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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/19/2008 1:18:32 PM |
I recently met a guy at work, who I thought was really gorgeous
Maybe he added you to his list of women who also think he is really gorgeous. And now you're just a number to him. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/19/2008 2:44:51 PM | If he's texting you crude messages and you've done nothing to encourage them, maybe you should be concerned. But talk to him about them and ask him why he's sending them!!
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/19/2008 2:58:39 PM | | You asked if you were doing something wrong at attract AHOLES. From your pictures yes you are. Most men are pigs and they take a woman with (sorry to be so blunt, just being honest with you) a nice rack who shows clevage as to be wanting something. Yes it is bad that we look at it that way, but it is how we are wired. Most men instantly think sex as soon as they see that, and don't give a shi* about the woman. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/20/2008 6:58:00 AM | Mama always said: In the first six months.. you'll either hear wedding bells or warning bells!!!
That is your inner self telling you something... why are you not listening?
You are listening to him though... and If it walks like a duck... quacks like a duck.. ITS A DUCK!!! | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/20/2008 7:03:18 AM | People confuse me....one minute, everyone acts like a bunch of swingers.....the next, they're consciencous. I dunno, but be careful. Don't let your mojo override your mind.
I win! Go get the money! | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 4/22/2008 12:44:37 PM | | You said there are alarm bells....what does that mean to you? My first thought is if the text messages are uncomfortable for you, you're better off to ditch him and wait until a real "gentleman" comes along. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/2/2008 8:19:37 AM | We hadn't been in contact for quite a while, I ended up telling him not to bother anymore as he was quite obviously not interested. Then last week he texted me asking if I was still interested in meeting up as he wanted to buy me a drink to say sorry. So as I was skint, I said, No sorry I can't but that's nice of you to offer, if you want you can come round mine and we can just chill out and watch a film. And I wrote afterwards that is ALL was intended. Completely harmless. So he immediately text back saying, oh does that mean I get a blowjob? WTF?!?!
As you can probably guess there was no desire in any shape or form to reply.
And as for my pictures, true, there are a few revealing ones, but they're the only half decent pictures I have of me. From my 20th birthday....... | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/2/2008 10:46:44 AM | RUN! Guys that start like that are looking for one thing! If a guy talks sex before it's appropriate, I will end conversation right then. I'm not looking for a BC!
In my experience, hot guys are typically aholes! My friends gave me a dating motto: Hotties are Notties!! | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/2/2008 1:15:32 PM | He seemed geniune at first now getting nasty? Hmmm well seems he wanted to keep it professional at first and now that he is out of this company he is showing the real him. That is was and maybe infact interested but showing his true colors now. I wouldn't even waste your time. I would steer clear. Seems he is only looking for fun. AND who knows who else with.
Good Luck!!! | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/26/2008 3:57:28 AM | | Hehe, love the completly drunk and down the shirt cleavage shots.....Hmmmm? suggest going for the guy who treats you well, compliments you, looks in your eyes, makes you feel relaxed and leaves you wanting to see him again. A man who wants more than a one nighter, will close the evening making you want more. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/26/2008 11:31:53 AM | | Listen to your intuition...try to drown out your actual thoughts and what other people are saying about him. Now, what does that say? It's probably correct. If you are asking us whether you should go on this date or not, you are obviously having doubts as to whether he is a good guy. Maybe you should go with your gut instincts here and cancel. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/26/2008 6:49:44 PM | Why are people still posting advice for the OP?
She's now stated 3-4 times that she will have nothing to do with the guy, which she decided as soon as she got the ultimatum text from him early on in the thread.
Clearly, she is not interested in having loveless sex with this loser or any other idiots how may try. Not much more to say. | |
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| What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 5/26/2008 7:10:52 PM | It's the "good-looking" ones that are the REAL jerks. They think because they are..they can get away with anything...and it's up to you and me to stop them in their tracks. These people are nothing but users and they take advantage. They have no moral, goals because they think that everything comes their way and they are deserving due to their good looks...But as a wise judge once said...Beauty fade..dumb is forever..aaaah soo true!! Move on!!! | |
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