| Men in diapers Posted: 10/7/2008 10:13:30 PM | | yes they do some just take awhilr to find someone , im still searching in chatham ontario | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/20/2008 11:08:06 AM | | I still wear diapers and plastic pants when ever I want to. This for me is not a just an adult lifestyle that I enjoy doing once in a while. Maybe on day a week so so. I do not use the diapers for what the are ment for. Just like the comfort I get. I do not tell anyone about this lifestyle at all. Well I am telling you, because it is the topic here. We are also nice people and have our daily lives to live. And like I said this is just an adult and has nothing to do with anything else. I live in South California. Single male 58. So any of you women looking for a good man let me know. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/20/2008 4:25:23 PM |
wolfbabyfur : I'm also a furry on top of being a teen baby, and I'm gay with a great friend my age, who is also into diapers.
alright......what's a furry? | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/20/2008 4:48:47 PM | OP ---
Maybe these guys are just showing women they give a crap!  | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/20/2008 4:52:15 PM | MsMicki, well it's not as interesting as say a diaperboy, but it involves people dressing up as furry animals. Picture big stuffed animals getting kinky. You know those fuzzy bunny slippers you probably had at one time or another...that's the beginnings of a furry. Shall I send you a link?  | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/21/2008 9:05:39 PM | | how many are there. I am in California by knotts berry farm | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/22/2008 12:10:06 AM |
Another cause is obesity. Men have alot of leakage if they're overweight. It's got to do with belts and pants having to squeeze the midsection to stay on and affecting the bladder.
WOAH......STOP THE BUS!!! This is plain out BS and is not true. This is where I take a stand. As a FAT guy, yes at 380lbs I am a big boy and I have weighed at lot more years ago. I have never and no one I have ever known that is even bigger than me, has had this problem. This is a misconception by people that don't know how clueless they are. Now I have read that pregnant women may suffer from this at time depending on the position of the baby. But no not men who are fat, its not the belt or pants squeezing anything.....geezus!
Lets also separate medical conditions from a fetish please...
The main cause of incontinence: Definition: Incontinence is the inability to control urination. It affects people of all ages and gender, but woman are twice as likely as men to develop incontinence.
Four Types of Incontinence
Stress Incontinence: Incontinence that occurs during coughing, sneezing, laughing, lifting heavy objects or making other movements that put pressure, or stress, on the bladder. This results from weak pelvic muscles or a weakening of the wall between the bladder and vagina. The weakness is due to pregnancy and childbirth or from lower levels of the hormone estrogen during menstrual periods or after menopause.
Urge Incontinence: Incontinence after feeling a sudden urge to urinate with inability to control the bladder, such as while sleeping, drinking water or listening to water running.
Overflow Incontinence: Incontinence that occurs when the bladder is constantly full, and reaches a point where it overflows and leaks urine. This condition can occur when the urethra is blocked due to causes such as kidney or urinary stones, tumors or, an enlarged prostate. It may also be the result of weak bladder muscles, due to nerve damage from diabetes or other diseases.
Functional Incontinence: Incontinence that occurs when physical disabilities, external obstacles, or problems in thinking or communicating prevent a person from getting to a bathroom before they urinate.
Also Known As: Urinary Incontinence, Over Active Bladder | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 10/22/2008 7:35:21 PM | Good gawd...are you freakin' kidding me? I raised 4 children...do you know how many diapers I probably changed over the years? The only diapers I am ever going to change again will be for future grand children...NOT a man! This is really odd., in a creepy kind of way is this the Jerry Springer show? * How come there is no puke emoticon in here!!!!!!! | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 7/20/2009 7:03:31 AM | Some of us just need to wear diapers for protection. Not to protect us but to protect the furnature as well as to avoid embarrasment. I know that there are many of us out there that for one reason or another. Like me and my problem with Spina Bifida that make me unable to control my baldder and sometimes their bowels in some situations. Some have weak bladders, small underdeveloped bladders or nerve damage that doesn't allow them to contain their bodily waste like everyone else can. I am a diaper lover in the same way that you enjoy tighty whities, Boxers or thongs. I love my diapers because they keep me safe from damaging the couch, chairs, bed cloths and carseats when I have that enevitable accident. I challange those of you that turn your noses up at those of us that wear diapers to buy a pack of Depends and lock all of the bathroom doors for a week and wear diapers instead and try to keep your diapers a secret. I think you will walk away wiht a different attiude. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 7/20/2009 7:26:03 AM | | i think they're ****ed in the head | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 4:59:14 AM | Msg: 19 Arcturo
the simplest solution to men with that fetish would be a bullet to their head,put them out of their misery.
Wow! And according to your profile: "...always polite, jovial and open minded if i receive mail." Guess your in-box has been empty, maybe this is why! Women do not like liars, and it is obvious from this post that you are far from polite, and open-minded.
But to clarify that ignorant post. There is no 'solution', let alone a simple one. And as for the bullet part, well that would work if we were miserable. Guess you will have to use it on yourself, or was that post the only thing miserable?
Msg: 60 SandorB
i think they're ****ed in the head
Really? By ****ed in the head, do you mean brain damaged? By the way, that means handicapped/mentally retarded. (I noticed you were from the South) I swear; do you expect to find a girlfriend posting stuff like that? And people wonder why they are on a dating site. Least I know why I am here, it's the diapers. ;)
Honestly! I am shocked at the amount of bigotry in this thread. I look and see things like "This is sick." "Gross!" "Is this the Jerry Springer show"
Well let's look at these judgments: "This is sick." and/or "gross": These are both opinions, and are more than welcome. As long as we can remember that it is sick for YOU. The person who engages in these acts is neither "sick" nor "gross" (Unless they have the flu.) To call them that is hitting below the belt, and some of you are Christians (PS This is judging.).
How about that "Jerry Springer" comment! Boy, I have never heard that before! Do you write your own material? How come everyone agrees that the Jerry Springer show is 'faked' except when it comes to the diapers? Oh, I know why, because of ignorance. They have to grasp at straws to try to make fun of something they do not understand. What century is this again?
Lastly, I am an AB. I have been one since the day I was born. It is NOT a fetish for me. I am not ****ed in the head, neither am I "sick", nor am I "gross". There is nothing "wrong" with me, that isn't "wrong" with many many many of what the judges deem 'normal people'. If people wish to have a decent discussion I will be more than happy to answer as many questions as possible. If there are rude remarks/comments they will be answered in kind. And I can beat the pants of off bigoted comments like there is no tomorrow. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 6:52:45 AM |
What's up with all the men in diapers?
Procter and Gamble diapers - YES! Kimberly Clark diapers - NO!
I can see my profit sharing gaining momentum as it feeds this consumer fetish demand! BUY! BUY! BUY!
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 3:46:43 PM | Actually this is a big issue in the lifestyle (Not fetish.)
It is comments like this that stem the true greed.
A pair of footed pajamas for a 6' boy (Kid section at Target.) Costs, 9 dollars approx. Head over to E-Bay and try to buy that same pair of pajamas (Or an equal pair.) and for some reason it has jumpped up to 60 dollars!
People love to take advantage of us, they like to bad mouth us too. But we saw that part already.
Lastly, tis not a fetish. Perhaps some research into paraphillic infantilism before incorrect comments are made?
Fetish implies that it involves sex. For many of us AB's this developed WAY BEFORE our sex drive. (Mine started when I was about 3.) This makes it NOT a fetish, in fact I am as asexual as they come. So perhaps a better word to describe it, like what it is: a lifestyle. Or is being Gay/Lesbian/Etc a fetish too? | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 4:45:52 PM | | This is a topic I was wishing I hadn't read. Didn't even know this fetish existed... GROSS! | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 5:13:13 PM | OMG I'm LMFAO.......................
I finished changing nappies years ago and if I wanted another baby I would consider having one.
However I want the man I date to be just that - A MAN. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 5:21:58 PM | However I want the man I date to be just that - A MAN.
Are you impling that I am a woman? I have a penis, and all the other 'parts' that make a man.
And as for the 'gross' comment, can you please explain just how it is 'gross'? Or are you just judging something you do not understand/fear?
And we think we have come a long way in terms of humanity...
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Also, much ignorance is shown when it is referred to as a fetish. Of course I could call it stupidity now, since I have said 3 times that it is not one. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 5:51:26 PM |
Actually this is a big issue in the lifestyle (Not fetish.) It is comments like this that stem the true greed. Got it. My apologies on saying fetish vs. lifestyle. I'm in no way judging your choice in "lifestyle".
In regards to the greed part - I have no apologies there and I still say, "BUY! BUY! BUY!" C'mon...I have my own fetishes to fund - like my profit sharing account!
Separately - what does AB mean again?
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 6:02:24 PM | No apologies needed, it is a common mistake.
An Infantilist is not a fetish, a 'Diaper Lover' is. There is a big difference between the two, and I am not going to go into it at this time. (If people are interested, it is not a problem.)
Greed, nothing wrong with a little greed now and then. But too much is too much, of course diaper prices are the least of the greed issue. :P
Lastly, AB stands for (sigh) 'Adult Baby'. Please note, I did not pick the label it was around long before I was born. Additionaly, I am none too fond of the word infantilist. I think it ilicits bad images in normies brains.
PS I think Michael Jackson was an infantilist, remember he never wanted to grow up... | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 6:45:14 PM | | thats just so wrong....omg I am laughing and so grossed out at the same time..thanks | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/16/2009 7:39:16 PM |
thats just so wrong....omg I am laughing and so grossed out at the same time..thanks First off, welcs!
From your profile:
I am kind, responsible, feminine, sensual, romantic, strong, fun, creative, a great mother, and decent person
Well, I suppose you are not lying. At least you didn't say you were an 'understanding person'. That comment doesn't seem too kind though, maybe you should rethink that sentence, lying is not an attractive trait.
Of course, if lauging at others is something 'kind people' do then I guess I am wrong. I will say it is something that children do, which one of us is the infantilist?
It really is amazing to see how closed minded people really are. Especially when we supposedly live in an open-minded time. Want to see something else entertaining, post a thread about girls wearing diapers... | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/17/2009 2:11:55 PM | | The compunction for grown men to poop indiscriminately into their shorts for pleasure is not normal. My definition of normal is that the norm of society do not engage in this behavior. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/17/2009 2:32:45 PM | The compunction for grown men to poop indiscriminately into their shorts for pleasure is not normal. My definition of normal is that the norm of society do not engage in this behavior.
You know, "normal" is akin to the "Jerry Springer Show" both involve fake ideas. There has never been such a thing as normal, look around these boards to see that.
It has nothing to do with diapers, some people like fat folks, others like smokers. If you want to compare it to other "lifestyles" Some folks are gay, others are transvestities. There is no "Normal", and EVERYONE I have ever talked to agrees on this point...well until you bring up something they do not understand/fear.
PS 30 years ago it wasn't "Normal" to be on a dating site...
EDIT** Also, where was it said that Infantilists have to 'poop themselves'? Many of us do not "use" the diapers for their intended purpose. I swear, you guys would look better if you would research something before making accusations. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/17/2009 5:13:50 PM | ^^^^^^^^
Why do you have such a strong desire to defend this thread..................if some of us find it disgusting then that is our opinion - just like you have yours. I didn't start attacking your comments so stop being such a freaking p.i.t.a. | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/17/2009 5:55:12 PM | I am defending my lifestyle moreso than the thread. True, the gross comment was an opinion. But the laughing your 'butt' off part was a childish action. Not to mention implying I was not a man.
So I asked you to be specific, what do you mean by "I am not a man?" (You said: "I want the man I date to be just that - - a MAN!" That implies I am not a man, not that I would want to date you.)
So yes, disgusting is an opinion. You didn't attack my comments, you attacked my personal choices (Which is worse?)
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If This is true, then my apologies in advance. VVVVV | |
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| Men in diapers Posted: 8/17/2009 6:01:56 PM |
I want the man I date to be just that - - a MAN!"
I don't think this was an attack on you masculinity, but a preference for dating people who don't pretend to be babies/children. | |
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