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Posted: 5/2/2008 7:07:17 PM | | If you're committed to each other exclusively neither of you should have online profiles IMHO. She is not THAT committed to YOU if she's maintaining sites and chatting with other guys. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:58:30 AM | | I don't think you are asking too much at all! If she is still on other dating sites she simply cannot be trusted. Do you want to be with a woman you can't trust? In my opinion she is toying with you | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 7:32:25 AM | man, when i think i've herd it all i hear this, ok ride your partnership with her if you want , always remember, if you doubt that "something isnt right" about what both of you are doing it isnt right, (IM SO FREEKIN SICK ABOUT WHAT JUST ABOUT EVERYONE IS SAYING ABOUT "FRIENDS", WHAT THE HELL EVER HAPPENED TO 2 PEOPLE HAVING EACH OTHER ... IF SHE AND OR YOU ARE AN AGREED ON ITEM ,AND 1 OR BOTH OF YOU WANT TO REMAIN ON DATING SITES, THEN THEY OR YOU ARENT FINISHED LOOKING.. THAT IS COMMON SENCE,, IF TODAYS SOCIALISTIC ATTITUDES ARE GETTING THIS COMMON PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF ,,, concervative))) need to go somewhere else and i will , so what does that tell you about the goodlooking men getting added and the ugly ones not given attention it says when you are out of the pic she already has them lined up waiting for you to call it quits, what else do you think it could be? lacking trust my ass, bullcrap, to soon ??? you said you are almost moved in,, woman will lie to your face about //// IM TELLING YOU THE TRUTH, people can say this is a new age ,a new so on and so on,, humans are still the same, some of thease woman dont need or want a man anymore if they had a mirror big enough they would make love to the mirror, it is a me me me world , remember when you see a red flag pay attention its a red flag warning you, or you would not be asking,, good luck and im glad im not where you are at .  grampa moses tell me what is goin on with youall in 3 mon.. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 8:02:14 AM | i read your liberal feminististic, crap, you go around iN circles , THE INTERNET HAS CHANGED YOUR LIFE!!I BET IT HAS!!, YOU GET MARRIED TO A MAN WHO, YOU SAY YOU MAY LEARN TO LOVE ,BULLSHIT WOMAN,,, YOU ARE AS UPSIDE DOWN AS THE WOMAN WHO EVERYONE IS COMMENTING ON TODAY.. YOU AND HER SHOULD HOOK UP, DONT PEOPLE LIKE YOU SOCIALISTIC LIBERALS USUALLY GO TO AND FOR BOTH SEXES AND HAVE 2 CHAPTERS OF NEW AGE CONVENTIONAL WISDOM TO CONVINCE YOURSELF AND EVERYONE ELSE why they should say you (may have a point) hahahahahalolololololo you must really be miserable, and ill pray for you, im going outside in the real world and work in a garden work on a car do something.. ive had enough jerry springner internet for 1 day,,, grampa moses..... if you ever want to hear what your grampa or granma would say ,if they werent eat up with liberal communistic ideas just ask me grampa moses im happy without anyone, and when i look i watch out for those red flags...... | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:42:50 PM | Dude, straight up... The 1st thing you need to find out is her dating history and what happened in her relationships. Reading this one thru I noticed a huge "Warning light" to your situation and it's actually blaringly apparent. Let me quote you here...
"I'm happy to say that after a tough old year that i finally met the girl of my dreams after a battle to win her over."
-You-
If you have to battle for them what makes that a dream girl?
I would also assume she knows this was going on for her and potentially liked that. I can say that you're opening of this relationship is going to be key in decyphering the issue at hand.
Only thing I have to say (retorically) is what made your mind say "This is the one?"
I agree with your mindset on the dating site stuff. Granted the attension and flirtation is nice to some but not only is that running the potential for her to be out misleading people (in essence that is an extension of her personal selfishness messing with hearts in order to get attension), but a dating site is something you'd need more when you're single.
True, it is possible to gain friends on here but the thing to keep in mind is when you're in the relationship, you're initially supposed to delete the account and then (being that anyone is a friend) you get whoever's e-mail addresses to keep in contact with.
Now as for your feelings here, I get the conscern since it was a battle to get her. I also get that you may still feel like some of the dust not fully settling from being on shakey ground (If you have to win them over, that will always resound in your mind as a reason to worry. They didn't start out as being "All there" it'll mess with your perceptions.) is playing with you too. In your end I think this is more a fear of potential unknown outcomes with her that's motivating your action and reactions in this.
Personally, I know it's for me if I didn't have to wade through an emotional minefield and/or have to bump somone out of the way to get to somone it's not a relationship I should be in. Why? Love and war aren't the same thing... Love is love and when you bring aspects of war into play it's just war. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 4:10:14 PM | | YOUR TRYING TO HARD AND PROBABLY OPENED YOU HEART TO HER(BIG MISTAKE) SHE'S STILL LOOKING FOR HER STUD.. I SUGGEST GET YOU GOLF CLUBS AND HIT THE GREENS HAVE A FEW BEERS, HIT THE BARS AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE WITH MORE SUBSTANCE. SHE'S USEING YOU MAN.......THE GIRLS IN THE BAR WOULD AT LEAST BE HONEST WITH YOU.... | |
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| Opinions Needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:13:07 PM | | YOUR TRYING TO HARD AND PROBABLY OPENED YOU HEART TO HER(BIG MISTAKE) SHE'S STILL LOOKING FOR HER STUD.. I SUGGEST GET YOU GOLF CLUBS AND HIT THE GREENS HAVE A FEW BEERS, HIT THE BARS AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE WITH MORE SUBSTANCE. SHE'S USEING YOU MAN.......THE GIRLS IN THE BAR WOULD AT LEAST BE HONEST WITH YOU.... AFTER HOUS I MEAN... | |
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| Opinions Needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 5/4/2008 5:29:34 PM | well, i hope you have dumped her and moved on.....
she is not showing you any respect, and sounds like she is pretty insecure with herself if she has to keep these sites, only for "attention"....
she has other motives and it doesnt sound like shes serious about you.... | |
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