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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 3/25/2008 8:58:15 PM | He jerks off too much. If, he could go a day or 2 or more without jerking off, which, for him is not likely, before he is with you, perhaps he could ejaculate in you. It is my experience, alot guys jerk off too much to be capable of sharing real sex with a woman. Some can't get use to taking their hand off their thing, and touch a woman. Some can not go a couple of days without jerking off, so they have something built up to share with a woman. Some are just addicted to masterbation and that is where they chose to spend their so call life. Just throw them back in the sea, perferably the Dead Useless Penis Sea, so no one has to deal with the frustration of dealing with these self centered mastubation addicts. They are sexually useless. Therefore, not worthy of a relationship. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:50:11 PM | | wow,,,,I have never encountered an issue like that.. I am the one with the orgasim problem. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:54:07 PM | | There are men out there who have such problems....I am not going to say that he gets professional help, without you two trying together at first. Maybe it's up to you to break him out of the habit of masturbating and cumming. Do the best that you can...maybe it's all about the comfort level too. He might have never been that comfortable during sex before...so he kept on resorting to masturbation. If that doesn't help, then pro help would do it. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:02:45 PM | Try buying him some "Volume Pills". It will build him up to the point where he will not only cum, but he'll be able to sign his initials on your face, if you so desire.  | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:44:38 PM | ^^^What are volumn pills? Size or longevity type?
Op: This seems to me that it may be a possibility of pressure. He may be a type who has to have really tight pressure around elvis to make him sing. So, try a giving him a bj with ur hand stroking too and tighten ur lips and hand while he guides your head gently to his rythmn. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:21:39 PM |
Some can't get use to taking their hand off their thing, and touch a woman. Some can not go a couple of days without jerking off, so they have something built up to share with a woman.
I have had a similar experience to what cat*eyes stated. I was with a younger fellow, so I thought all would be fine. It was far from it...I derive a lot of pleasure from making my man cum, and he couldn't/wouldn't. There was always an excuse, and many of these excuses put me in the 'wrong' or were unfixable and I was just to deal. Turns out he was a chronic masterbator, he had pretty much made an art of prolonging his own personal pleasure with his hand - so when it came to me, he couldn't cum. He would also have issues getting hard when it came to having sex with another person (I think it could have been a self-esteem issue), and bothered his doc to give him a prescription for viagra (this is a 24 year old guy). Thing is then, he'd pop one of these pills (he didn't have insurance and was paying out of pocket) without telling me first, he made damned sure I knew how much each pill cost, and then he'd pressure me for sex but he'd rarely cum.
Just a merry-go-round of ...not much merriness. Sex was quickly becoming disheartening and like a chore, so I broke up with him (for that and other reasons). I'd rather be alone with my toys than deal with that drama again. I felt like I couldn't please my man, and it bothered me.
He is probably happier now...him and his right hand. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:27:30 PM | | I hate to say this ladies may you just suck or dont suck as the case may be...I am just joking I am sure its in his head or he gay | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:15:24 PM | My ex had an issue with not being able to cum during sex as well. It was great as I'm a horn dog so he could go forEVER and rock my world. However, then I started to feel bad that he wasn't getting off. Ok, I got over it. LOL
Ends up...it had to do with a med he was taking. Once he switched his med he was back to his same old self (with regard to cumming) - so if this is the case with your guy...careful what you ask for...you may be better of with a human dildo as opposed to switching meds. LOL I'm just saying.... | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 5:12:12 AM | This isn't really the place to bare ones soul...but
I also experience this issue,
I have stopped playing for the Yankee's
I have sought medical help
I have seen a councelor
It's not the meds
It's not an unknown illness
it is all in my mind, it is born from my past, my "X" thought that the manly emmissions were the most disgusting thing ever, after sex she would immediately shower and douche, if I had a wet dream ,,,well it was as close to the end of the world as we have ever come. outside of a frontal lobotomy there is not much help for me, on the TV show 2 1/2 men Charlie Sheen said once to John Cryer ' Nice guys finish in the shower"
This said, you could sooth his tattered soul, it is after all a trust issue, you could help him when he's taking care of things and when the deed is done take a moment, play with the deposit, draw a heart on your belly with it , touch it, feel it, taste it, let him know it's ok, he wasn't a bad boy, he did good, and that you want more, no presser just that it's ok | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:52:14 AM | | I say just accept what is. I have a friend with this problem. I also know women like this. They still enjoy sex AND they all say the same thing, that it's annoying that every partner thinks they are going to be the one to change it or wants to be the one to change it. Some people are just wired that way. Accept it and relax. Enjoy what you have. It will make the relationship better for all involved. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 10:07:25 AM | | Orgasms are overrated. If you keep pressuring him, he's not gonna want to have sex with you either. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 12:33:21 PM |
boyfriend cant cum during sex
Sometimes the woman exerting a tight squeeze as he's doing the deed is what's needed.
I agree. Pump the way he pumps; I think you'll be fine.
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:30:46 PM |
he has said that it gets irritating when girls are on a mission to make him cum. It puts him under pressure
It is annoying when a guy does this to me from past experience. But then with a couple of guys it has been so easy. It's psychological for me.
I just think when u are giving him pleasure you might try a few things....but if it isn't in his mind, then it may not work.
If he can get off with his hand, then the pressure OR lack thereof, rythmn, and what he is thinking is getting him to come. He needs to let go and trust you and relax in the bedroom and out of it. So maybe he hasn't "reached that level yet."
It probably feels like rejection to you. It would to me.
You could use it to your advantage....this type of protein is really good for the skin. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:03:29 PM | | Yes he is choking the chicken a little too much. Tell him to stop it for a week and then have sex or send him to a therapist. | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:09:06 PM | See...I told my brothers if they jacked off too mcuh they wouldn't be able to cum during sex...
Nah really....cock ring maybe?
~Welder's girl~ | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/27/2008 1:18:36 AM | | There is a technique called milking his prostrate, involves your finger, up a one way street the wrong way, be gentle, but it works. Problem is will he still respect you in the morning ????? | |
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/27/2008 6:27:50 AM | There is a bit of a double standard here.... alot of woman report not being able to cum during intercourse..... but if a guy is having trouble then it is a problem..... 
That said.. most guys can cum from intercourse....
Try playing around with different positions and depth of penetration and speed
Also does he use lube when he masterbates.... if he does maybe using some lube( even if you don't need it) might make him cum easier
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| boyfriend cant cum during sex
Posted: 4/27/2008 6:33:13 AM | | many people have the same problem both male and female, its really not a big problem, well it shouldnt be. Give him space and whatever and one day when he really relaxed he will give ya suprise | |
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