| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:56:06 PM | | I think dominance should be give and take. I like to take lead and like to be lead. really depends on the mood my partner and I are in. LOL try both being dominant... | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:01:29 PM | | I really like men to be dominant and submissive.. depending on the mood, like when he wants to have sex, I dont want a sniveling coward asking if we are going to make love tonight, I want a man to donimate me letting me know that is what he wants to do, and then I want to have him be submissive when I want too... he will let me be the assertive one... give and take... | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/20/2008 6:51:45 AM | I've noticed men like women who have no problem initiating sex. Saying they want it. Saying what they want.
According to my boyfriend (I asked him, what can I say? LOL), he likes when women are as excited about sex as men are. He likes to know we want it to and that it's not always him who has to ask for/propose it.
But that's one man's opinion, you'll get many others.
As for 'dominate' women, he said 'dominate/submissive' makes women sounds like a dog or something. He agrees with 'assertive' being the better term. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/20/2008 8:18:59 AM | No....
Men like to talk to, be friends with, and even have sex with Dominant/Aggressive/Self Confindent women.
But when it comes to actually dating one.... they will nine times out of ten date (and marry) the women who will nod politely to everything he says and role on her back and just lay there when he wants to get off.
How many very confident single women are on this site? How many have been stood up... MANY times? How many have been single for a very long time?
It's the harsh reality. Men don't date and definately do not marry dominant women.
....but they still wanna have sex with us when their non-confrontational wife doesn't put out. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/20/2008 9:54:01 AM |
It's the harsh reality. Men don't date and definately do not marry dominant women.
I look for more self-confident out-spoken women. I want someone who is willing to go for what she wants. Submissive girls can be fun but, I find dominant women more attrictive. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/20/2008 11:18:50 AM | love the be dominated...damn straight!!!
AWESOME when a woman wants to take control it is really cool...
that being said outside of the bedroom, nah I want a partner who will be a partner... but in the bedroom now and then, if she takes over yeah wicked cool! | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/11/2008 7:44:55 PM | | I don't like dominate in the sense of a list of demands I must conform to.However I love the type of woman who in the bedroom is a bit of a sexual sadist.I like the woman in control in the bedroom and isn't scared to rough me up. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/12/2008 7:45:06 AM |
Do men really like Dominant Women?
After reading many of the responses, I have to ask how do you mean that? If you are asking if a man likes for a woman to dominate him in the bedroom as in sex play only, then the answer is different then if you are asking if a man wants a relationship with a dominant woman that is in fact in total control of a 24/7 relationship.
Hugh difference there.
If men did not like dominant women, then there would not be the hundreds of Pro Dommes advertising on the net with ads for men to pay big bucks to submit to her.
and many or most say that there is no sex involved. So I say there's your answer.
For every woman that is dormant, there are over 1,000 men willing or wanting to submit to her.
There is a site for Dominant/submissive relationships. Very much like this site. All free.
Many Dominant women report that they get up to 50 e-mails a day on that site. Bet that does not happen here. Of course they have to weed through the players and wankers to find a good sincere man that wants and needs to submit to a Dominant woman.
There are men that will totally submit his will, wants... and even his needs to a woman he loves. (OK, maybe even one he doesn't love... But I don't get that.)
I am one of those. No, it is not all about sex. It is an emotional need or desire that I willingly would agree to do. It's a power exchange and can be a very close loving bond between a man and a woman. Sure, various kinks are usually part of a relationship like this. But it is not all there is to it.
Submission is a gift to a Dominant if we are talking about a committed relationship and not just play time in the bedroom.
The woman that just broke my heart was such a woman. Being dominant is her core value. There is nothing under the sun that I did not do for her, would not do for her. I did it out of love, respect and deep caring about her. I was very happy doing things that I otherwise did not like doing. But knowing it was either expected of me or ordered to do it, I did it gladly just knowing I was pleasing her. As it turned out, I could not do enough and was not appreciated enough for her to return the depth of feelings I had for her. Her issues, not mine.
Other then submitting to a dominant woman, I am anything but submissive in my work or other social settings. To me, it takes a much bigger man to submit to a woman then one to dominate a woman. But to each their own.
For me it is an important element in my loving, respecting and appreciating her.
Now if I could just find another dominant woman that can return the same level of love, I'd be happy forever. But a very rare woman to find. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/12/2008 9:07:40 AM | | I am a regular guy, with a stressful job. In real life I think everybody wants to be an equal in their relationship. In bed , however is a different story. In bed I would let a dominant woman use me however she liked. Maybe I am alone here, but I find that being dominated by a strong woman , sexually, is the ultimate turn on, and a great way to relieve the stresses of life. It can be humiliating and degrading to be treated like a sissy slut by a woman, but that is what makes it so exciting. I would give complete control to a woman who could assert herself. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:45:25 AM | As a generalization, and someone actively kinky, I have seen variances of this. Men who are Dominant in their professional careers and day to day life, tend to be more submissive in the bedroom - being controlled by a woman (or man) is a way of release. And just the opposite for men who are submissive in the real world, tend to be Dominant in the bedroom. In relationships, there needs to be a balance of both, especially in marriages or long term relationships in the day to day decision making. In the bed, it can be fun to switch roles and play around. It's about compatibility, communciation and meeting needs of your partner.
On a site note, I'm a bit of a control freak in the day to day life. But when it comes to sex and relationships, I am very submissive. It takes a very strong, natural Dominant man with a firm hand to have any kind of lasting relationship with me. Or to even peak my curiosity for a long term relationship.
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:53:24 PM | | id have to say i like women that CAN be dominant. Life is no fun without variety. sometimes its nice to not be the dominant one in bed for once. but I personally do not like when women are bossy in bed ALL the time. and I get bored with women that are always submissive and refuse to initiate sex ever (u know like a dead fish). I find it very sexy when a woman I'm with tells me she wants to do things to (or with) me sexually. or even just making the first move without saying a word. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:53:33 AM | [There are men that will totally submit his will, wants... and even his needs to a woman he loves. (OK, maybe even one he doesn't love... But I don't get that.) ]
Oh jim, I have missed you and the forums here...been way too busy with that other site....and yes not everyday 50 emails but? A lot more than I ever had here....and closer to what I had been looking for! Life is still good in NY state....
Yes, Virginaia--- Men do Like/Love Dominate Women! Some need the 24/7 TPE some just need the appearance of vanilla and with the Woman in control of most aspects....a very few just want the Bedroom Dominate....
Just My personal experience.... | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:11:42 AM | No. But I also don't like bossy, gossiping, busy bodies either.
Nothing wrong with a woman that can stand up for herself, can say no, and is a pillar of strength. | |
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