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Posted: 3/24/2008 3:53:22 PM | Tell him if his word is not worth something you will be moving on. Integrity is everything in a relationship. Strip away all the new magic and all you have left is the guy that didn't keep his word on the first night...whether you asked him to do it or not..he said he would do it...and didn't.
sending Ima a hot fudge sundae....with a hot firefighter to feed it to her hahaha! | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/24/2008 3:57:49 PM | | i also met a lovley lad on here and to start with was the same story,he said he had his profie deleted and i found out it was just hidden,i then got his pass word and seen what he had been at.we had a huge row over it but it woke him up were together 6 months now and i love him to bits.i just think men get hooked on this sort of thing and find it hard to give it up even though they have no intention of meeting the girls they chat to.if this guy is traveling an hour to meet you he must have some interest.tell him straight up to go on it on ur computer then u can see for urself if the mgs he is sending are just friendly or not....best of luck | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/24/2008 4:48:29 PM |
doesn't fly with me so I dumped him. I realized that when Easter came and went and I didn't hear a word from him that he was out for one thing only
You dumped him and expected to hear from him on easter?
He was probably celebrating easter with one of his new "friends" You know, one that didn't dump him.  | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/24/2008 4:57:20 PM | | Hi I read your article on broken hearts . Its difficult to say what might be on his mind ...He might be telling the other women that he had found his love and for them to look elsewhere or he maybe still interested in another woman too but wanted to try out several women till he found out the right one .......But if you put the Lord first in all that you do HE will direct your paths . As Jesus said ....seek first the kingdom first and "all" these things will be added to you . I guess it all depends on how bad you want "these things" to be added to you . Blessings follow these words ..........Aho , TwinEagle3crows | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/24/2008 5:07:28 PM | | 1 week and he is falling for you and you are falling for him? maybe I'm getting cynical in my old age. OP, words don't mean much - wait a while and see if his actions match his words. It's sweet that he hid his profile -while you're waiting for his actions to catch up to all his words, do a search, you'll probably find that he has another profile. | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/24/2008 7:21:14 PM | | ""You also need to make a point of staying with him. to see what living arrangements he has.""/... What is the point of this blonde. Make a point of staying with him ?? What kind of advise is that you are giving this girl??? Please elaborate as I think a few of us (as well as myself) are confused as to why? I just dont understand...................... | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:53:13 PM | WOW.. I assumed this was a question from a lil girl.. this is a 40yr old women that should know better by now. WAKE UP...saying/committing too much too soon is always a BIG RED FLAG even if they really mean it, theres gotta be something wrong with them either way, Player or otherwise unstable. Take all said in online meetings/convos with a big grain of salt. I've learned not to discredit everyone but at the same time not be a sucker either... Keep on fishing  | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:24:50 PM | I'm sorry but it sounds like he's talking crap. He's keeping his options open. I'm sure he likes you, but what if something better comes along? Heaven forbid that he should miss out! (hopefully you're sensing the sarcasm). I think a lot of people do that on these dating sites, there's so many 'fish' out there, why call it a day after you've caught just one? Keep fishing and see how many more you can catch!
I'm also sorry that you guys believe you are falling for each other after only 2 weeks. I'm not saying its impossible to sense some real feelings coming on at that point - but falling? To me that means falling in love.
I do hope this works out for you, you seem sweet and you deserve to not be jerked around. If you are really into this guy, maybe you need to tell him 'look, I'm really into you and quite frankly I'm not willing to share. So if you want to be with me, be with ME. Otherwise, go find yourself another fish'. This could go either way - he will either think wow, this girl really likes me and is fighting for me. Or he could say holy crap woman, turn off the pressure cooker. You might not get the response you want but at least then you'll know he's not willing to commit. Good luck! :) | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/26/2008 8:21:26 PM | | Hes' not your boyfriend! 2 dates constitutes nothing. Maybe you scared him when you started calling him that or wanted to go all exclusive right away. Maybe he met someone else. Maybe you should nto get all serious right away or put your eggs in one basket? Becuase te chilren eat those easter eggs they are chocolate turds since peter is male rabbit. Anyway... Go find someone else if he doesn;t want to be your boyfriend. | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/26/2008 9:22:59 PM | | If you aren't sure he's interested in you, I wouldn't consider him a boyfriend. It's easy to get caught up in all this, but please remember that people-guys and girls online will say exactly what they need to say to make it seem like you are the only one, and they are really into you. Online dating could be the most excellent way to meet someone if everyone was truthful, respectful, and here for all the right reasons. Unfortunately, for what ever reason, people find it easy to tell lies and play games to eachother instead. Please don't get too discouraged, its a process and not very many people find the right one so quickly. Take your time and don't rush into anything. Good luck, Lisa | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/27/2008 8:52:23 AM | | Slow down Lizz, Your jumping into untreaded water. Keep your head above the see level and wait for the signs. Continue to get to know him but realize you can't be falling for him, you don't know him. You kinda come across as incredibily desperate, I only say this because you went on a date and are worried about the status of it. Realize your value and stand strong, he seems to have talked you up but only time will tell if he is a man of his word. I think you should try to not get caught up so fast. Possession of his heart shouldn't be your focus. The rythum of your hearts beating together takes practice and time. Basically, take a minute to think about why your upset and realize what will be will be and you are still in comand of happiness. Dust your shoulders of and follow your instincts, they tend to be picking up waves you are unaware of. | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/27/2008 9:05:50 AM | | hello...................you are on PLENTY OF FISH.........he's a guppie...go find another FISH! love should not hurt....poof...be gone already...im getting tired.... when his attention is on YOU only...then you'll know it's a good one....good luck...no more drama...maybe that's why he's still fishing.... | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/27/2008 10:49:33 AM | I am a kind of guy that falls fast and i have an exwife and an ex girlfriend and a lot of battle scars from it. the only good that has come of it is 3 wonderful children that i do everything and anything for. But I am taking my best friends advice and slowing things down and looking to start a good friendship and then building a strong relationship. i have learned that moveing at the pace you guys are only leads to extreame hurt and children that don't have a strong stable home.
The other things is a lot of theas hot great looking guys on systems like this are mostly looking for a notch on the bed post. I am not that inosent I started on her to get lucky but realise I don't want that I want something long lasting and for real. The bottom line is take it slow and make sure it is for real and guard your heart and take it slow love at first sight on the internet is only a mith and 90% of men are not what they seem. | |
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| i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/27/2008 11:05:53 AM | after two dates and a week you call him YOUR boyfriend? wow  did he even have a hook on his line... ??? just baffels me that a intelligent person can be so nieve about this web site... you don't know anything about him,. other than the b.s. he's throwing your way.. sounds to me like you need to spend alittle more time with a guy before you assume that he loves you after two dates... drop back and regroup and don't give him another shot at your heart... he's not the one trust me .....  | |
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