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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/21/2008 11:27:06 PM |
We're old now ;-). There's not many things that can make us feel like kids anymore, but that "first kiss" is one of them.
Careful there, Cowboy, most of us "old" ladies don't like to be reminded that we're pushing the 1/2 Century mark.  
But luckily for some of us, we've had decades of practice by now, and we're a lot better at it than we were at 16 ;-).
Come here and let me test out that theory. 
On topic = Who should initiate the first move? Well, the one who lightening strikes first, of course! I'm an old fashioned woman, and unless my date is perfect in every way - opening doors, being an active listener, being the perfect gentleman, making me feel comfortable, I'm not going to move in fast - I mean first. | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/22/2008 5:02:19 AM | | Well, kissing should go before sex. There was a Will Smith movie out a while ago called "Hitch." This very same question came up in the movie and the answer was, the guy goes 90% of the way and the woman 10%. That sounded consistent with my experience. | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/22/2008 5:34:40 AM |
But luckily for some of us, we've had decades of practice by now, and we're a lot better at it than we were at 16 ;-).
Come here and let me test out that theory.
That's a hypothesis, darlin'. It's only a theory when it's proven. So, that makes it a Canadian Theory, an American Hypothesis ;-).
And good Southern Baptist Ladies like yerself shouldn't be saying such things anyway! ;-)
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/23/2008 4:52:55 AM | | well i am a bit shy and i get a bit togue tied and end up get a bit nervous i end up making a twat out of myself i have been told it's quite funny to watch. from a lady friend and start to wish the ground would swollow me up lol and start asking myself does she or does she not or am i reading this wrong so i end up tieing myself up in knots before it begin's so for me it's better if the lady kisses me first then i relax and i know where i stand | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/23/2008 1:52:25 PM |
start to wish the ground would swollow me up lol and start asking myself does she or does she not or am i reading this wrong so i end up tieing myself up in knots before it begin's Loosen up! lol It's a kiss. Just ask her. If she's had a good time, she will probably say yes.  | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/23/2008 1:59:19 PM | sometimes i like to go first (love the reaction when i do)
sometimes he should go first (swoon me over babes!)
and sometimes 50/50
either way... as long as the moment leaves you wanting more .. heh heh | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:12:23 PM | I am a firm believer that the OP is a seriously timid (and thus lonely) fellow.
I am a firm believer that a woman should. When a man asks a girl out, that signals some type of intimate interest. Not to mention, 99% of the time the man is open to having sex faster than a woman. I know that has been the case with me every time I have asked a girl out. | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:47:55 PM | Happy Girl, I also thought I was out of the loop on what is what in dating!.....Now I know I am not alone!....Thank You Jesus!.....lol. I could not believe when I joined this site, how many men want to know MY preferences, and not even a first date!...Ain't going to happen guys,....Some of us women are looking for long term,flirting, romance, butterflies, and the first kiss FROM the man....Communication is the winning word !!!!
Ahhhh....now where is he? | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:58:23 PM | | Lost Cowboy, Geeze......you said it beautifully!.....I for one want the magic and for the man to be in control at first and yes,a soft gentle kiss giving much promise and leaving you wanting more. The hot sensual kissing comes naturally after our brain chemicals kick in and we are thinking about that soft kiss . Save the hot kisses for later and not on the first date. You need to build up the desire and then Holie- Molie! Where has romance gone people? | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/2/2009 8:24:50 PM | I hope you do not ask the intimate questions on the first or second chat.
To me, you are only interested in sex and not me, even if we like the same things and have some rapport in laughing over silly subjects. In the end, it comes down to what is she willing to do?....no matter how respectful of a way you ask....Tisk tisk tisk!...again where is the romance in that?
And this is what happened to me last week on this site. After the niceities, he started to ask sexual questions to me and I stated I did not want to talk about sex and this is what he wrote me....".GFYST"!....ok...I am not into texting and would like to have given him the benefit of the doubt...like he meant.".go fish you sweet thing."...hahaha!....but my daughter said otherwise! So where is the respect there sweetie?
Men, you make the first move on the first kiss, after all you are probably the one who asked her out, and especially if she flirted with you!.....To each his or her own I guess.... | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/2/2009 8:29:22 PM | | I love to initiate kissing. I like to smell all around his neck and leave my hot breath all around him by kissing and soft licks. Like a kitty cat- LOL! If that doesn't get him going, then he's a dud. To answer the question, I like to initiate, but sure don't mind if he does either. | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/3/2009 7:18:39 AM | | I don't think it matters, as long as it's obvious that you both want to kiss. However, you should not have to chase somebody down to kiss them, or pull them closer or hold them. If a person wants to be kissed or kiss, you will see it in the body language... getting close, gazing into your eyes, sweet talk, etc. ...You can figure it out! | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:03:43 AM | ....there are a few of us who actually enjoy the company of a lady for a dinner or a movie or just an outing because we can only take so much football, fishing, and NASCAR with the guys.....
well you all must be hiding cause I'm beginning to think there arent any guys like that in Western NY | |
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| Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:04:34 AM | ....there are a few of us who actually enjoy the company of a lady for a dinner or a movie or just an outing because we can only take so much football, fishing, and NASCAR with the guys.....
well you all must be hiding cause I'm beginning to think there arent any guys like that in Western NY | |
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