in the hope of preventing others from straying. You did not mention how it feels in a home without love or compassion etc - but then that did not give you the right to cheat. Thus, you did and now you are paying. My question is - if you are trying to get back in his good graces and get forgiveness - why are you still on a match making site? Good luck in your life!
For the others that jump all over you without truly knowing the facts..here is a verse of a poem I was taught as a child and found it good to reflect on and live by:
In speaking of a persons faults - Pray don't forget your own
Remember those with homes of glass - Should never throw a stone
If, we have nothing else to do than talk of those who sin
It's better if we stay at home and from that point begin!!
We have no right to judge a man, until he's fairly tried
If we don't like his company - we know this world is wide
We all have faults and who has not, the old as well as the young
Perhaps they may for ought we know have 50 to our one
So let us all when we begin - to slander friend or foe
Think of the harm One word may do - To Those We Little Know!!
(Author Unknown).
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 9/28/2009 11:49:54 AM | Why blame POF? this is a dating site.. and you chose to come on here for one reason.. but if you were going to cheat in the first place you would have done it on any other online chat programme...., with the guy who works in the supermarker.. or even yr neighbour. Blaming POF for what it did to you.. NO.. POF didnt do this to you.. it takes two to tango.. you the the person involved. | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 10/30/2009 11:42:49 PM | Its like a tragic train wreck.... I know I shouldnt look, I probably shouldnt find entertainment in the calamity....
It reaffirms why I am single and a career bachelor. If there was ever a doubt I had about marriage, this place cured it. | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:09:46 PM | Fishowl,
You couldn't have said any better. I am so proud of you in the way you handled your marriage. I too am widowed and had oppertunity as well as my late husbands blessing but I didn't either. I took my vows seriously. | |
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| What PlentyOfish has done to me?
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:50:19 PM | Ehh hello, why dont people on here read deeper into what some one writes instead of just giving their half penny answers.. Its obvious from what this girl wrote that her life at home was boring to every extent, it must of being when she had to resort to a dating site to express her feelings as she said in her own words (I needed someone to tell me they loved me and show interest in me) where was her loving hubby then?? Of course this other guy gave her everything she wanted to hear, when you dont hear this from your so called lover you tend to look for this some where else and us women fall prey to a bit of attention... Dont sit and blame yourself for this for the rest of your life,, maybe it has just awakening something in your marriage and if it hasnt my advice to you would be to stop beating yourself for your husbands lack of communication & sit yourself down & think about your future and who you are spending the rest of your life with. In a marriage we are supposed to feel loved its not someting we should be seeking from other men when your own man is sitting beside you.. | |
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