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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/1/2008 6:59:05 AM | | I truly admire the women that admit it good or bad as it may seem....If both knowingly go into it well morally it may not be right but and i know ill be bashed for this we all have our reasons that justify it to ourselves and the one we join in this.. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/1/2008 10:44:25 AM | | I had great sex with a married man every day when I was married lol I also had great sex with a married man that I wasnt actually married to when I was married..of course it was okd by both of our spouses first..Ive had amazing sex with single men too lol how good the sex is has nothing to do with them being married or not | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/1/2008 10:52:44 AM |
how good the sex is has nothing to do with them being married or not
OK....Maybe not in your situation since it was approved by both parties. Although having sex with a married man/women without the knowledge of the other spouses can be wrong. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/1/2008 11:25:47 AM |
I didnt say it wasnt wrong Im just saying the quality of sex has nothing to do with him being married or not married..the op made it sound like its better if the guy is married
OP here...
I never meant to suggest that it is ok/wrong, or that anything is better/worse if/because a guy is married/unmarried.
I am just curious what kind of responses the question gets. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/3/2008 1:50:52 PM | lol-ing at Vyper's post ...........and add me to the list - yes with the married man, although when we met, he said he was separated. To this day, he still enters my thoughts. At the time I thought the sex was fantastic, (we were late 20's) but in looking back, I wonder what in the heck was so fantastic about it - if I were to have the same sex now, I think it would become boring very quickly.
I often wondered about him being separated when we met....for all I know the word separation could have meant his wife and kids went to visit her folks who lived in a different town or state lol .... | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/8/2008 12:36:13 PM | 110 postings so far, but interest in the topic seems to have tailed off.
I've kind of lost interest in the question myself. LOL
Anyway, 25 responses were directly on topic and ALL OF THEM said that sex with a married man was good, damn good, or great.
Zero complaints.
I am going to look for some other topic now. LOL | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/8/2008 6:10:54 PM | OP.....You make this seem more like some damn popularity test that married men make better lovers. If that was really true, why would the previously quoted 40%-50% of married women be looking for it outside of her marriage? If her husband is such a stallion, why is she looking elsewhere? Were you not a great lay before you got married? Could it be all of the experience you've gathered with your SPOUSE that gave you the idea that you might be a great lover? Could it be only her opinion that you're a great lover? WTF?
When I was married I had incredible sex. While I'm single I have incredible sex. So what's the point?
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/8/2008 8:48:00 PM | hands up ,yep had a few affairs wit married men but hey shit happens the way i look at it im single not doing anything wrong he the one who married, and cheating , obvious something missing at home so its all good , just dont fall for one : | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/9/2008 7:27:11 AM | Just wanted to add to the question asked my story of sex with a married man. We were friends first, lovers later, the affair lasted for 7 years, it was wonderful!! I was divorced and he had been married for 32 yrs and unhappy. We loved, we laughed, we travelled together, and he was divorced 4 years into the affair. Three years later after living together, we were married and a joyous wedding it was!!! The wonderful life went on for 9 years and he became ill and passed away 2 1/2 years ago. I was involved in a successful, if short life with a married man. He was the love of my life and I am now wondering if I will ever find that kind of love again. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/9/2008 12:11:17 PM |
OP.....You make this seem more like some damn popularity test that married men make better lovers. ... So what's the point?
Umm, its an anonymous forum post on the internet. No point. Really. I am at work. I am bored. That's all.
Oh, and we're up to 29 women voting yes. Still not a single complaint. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/9/2008 1:36:18 PM | But OP, were all of these women who were married before having great sex with their 'then' husbands? Probably not. Funny how you didn't answer the 2nd part of my question.
If that was really true, why would the previously quoted 40%-50% of married women be looking for it outside of her marriage? If her husband is such a stallion, why is she looking elsewhere? Were you not a great lay before you got married? Could it be all of the experience you've gathered with your SPOUSE that gave you the idea that you might be a great lover? Could it be only her opinion that you're a great lover? WTF?
But wait, if I have great sex with a divorced man, will it be great because he was married before and therefore is now a great lover? Or if I have sex with a single man and he's a crappy lover, its because he's never been married? I think not. Any man can be a great lover if he takes the time to know our bodies and enjoys giving us pleasure-whether they be widowed, married, divorced, separated or never married.
I think you're getting a high number of 'positive' responses because the women that had crappy sex with a married man probably aren't bothering to reply.
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/9/2008 1:43:51 PM | well if a women is humping a married man they have no morals dont care and will screw anyone in there way I knew a women like that she was a one word alot like a terrorist infiltraits someone life and blows it apart... alot of evil people out there.. pssss if ya dont like ya partner tell them or dont be wth them and mess woth there heads wow a huge light bulb..it easy not complicated... dont sscrew up soemones life... alot.. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 4/9/2008 2:54:17 PM | well, i'm probley going to get blasted for this, but under the right conditions most married women will put out because they have a fight with their husband or their husbands ignore them or don't take care of them , especially long term marriages, they get stale , they lost the romance years ago or sometimes they just get pissed off really bad and of coarse they have to listen to their girlfriends or co-workers talk about their hot sex capades. all the above makes women feel neglected and unwanted making them a prime canidate for some sexual attention. Any guy that works around women can pickup on these women if he uses his head and has a sincere approach and sides with them using compassion to their delema.
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 7/26/2008 8:38:22 AM | "women that sleep with married men are whores and home wreckers. you chix kill me with your bullshit excuses blaming the man for their infidelity, i don't blame the men i blame the women. a man will always try to get laid, its up to the women whether or not the sex happens. these married guys didn't rape you, all of you spreaded your legs willingly."
Oh puuulllleeaaassse.
On the subject of home wrecking... let's take a really good hard look at ALL the parties involved... the husband, wife and other woman.
One specific situation I know of that is VERY FAR from being unique is that the wife has low or no sex drive after having kids... AND she won't bother to go to the doctor to do anything about it (oh and there are men that fall into this category as well... after all, some men suffer from ED).
So after a year or years of being rebuffed by his "wife" (and I put wife in quotes because to me, a marriage without intimacy ceases to be a real marriage), the guy is getting tired of working out his right hand.
One day he hits it off with another woman and he just can't contain himself because he has found something he lost a long time ago.
So let's study the situation... did the guy just wake up one day and say "I'm going to cheat"? Or do you think a lack of intimacy from the wife (and having no interest in doing anything about it) just might make her at least as much of a "home wrecker" as the other woman? | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man? Posted: 7/26/2008 8:47:34 AM | One other thing... I'm not saying that the situation I described is what happens 100% of the time, but I am saying it happens often enough to be statistically relevant.
And what I described isn't my situation, but a composite of people I know who have split up and their situations... and how someone gets to the point of looking for intimacy elsewhere. | |
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