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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:24:46 PM | Another ugly one.......damn....I might have to commit polygamy........ 
OT......Being faithful has nothing to do with looks, but much more to do with character, caring, sharing and making sure each other has no desire to ever go elsewhere....... 
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:31:27 PM | Being faithful to me is a reflection of how I respect myself first of all.
I've respected myself enough that I've never cheated or been tempted to. Even at the not so good times in a relationship. Maybe you could say I like myself enough to not cheat, I'm sure if I ever did, I wouldn't feel too good about myself. And my self respect is something I'm fiercely protective of.
It works well for me and something that won't change. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:33:47 PM | Pretty woman ~ make her husband look small
pretty soon ~ have a big down fall
For my personal point of view
get an ugly girl to marry you.
You make an ugly woman your wife
you'll be happy for the rest of your life. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:42:48 PM |
I have seen guys cheat with women that did not hold a candle to their wives in the looks department only as faithful as their opportunities those men are!!
You must be one kinky woman... watchin' those guys gettin' it on with women who aren't their wives. Nice.
Ur hawt, I'm ugly.... but I'm not married, so you wouldn't have the chance to watch me cheat....
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:45:03 PM |
So are you saying we are as faithful as our options would allow?
The OP was about marriage, so what options are you speaking of? If you're committed and involved, the options are to stay and try to make it work or leave.
If you're in a relationship and exploring other options..there's a word for that. And faithful isn't it!  | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:48:59 PM | I always have the hawts for guys who own yachts.
The best relationships are forged from a two
individuals with similar levels of intelligence,
And who are similarly attractive!!!
Oh ya and sexually compatible!!!!!!
compatible personality traits, shared values,
a commitment to adapt to each other’s idiosyncrasies ... | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:53:28 PM | I'm sorry, not going to look that link up. But - do you honestly mean to tell me, there are people out there that spend their time looking into the mirror and saying "I'm hawt - thank goodness my spouse isn't as hawt as me"? Good grief.
Some of the most gorgeous (People Magazine) folk in the world have been cheated on, so, where does that leave this thread? | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 6:58:15 PM | Damnit....now I have to go change my profile:
Woman seeking Buttarse Fugly Man!.... maybe we can ask Big Fish to make that an option eh?..
seems like the only way I am going to find my true love here ...  | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 7:22:09 PM | | I have heard the same thing. I think it's because a less than attractive man or insecure man would feel like he has something so much greater than he ever thought he would that he treats her better than anyone else would to make sure he keeps her. Besides that how he looks on the inside is so much more important. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 7:25:16 PM | | WesternRose and pof 'ers I guess I didnt say, but that was my step-mother! And I use that term loosely!!!!!!! So I appoligize! My real mom is a great woman! Dad was a drunk! I love him! He was lonely! I told him, instead of getting married to her, he'd of done better bringing in the dogs from outside! They smell 3 times better, and there glad to see him when he gets home! Please dont get me started on her! | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 7:38:00 PM | Oldie.......Wheeeeeeeewwwwwww.....good news for you!....
Bad news for me... I thought you would qualify!...being from genetically fugly stock...damnit... my search for the truly fugly man continues....  | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 7:47:58 PM | I have seen guys cheat with women that did not hold a candle to their wives in the looks department only as faithful as their opportunities those men are!!
perhaps the females could group together and not be with married men, but no, that can't happen, can it? there's always women around who find it exciting to try to mess up a marriage...guys can only do so much else it'd be called rape...the cheating has lots to do with another woman really making it happen...it's a fun thing to them...it shows in their minds that they are just as good or better than another woman. A man's motivations I see as more direct, though not good of course. The thing is, all cheating requires the go ahead from a female.
OK, I am ready for the aerial raid. I am anticipating bombs being dropped overhead.
P.S. I am making myself really ugly right now. :) | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 7:51:18 PM | Hey no bombs from me..I totally agree..with this part of your post crap!
it shows in their minds that they are just as good or better than another woman. A man's motivations I see as more direct, though not good of course. The thing is, all cheating requires the go ahead from a female. | |
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| Ugly Husband Key To Successful Marriage
Posted: 3/24/2008 7:58:10 PM | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - no, that is a myth, although a rather powerful one.
We are not some heavenly descendent species with some profound or esoteric sense of beauty - we're animals, dull predictable animals.
Beauty is truly in the bell curve. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 8:00:54 PM | | Since few agree on who's more attractive than the next person, it's rather a moot study. Add to that, not everyone cares one wit about looks, so they don't choose (even at the beginning) to date someone because of what they look like, many choose personality. Attraction is a funny thing, there is hope for everyone, but we are not always attracted to those who are attracted to us, and the other way around of course. Too many people waste their time and get hurt by trying to force someone to be attracted to them. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 8:34:00 PM |
Frankly my dear after working with pollsters and hiring pollsters to produce 'results' I can tell you that I call that total and utter BS research. .....some cultures men are looking for a woman with wide hips to shoot out many babies....other cultures it is an arranged marrriage...others simply business ...how much family money is in the future... some based on the size of the cranial lobe... ..so I don't buy into this 'Research'. I can get a Government Grant to do Research too...and submit a proposal and maybe use the POF members to provide me with answers eh?
What cave did you emerge from? Is there no end to this profound ignorance or is it a disease.
1. A proposal is written before a grant are awarded.
2. No, you would not be able to secure a grant because the requirements are education and expertise in a particular area.
3. You obviously have no concept of a "pilot" study.
4. Phrenology was discarded in the early 1900's.
Simply put, your arguments make little to so sense at all and you admit to being a felon. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 8:51:33 PM | | I think the idea behind this quote is that if the wife's husband is less attractive than her, he a) thinks he's married up and that he doesn't want to jeopardize that by having an affair, b) wouldn't want to have an affair because his wife is pretty damn attractive, and/or c) he's too ugly a skid to attract other women so he's almost certain to not get sex from other attractive women. B/c she is much prettier than the women he might be able to snag then he may pass on the greener pastures that up close seem pretty draught-ridden. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 10:01:35 PM | {{I have never laughed so hard in my life..I swear to God I think my fat cracked a rib!!
OMG }}
You will be happy to note...I didn't need a trip to the ER....besides if I called 911 they'd have needed a huge crane to lift my fat arse into the ambulance ( LMAO)
Anyway, I hate to bust b@lls or bubbles, but looks have little to nothing to do with infidelity. Maybe to some, if you 'buy' down that person will never step out on ya etc....but if you TREAT a person POORLY....if they have any brains or self-respect they are going to move on to the BBD ( bigger better deal for those who have NO clue what that means).
That being said...I've dated handsome to FUGLY, but I have to say that the men who treated me the best weren't necessarily handsome or FUGLY, but they LOVED me. If a person doesn't truly care about you ( though sometimes that doesn't even matter) as a person....it won't work anyway. I think that folks meet, date and marry for even odder reasons.
Though I'm beginning to believe, why buy the whole PIG, when all we end up with is a bite sized oscar meyer weiner.
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