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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 3/26/2008 6:23:21 AM | well thats what it should be all about
about me
lol
i guess u come here read in the forum for a reson
an this reason of course concerning you
like u want or u need or u curious
but its all you
right?
so whats wrong with discussing something with others about me ??? | |
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 3/26/2008 6:46:40 AM | There was a lengthy period of time when I dated foreigners exclusively as it turned out.
So yeah I've been there and done that.
Dunno about the inter-planetary or species nookie though..... still it depends on how long I remain single ! | |
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 3/26/2008 8:01:17 AM |
so whats wrong with discussing something with others about me ??? .....Absolutely nothing, however there are so many 'about me threads' which you can refer to which cover the topics you wish to find answers to. Given that you are new here, you really need to read the forum rules. No1 Do a search otherwise your threads could be mistaken for 'self pity threads'.
Why is it that people find things that they assume others don't approve of about themselves? You are who you are accept it. | |
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 3/27/2008 6:15:32 AM | Who cares where someone is "from"?
If they "do it" for you there's no ignoring it!
I love those huge, big Samonan boys! They're hot!
To me, it's more about personality! If someone turns you on ............. you don't get to choose that. It just is......................
What sexually appeals to you is just your primal instinct. Someone either drives you wild............. or not!
Nationality is not an issue for me! If someone makes you hot............. there is no escaping that! | |
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 3/27/2008 6:43:08 AM | a better question might be ..... can a smart ass aussie set up a profile in POF as some bogus new australian and then pen inane questions to the forum?...
the answer is yes
another question would be "has the prophet mark spoken?" | |
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 4/1/2008 4:00:36 AM | I love non-Australians.... :)
Or should I say..
I love travelling, love meeting and learning new cultures.. and trying new things and experiencing new foods and hearing about lives that are completely different to mine..
I find that I have a thousand more questions to ask people who don't originate from Australia, I am genuinely interested in finding out about their lives and it keeps me engaged..
I guess I find my own life boring in comparison to hearing about the lives of those who have lived overseas. ? :) :)
I also have found that generally the non-Australians/new-Australians that I have met in my life, have treated me better, "and people in general better", "like you first, judge you later, instead of judge you first, like you later".. and have been much more friendlier. (maybe out of necessity because of language-barriers and/or "holiday mode", or for the want of meeting new people.. and such, but regardless of the reason of "why" .. the one's I have met, 'are' friendlier.. and I love friendly people).
That being said, I still love Australians too... but do get excited about meeting people who aren't from here. And I warm to those who have struggled to get here, and really anyone who has moved their entire lives to a new country, it's incredible to me what they give up to have a life in Australia.
And when I fall in love, it doesn't seem to be towards one particular race.. I have fallen in love with a South African, an Indian, had a major crush on an African for a while, and the rest have been Aussies. But there's nothing unattractive about people from another country or race, so long as they are friendly!
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Posted: 4/1/2008 5:41:32 AM | I wasted ten years of my life.
Ten years. Am I bitter? Oh no. I just watched ten years of effort and life decisions go out the window because I am white and she was Indian. She chose her parents in the end. Told me I was a failure at life, a complete waste of time, that my family sucked, that I was going nowhere... it got a little nasty.
I did it. I am not sure I could do it again. Just the cultural aspect, I simply cannot do it again. If the family is 'aussified', no dramas, but someone whos family adheres to their home culture, I just could not throw a huge chunk of my life away again and get hurt like that.
It is why I am here now in case anyone ever wonders. From highschool, through uni, through years of work, we were together. I never dated anyone else, never touched anyone else. I am a little out of touch with the whole dating thing as a result and cannot meet people through work, so here I am. Woo. My life story in a nutshell. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 4:50:35 PM | hi every one i am a kiwi single and would date a nice aussie ladie any day
come get a grip on it so to all ladies been here for 11years but they say i have still got a great voice six for sex and fish and chips fish and chops 
have a good day
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| would u do it and be in relationship with someone not aussie
Posted: 4/1/2008 6:05:01 PM |
I find that I have a thousand more questions to ask people who don't originate from Australia, I am genuinely interested in finding out about their lives and it keeps me engaged.
I wasn't born here but my culture isn't very exciting ! However... ask away :o) | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:29:25 PM | who really is an aussie thru n thru these days??????? think we're all preety much from overseas one way or another the only real aussies here are the pure aborigines and havent seen any on this site!!!
if u click with someone of course u have to have a go.... everyone needs some spice in their life!!!!
if it feels good do it!!! now this has made me thirsty
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Posted: 4/2/2008 9:11:54 PM | crazytimes1 wrote,
Ten years. Am I bitter? Oh no. I just watched ten years of effort and life decisions go out the window because I am white and she was Indian.
Yes, different cultures but same race.
All Asian cultures when you get done to the nitty gritty of things, evolve around the man’s responsibility to provide for the woman and kids. European culture also demands the same security from the man but for some reason that factor is overlooked or rather not talked about. You haven’t mentioned the “financial status” of your marriage and I don’t blame you as it’s a very personal thing. I guess this has been passed down through the ages where traditionally the man, is always the head of the family and the main provider.
And,
I did it. I am not sure I could do it again. Just the cultural aspect, I simply cannot do it again. If the family is 'aussified', no dramas, but someone whos family adheres to their home culture, I just could not throw a huge chunk of my life away again and get hurt like that.
I think you’ve answered your own question there.
no_bait_here wrote,
who really is an aussie thru n thru these days??????? think we're all preety much from overseas one way or another the only real aussies here are the pure aborigines and havent seen any on this site!!!
if u click with someone of course u have to have a go.... everyone needs some spice in their life!!!!
if it feels good do it!!! now this has made me thirsty
Well there’s a fact, who in their right mind could argue with that?
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Posted: 4/3/2008 12:41:24 AM |
All Asian cultures when you get done to the nitty gritty of things, evolve around the man’s responsibility to provide for the woman and kids. European culture also demands the same security from the man but for some reason that factor is overlooked or rather not talked about. You haven’t mentioned the “financial status” of your marriage and I don’t blame you as it’s a very personal thing. I guess this has been passed down through the ages where traditionally the man, is always the head of the family and the main provider. I earn enough, even before war pay. I will always be white, regardless of the money. | |
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Posted: 4/3/2008 5:49:32 AM | "Ten years. Am I bitter? Oh no. I just watched ten years of effort and life decisions go out the window because I am white and she was Indian. She chose her parents in the end. Told me I was a failure at life, a complete waste of time, that my family sucked, that I was going nowhere... it got a little nasty."
I also got dumped by an Indian ex-g/f once, with family pressure being one apparent reason (though she didn't say horrible things like that to me). I think though a major reason was her family were pressuring her to study very hard and she found the burden of a relationship on top of that too much. It didn't end as amiciably as it should have, but I don't think all Indian or Asian women should be judged by the actions of one person.
Indian and Asian families do have some substantial cultural differences between Western ones, but if the people do love each other and are reasonable, they can and do find ways to resolve these issues. It sounds like you were let down in a way which gave you a hard landing, and this woman (irrespective of culture) certainly should have handled things in a more careful and mature way than she did. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 1:29:58 AM | My ex husband was Spanish (probably still is lol) and he was a great guy, but some cultures do raise women to be basically nothing more than slaves with no minds of their own who stay home and have babies, not that there's anything wrong with that if it's your choice, but personally I couldn't be with a man who treated me as anything less than his equal, and he better be able to cook otherwise he'll starve lol
ronda :)
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Posted: 4/14/2008 8:02:56 AM | OP Define Aussie. What do you mean exactly? Born in Australia? Mixed parental blood? Aboriginal?
Somewhere down the line we all have mixed blood.....just different percentages.
My mother is Polish, my father is Aussie and I dated a German bikie.....didn't tell my mother though or the shi* would have hit the fan!
In answer to your thread Yes I would date a person from a different culture and have done so. | |
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