| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:08:41 PM | chat-happy- I'm not going to validate your ego-stroking question about whether ALL married men are a good lay... because I'm sure that many aren't. Even though they're looking for something they're not getting at home... some just plain suck in bed.
Just like unmarried men. Some are just BAD lovers.
I've been with men who weren't married, but had girlfriends (I didn't know this at the time, and found out later), and was horribly disappointed with the performance. *shrug* | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:09:44 PM |
I will admit to having sex with a married man...
Summerbaby2006 - I don't mean to seem insensitive to the downside of your experience, honestly. But, just to be sure, and recognizing that you were hurt in the process, would you nevertheless put your experience into the "great sex" category? | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:12:08 PM |
chat-happy- I'm not going to validate your ego-stroking question about whether ALL married men are a good lay... because I'm sure that many aren't. Even though they're looking for something they're not getting at home... some just plain suck in bed.
ouch! LOL Fair point. Either way, you wouldn't be talking about me so my ego can take it. ;) | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 5:54:39 PM | | Look...who really cares if you had sex or a relationship with a married man. It takes two to tango. Whether you knew or not...who also really cares. I think ultimately it lies upon the married man to be honest and upfront. If he is then make your own choices based on the circumstances and what he shares with you and what you feel is worthy of your integrity. Above and beyond that....you get to live with your own choices. Also...I don't think most women do it for better sex....if that was the case..most women can find that when ever they choose to. They could choose a single man anytime most want to so women who pick married men I think are really falling for the lines that married men tell them. Lordy..who on earth would pick a married man with all the complications when so many single men are out there. So...I think when single women falls for a married guy it is only because they either want to or have been manipulated to believe the man will leave his wife to be with them. I may be wrong and if so..please enlighten me. | |
|
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/29/2008 6:14:32 PM | I know this doesn't sound good but I have been having an affair for 2 years with a married man.
He is alot younger then me. It is nothing but sex he comes to my house one or two times a week,,, We have a great time I never feel guilty or bad about it because we both know what it is...We never talk about his home life or anything like that...It will soon becoming to an end because he is moving...I will miss him but I can honestly say it has been alot of fun | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:50:00 PM | Been cheated on before, and i can tell you, its the most heart breaking thing you'll go through. Im not sure if your sleeping with a married man or looking too, or are just being general, but if you are, id urge you not too.
Ive been on the other end and been cheated on, and i can honestly say it was the lowest part of my life. WHen your so in love with the woman of your dreams, want to spend your whole life with her, and you find out they cheated, it kills you. Not nice.
Having gone through it, i know ill never cheat on a girlfriend or wife of mine. I know how much it hurts. it might be fun at the time, but its the aftermath of the partner / kids finding out. | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:41:45 AM | I have very little respect for anyone who cheats on their partner or who knowingly gets involved with someone else whom is involved. I respect other people's relationships even if they don't.
What kills me is how many men & women who will willingly cheat with a married or involved person, but yet they still expect their partners to respect THEIR relationship when they have one. Why expect something you aren't willing to do yourself? If you have no problem being the other woman/man, why expect your partner not to have someone on the side as well? Karma is a **** and what goes around will come around.
Btw, I actually respect people in open or alternative relationships. Atleast they are honest with their partners. | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/30/2008 8:21:36 AM | I do not chase after married men but surprisingly they far out number the singles who contact me.
My husband and I have an open marriage. One slight problem is that nobody believes that a married man has his wife's permission to play. Now that's something for another forum LOL | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/30/2008 4:32:30 PM | As a person who's been involved with a married man, I'll be honest.
What kills me is how many men & women who will willingly cheat with a married or involved person, but yet they still expect their partners to respect THEIR relationship when they have one.
I don't! My boyfriend/girlfriend is fully welcome to explore outside options. All I ask is that they're honest about it and don't lie. Otherwise, I don't care what they do as long as they practice their fun safely. I'm interested in the -person-, not their sex life. Fidelity isn't logical to me. I ask that they respect me enough to be honest, and I do the same for them. But it's so stupid to ask someone to only have sex with you for the entire time you're together. Geez. | |
|
| |
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 7:06:22 AM | ummm.......
I think that it's 21 women who have basically told us that sex with a married man has ranged form damn good to best ever. (4 of those women are talking about their own husbands).
A number of people have said it is wrong, reprehensible, etc., etc., but none of them have said they tried it and found it unenjoyable.
The number of people who have tried and and say it was bad is: ZERO!
Do I detect a pattern? LOL | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 11:34:46 AM | | as someone who admitted to having an affair with a married man i not once implied the sex was good because he was a married man . the sex was good because it was between two people who got to know each other and fell for each other . His being married had nothing to do with it . | |
|
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 11:49:18 AM | christi66:
I don't believe in a heaven or hell . so its all good
Just have to say - logically that argument fails miserably. To understand better why, go stand on a railroad track with a train approaching and repeat loudly to yourself that you don't believe in trains. Report back on whether or not that prevents the train from killing you.  | |
|
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 4:37:15 PM | | Since when is religion logical? Believing in a train, something that is tangible, touchable, and obviously real is very different than believing in a God that may or may not exist. You don't see entire sects of people going "Trains do exist!" or "Trains don't exist!" or "Well, they exist, but only this way...". Your entire argument about how her argument fails miserably is rather pointless. If you're going to compare religion, God, etc, to something tangible, good luck. Because ideology is a little different than a scientific invention people take to and from places on a regular basis. | |
|
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 7:28:11 PM | Lets face it.. Married or not married isn't going to really make a difference. It's more about the intinsity of the affair. Is it a mutual quicky where bothe are married? M/woman S/man... hours of sexual bliss? One time thing or on going?... The passion with in the "Affair" largly dertermines how wonderful it is or not. And how far gone is your relationship with your spouse anyway, if you can allow yourself to feel such a need?
I my self was mad as hell that my husband allowed me to feel so imcomplete. So insecure to the point that I felt I needed the touch of a strangers hands. What is that saying for my spouse, whom I have dedicated my life too? The only one I am allowed to turn to. My best friend and companion for life. I should be able to explore all of lifes beautiful little wonders with him. But when he has for what ever reason, suddenly became dissenterested and can no longer find it with in him to show me the affection I was once acustomed too. Yet doesn't want to let go of what we took so long to accomplish... What else can be done? The human body is designed to be satisfied. It's healing to the marrow of our souls. A vibrator can't replace the touch of the human hand. A dildo can't give you the passion you long to feel as your lover embraces you.
But when your lover reaches into that little toy drawer and says, " wich is your favorite?" All you can do is point and say... that one..... And only wish your spouse was still as enjoyable! Becuase thats who you really wanted to be with anyway.
Yeah, some of it was good. some of it was wonderful! And some of it was, OMG I didn't know it could feel that good! And if I had it to do all over again, I would still wish for my spouse to be as affectionate with me, so I didn't feel that need to begin with. | |
|
| |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/31/2008 8:17:35 PM | | dallasflier if i stood in front of a railroad track means id then believe in a heaven or hell ? i do not believe in the bible dear that is why i don't believe in a heaven or hell . I believe in a higher power but not what the bible teaches ... this is not a religion post so id say lets not get into a fight about the bible ok | |
|
Home
login 
