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 Wishes Granted

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 5/28/2008 10:57:14 PM

So there it is. Ladies, you all need to pursue Quasimodo for a healthy relationship
It's all in the guy's delivery... Quasi had some serious game, as did Cerino DeBergerac
 hnova

Joined: 8/12/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 12:57:37 AM
I guess it's a good thing that there are many more good looking women than good looking men =p. I think it has to do with men just not taking care of their 'looks' as much as women do.
 Messalina1

Joined: 2/21/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 1:27:35 AM
On one hand my dad always said: The woman has to be beautiful, and the man has to be slightly better looking than a monkey, on the other hand I don't believe anything reported by FoxNews.
 Venus Duran

Joined: 10/18/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 7:17:26 AM
I know you have all heard this song.

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife. So from my point of view, get an ugly woman to marry you.
 ibscrooge

Joined: 3/18/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:48:48 AM
Dang it ! well since acording to the ladies on POF there are no ugly ladies here and since you all are extremely beautiful that must mean in order to marry an ugly girl I am just going to have to go somewhere else
 bacalao

Joined: 5/2/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:09:07 PM
Ugly women make better lovers
 nolamichelle

Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 2:04:07 AM
Interesting because I have been married to one of each, from one extreme to the other. One was so hot, everybody else wanted him and luckily I had a son with that one who also got the looks. One soo ugly that he never wanted children which was a good thing, also. But was jealous and possessive.

So in conclusion to this study, what the hell do psychologists really know? have they married one of each to test their studies?
 Triumvirat

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2008 1:05:20 PM
I guess the key is to be able to have sex with someone you consider to be"ugly"...some are better at it than others.
 Bondgyrl

Joined: 7/21/2007
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Posted: 6/16/2008 10:12:00 PM
This post was just begging to be commented on. How can you define ugly?? What one person finds attractive another may find a turn off. Some people have differing tastes to others so I don't see how this "study" can make judgment on something so huge. There would no doubt be so many factors involved as to why a marriage may or may not work. How can you know exactly what they are? I like men twice my age but a friend of mine won't date anyone more than 5 years older than her and finds my choice in some men "questionable". Some people just can't stand the idea of being with the same person for more than a few years, where other's can't imagine being single a day in their lives.
I do believe there is someone out there for EVERYONE!!! It may seem hard but you just have to put yourself out there or atleast find someone willing to drag your "ugly" butt out and about. I thought I was an ugly duckling till I was dragged out of my shell, now I feel like a swan. If two people really and truly love each other than they WILL make it work.
 Life is an adventure!

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 6/16/2008 10:30:07 PM
Great personal plug!lol
 stellarbystarlight

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 6/17/2008 1:02:54 AM

How can you define ugly?

I think the concept of this thread is basically to marry someone so unattractive that no one else will want to take them away from you, or someone that doesn't have any other person as an option.
 GreenOlivesYum

Joined: 11/27/2007
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Posted: 6/17/2008 4:28:36 AM
MOST MEN ARE UGLIER THAN WOMEN THOUGH, ESPECIALLY WHEN THE MEN GET OLDER. I DONT THINK IT REALLY MATTER THOUGH BECAUSE THE LONGER THEY ARE TOGETHER THE MORE THEY START TO LOOK LIKE EACH OTHER ANYWAY. EVER SEEN TWO REALLY REALLY OLD PEOPLE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THEY LOOK EXACTLY ALIKE WHILE THEY FART THROUGH THE LOCAL WALMART?
 trailviews

Joined: 8/14/2006
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Posted: 6/17/2008 5:00:51 AM

How can you define ugly?? What one person finds attractive another may find a turn off. Some people have differing tastes to others so I don't see how this "study" can make judgment on something so huge.

Because the study never used the term "ugly", this was made up by the media. In the study, they used raters to determine whether the man or the woman in the couple was more attractive than the other. Both people could've been ugly or extremely attractive. They just looked at a person's relative attractiveness to their spouse.
 ibscrooge

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Posted: 6/28/2008 6:44:01 AM
ok ill admit it I am completely UGLY. I am so ugly I won the ugliest truck driver award So which of you absolutely gorgeous women is going to take me home What do you mean Angelina Jolie wont answer my call

Marry who you are comfortable with and if they are ugly to someone else that shouldnt matter to you at all.
 frankiethepunk

Joined: 6/10/2008
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Posted: 6/28/2008 9:23:25 AM

The best marriages are those where women marry men who are less attractive than themselves, research has found.


Bingo! Scientific proof why all you hot looking women need to e-mail me now.... I'll be waiting.
 ebr55

Joined: 11/13/2007
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Posted: 6/28/2008 10:37:14 AM
You are so right. My ex 's cheating had everything to do with opportunity and nothing to do with taste. His children would see some of these women and could only say "Must be good sex Dad cause there isn't anything else."
 marita_b

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Posted: 6/28/2008 7:38:17 PM
first of all,...

They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but,...
I believe Ugly is as well,....

I have met several physically appealing,...yes even beautiful people who were ugly right to the bone,......

And I know a few where the reverse is also true,....
That being people who were considered homely or even ugly outwardly some born that way some through some physical deformity,... that are the most beautiful people I know,...

There are more than a few of both categories among these pages,....
You figure out which is which,....
 1_blonde

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 6/28/2008 7:41:16 PM
All of my husbands were ugly men.... I got rid of them anyway. Hey, they were always wanting to know if I was looking at someone else...... of course I was, they were ugly.. lololololol.


Sophia
 tracey61

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 6/29/2008 2:17:46 AM
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - what happened to personality and charm.....
 SwishZone

Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2008 3:18:39 AM
Well think if I was blind I would have formed better relationships for sure.... But then I have beautiful children.. maybe my ex's good looks were important!
 Themedinaman

Joined: 6/21/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2008 3:32:25 AM

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - what happened to personality and charm.....


ebay, Entertainment Memorabilia section.
 lindy_3333

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Posted: 7/26/2008 9:14:41 AM
Totally agree with the thought that ugly is also in the eye of the beholder! I have know some "ugly" men who become physically attractive in time due to who they are. I know some very physically attractive men, who become much less good looking with time once their inner selves become visible. Thus "first impressions" aren't always good!

Not sure a ugly (to me) husband would be MY key... but honestly, I have to be able to say I can "kiss that face"! Some handsome men I find very unappealing physically. Some who aren't what I would call close to handsome, I find appealing. I guess it is all in each of our own minds what we like and do not like.

Many get so offended when I say I just do not find their looks to my liking. Of well, I am positive my own aren't appealing to all too. Why take offense? It is variety that makes life so wonderful!! I wouldn't even want to pursue someone who didn't like what I looked like to some degree. So why do people get so offended and defensive when someone speaks truth and from the heart? Makes no sense but that person is very insecure. Just move on.

If everyone were attracted to just anyone, none of us would be HERE!

There is a song about making an "ugly woman your wife and be happy for the rest of your life". Sad.... So this is just the same idea with opposite gender.

More important, in my opinion, is finding someone who fits with your likes and dislikes. What you don't care for can be more important than sharing likes if that something creates tension.

Have you gone to any class reunions over time? OMG... Some of those popular boys and girls are now OLD and have awful personalities..... And some who weren't so popular aged well indeed and are very likable!! Guess some were indeed riding on looks alone! LOL

The outside fades anyway(we all age differently) .. and what relationship you have as a whole is what gets you through life anyway, not looks. Take a close look at values, intellect, open-mindedness and so many more things that can be found in a wonderful mate!!

Happy Fishing everyone!!


Linda
 indehills

Joined: 2/23/2008
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Posted: 7/26/2008 9:23:23 AM

The best marriages are those where women marry men who are less attractive than themselves, research has found.

The only reason a person would intentionally seek someone who is much less attractive than themselves is if they have severe self-esteem issues, and they are looking for someone who is less likely to have the opportunity to leave them for someone else.
 lindy_3333

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Posted: 7/26/2008 9:25:23 AM
Medina man.. Yeah.. could be. Ebay has everything else. Maybe we should all go there to find a mate!!

Do they sell "Ugly Husbands"?
 Gourmetchef50

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 7/26/2008 9:28:14 AM
good looking guys will cheat...thats why..they get women throwing themselves at them all the time..the candy is too sweet not to take a taste.
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