| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:26:18 AM |
ALL MEN are not cheaters, dogs, liars, abusers, haters or whatever. . . .
No not all.
Lastest poll's claim a higher percent of women now cheat then do men. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:50:12 AM | hhhahaah@ latest poll..yet no reference, no specifics..blah.
whatever dude.
uh....ok..if that make you sleep better at night...so be
it is a proven fact that men are the hunter and gatherers...
they look for the best mate to procreate with....so be it...
move on and accept it..i dont see the dilemma.....
stop blaming the other sex for your actions...lame | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 1:00:29 AM | | Make better choices in men. Know their values. Sometimes what you want isn't what is best for you. There is a very good book out there that will explain to you what to look for. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 1:27:30 AM | YES... there are plenty of faithful and decent men... but you women all want tall dark and hansome.... Especaially Tall. [honestly, it kills me when I see women that are 5'3 and only want a guy that is 6 foot or over] Women seem to pick the same guys and these same guys find it so easy to get women that they don't appreciate them. Women don't seem to see this.
OH... believe it or not, some women drive guys off. Who can deal with Crazyness. Some men don't wander off... they just can't stand it anymore and leave. Life is too short for what some women try to put them through.
OH... you don't think women are ever anything but nice? Haaaaaaaa
This is a totally honest post. Watch some guys defend women 'just to look good' lololllololl | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 1:43:56 AM | yes there is load of faithful men out there im one of them i dont cheat or lie but is there any faithful ladys out there who want a man in there lives ? i,ve been on this site now about a week i,ve got on with two sexy young lady's who don't live far from me we give each other our phone numbers and we started to txt each other we aranged to meet to have a chat the first one was friday just gone she couldnt stop lieing and i took everything in what she put on the txt's we sent each other but when it come to meet up all the lies come out thats not for me so i ignore her now the 2nd was saturday she jumped feet first and move to fast for me when she txt me ( ie ) are you missing me ,
how can i miss some one if i dont know her or even met her so when i said no she blanked me that not a lady who im looking for i want a lady who we can be friends and then when we know each other then take the nxt step im just a down to earth guy who any lady can trust | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:06:16 AM |
Quote{where is your responsibility for picking the guy who cheats}
transparent butterfly; I totally agree with you that there are definitely decent guys out there. The majority are either related to me, gay or married already to ****es that walk all over them. The rest are very hard to find.
Please don't insult us by saying that we make our men cheat on us or that we are purposely looking for cheaters. 'I'm out to find me a cheater today.' The men and women who are cheaters need to take responsiblity for their own actions. I give my best to others and expect the same in return.
Are all men cheaters? Absolutely not. Are all women gold digging sluts? Absolutely not. I don't think anyone really thinks ALL men are cheaters. I know I don't.
I think you misunderstood my statement. There are many times that the signs that a person is not the best choice for us is right there in front of us, but we ignore the signs for one reason or another, then act all shocked and surprised when the person does whatever it is we suspected they might do. At that point, part of the blame is our own.
We knew, we suspected, it didn't feel right . .. whatever it may have been, but we ignored that little spidey sense and continued in the relationship full steam ahead ignoring the signs because we did not want to deal with them. Part of the blame for our heartache is then our own.
I apologize if you, or anyone else, took my post to mean that I believe that someone was actually actively looking for someone to cheat on them.
~tb~ | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 8:40:25 AM | | There are many great guys out there, but they have been labeled as a Nice Guy. The 2 words that no man wants to hear about himself. Sounds like the OP is just been intrested in the wrong men. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:43:18 AM | Honey....All men cheat it's part of there nature, 65% of men cheat, 25% think about it,
15% think, look and do nothing...
If the man your with cheats let him it's the thrill of getting caught, they always come back.
I dated someone for 11 years, he cheated on me and I did it back to him...He did not like it, an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth..but the worst part, I cheated with his best friend...Now he is married with 2 children and his wife is cheating on him and he hates it...what comes around goes around.....he tells me he made a big mistake and wished he married me and he is very unhappy.
Just enjoy yourself and what happen take it one day at a time... | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 9:53:10 AM | Yes,
There are a lot of guys who are faithful.. who truly appeciate their wives and women in general.
A happy, contented man, who's needs are being met does not look for an affair.
You just have to keep looking for the right guy..
Good luck.. Jeff | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:57:33 AM | I'm sure there are all sorts of people 'out there', including decent and faithful men.
If several different people are doing the same thing to one person, in this case you OP, consider taking some time off for some heavy-duty self-reflection. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 11:50:34 AM |
Honey....All men cheat it's part of there nature, 65% of men cheat, 25% think about it, 15% think, look and do nothing...
And 73% of statistics are completely made up on the spot.
Cheating is hardly part of men's nature. It's part of jerk's nature. Jerks can be either male or female. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 11:51:38 AM |
hhhahaah@ latest poll..yet no reference, no specifics..blah.
whatever dude.
uh....ok..if that make you sleep better at night...so be
it is a proven fact that men are the hunter and gatherers...
they look for the best mate to procreate with
It's a proven fact, yet no reference, no specifics. blah. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:03:32 PM | this is anecdotal, obviously, but the cheaters i have known (2 of them) have been women. they have really wrecked the completely amazing, sweet, considerate men they were with. now, me, on the other hand, i would never ever ever ever ever cheat, but definitely haven't landed men of the quality of my male friends who were cheated on...
i think cheating is one of the worst things you can do. | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:21:24 PM |
Honey....All men cheat it's part of there nature, 65% of men cheat, 25% think about it,
15% think, look and do nothing...
As opposed to all women being angelic creatures who are infallible and never cheat or even contemplate cheating on their spouse/significant other, right? | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 2:01:11 PM | okay well I have no idea where THIS stat comes from . . . .
All men cheat it's part of there nature, 65% of men cheat, 25% think about it,
15% think, look and do nothing...
most of the guys I know do NOT cheat. Something tells me these numbers are somewhat contrived . . . .
But, to answer the original question . . . . YES, OP . . . . there are PLENTY of decent, faithful, "good men" to be found. Once again, the "bad apples" so to speak, the "pirhannas" of the pond are giving the "good fish" a bad name.
If every woman that complained about her OWN poor choices were to give me just one dollar . . . . surely my car would be paid off by now, and I would probably own a new Harley, as well. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 2:46:49 PM | Quote{as opposed to all women being angelic creatures who are infallible and never cheat or even contemplate cheating on their spouse/significant other,right?}
Nope not at all HD. There are definitely women that cheat and contemplate cheating. No one should disagree with that. Someone should get some stats on that. But from what I've heard and experienced, some men cheat more than some women. I don't have any stats to back me up. It's just my personal experience. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 2:56:27 PM | well i feel as you do .......are there any decent men out there???
.....................NOT !!!!!! just get a friend with benefits at least you'll know where you stand.
I don't have one and not sure if i want one
but i know a lot of women who do that now and are happy and sane at the same time..LOL
life is too short to waste it on cheating hearts.
.most cheat because of the insecurity they have about thier size............... so the more conqured the bigger the man??? who knows
but it is his problem NOT YOURS
you look like a very pretty woman..move on and forget the jerk | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 5:05:36 PM | this post is nothing more than crap. this is nothing more than another idiot who's been sucked in by the left-wing feminist BS agenda and is looking for sympathy because of her bad choices in men.
here is wisdom....if you date guys that are nothing but sh#$, then that's exactly what you're gonna get....sh#$. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 6:51:32 PM | i used to wonder why out of all the women in the world why i would meet the worst ones. i finally realized that i had to change my way of thinking. if you keep finding these types of men look at the pool from which you are pulling. next set high standards for your self. watch the men observe them. my grangmother once said "if you watch a person when things are going bad you will see the truth about them revealed". hard times brings out the truth in people. most of all get to know the man before you get sexually involved. emotions sometimes can betray us.
KEEP YO HEAD UP! | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 8:48:52 PM | I am not sure that the bad boys are the unfaithfull men they are accused of being, It is a silly generalisation and a silly question.
I think the average man will tell you that faithfullness depends on the realtionship and many other influencing factors, as well as women, their are the people with personality disorders and impulse controll problems who are prone to many impulsive acts besides unfaithfullness, but apart from that most people will tell you that it is situational........ Depends on the situation
you do need to take responsibility for your half of it, and you are the other half of the problem.......
Bad boys can be faithfull loving men and should no tbe targeted quite so much, they usually attract unreasonable women, who are equally responsible for what occurs in those relationships, I know alot of so called bad guys and their women are usually the ones getting around and creating the problem, the men just switch off and drift to whoever is throwing herself at him at the time, for support.......
The whole topic is lame and unfounded......... | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 3/30/2008 8:55:09 PM | People want and expect to find a perfect human being to have a realtionship with and then to have some perfect realtionship, that is probl;em free for eternity......
It's not reality is it.........
The truth is Jesus Christ is long gone, and all you have to choose from are imperfect people.......
It s not about whether or not you find the perfect partner its about whether or not you can stand by the imperfect partner and get over it and accept each others imperfections. If your attracting unfaithfull men then perhaps you jsut need to accept it and focus on the more positive aspects of the relationship, and stop focusing on the unfaithfullness and it may just go away........
You will get whatever your focused on, so focus on something else........ | |
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| is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:53:40 PM | There are plenty of people who are faithful, and decent. The real question would be. How do you distinguish the faithful(and decent), to the ones who are not? =]
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