| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 5:35:25 AM | I only had people to my faves, male and female if i have met them or have spoken to them for ages as they are my friends! and hope to either meet them or see them again! I hate it when people add you to there favourites when they have never spoken to you! Or you have chatted to you then just remove you and disappear!! Thats life I suppose! However the people on my faves are lovely! xx | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 12:30:52 PM | What I don't understand Is people say they have x amount of favourites and they don't know why they are there, also they don't talk to them, why not just click on the remove button?
I re-joined this site about two months ago and believe me I would be on fifty plus favourites by now had I of not removed them...my ego Is big enough as It Is!
My favourite list consists of a few friends and people I'm actively talking to.
You can guarantee If a man has a really nice photo ie Is good looking he will be on 50 or 60 favourites, even If his profile only says "ask and I'll tell" come on girls, just how shallow are you...don't feed their egos!!! | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 1:04:40 PM |
What I don't understand Is people say they have x amount of favourites and they don't know why they are there, also they don't talk to them, why not just click on the remove button? Exactly! I prune my "who has added me to their favourites list" once a week or so, removing those who dont talk to me ever! | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 2:05:26 PM |
Exactly! I prune my "who has added me to their favourites list" once a week or so, removing those who dont talk to me ever!
i do that but the only drawback is that i always look like billy no mates lol | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 4:34:41 PM | I avoid men who's profiles show they are on 23456789 fav lists as well as men with any testimonilas from women saying what great guys they are.
I am looking for one for myself, not for someone who gets off on attention from total strangers and likes his fragile ego massaged by strangers adding them to their fav lists.
Personally I delete anyone who adds me to their favourites - my profile shows I am on 1 person fav list but that person does not show on my edit option so can not remove  | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 5:24:17 PM | I have added a few to my favourites. Some are people that I know and talk to regularly. Others are people I have met through the site and email or speak to regularly as friends.
Other than that if I see a lady I think is nice I'll email her and add her to my favourites list. Otherwise you never know I might never find the profile again.
Met one cracking girl on ths site but sadly things didn't work out. We are still good friends. So now I am looking again | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 5:27:03 PM | Grumpyoldwoman: my profile shows I am on 1 person fav list but that person does not show on my edit option so can not remove damn and i thought you kept me there because you liked me .... 
and good point TG i have the habit of coming across a intresting profile when im 50 mile hopping ( click on pictures of people ) and i forget where they are etc so end up bouncing across the country trying to find them again ( apologies for the post my P key got jammed )
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 5:28:05 PM |
Met one cracking girl on ths site Just make sure you write testimonials for each other - to completely kill a chance to meet someone else...(see http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7217124.aspx)
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/15/2008 5:34:57 PM |
I would gladly write her a testimonial but she isn't on here any more. That was the problem she thought she was ready to date again, but after a while she realised she wasn't. So she took off her profile. Oh, and left me gutted
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/16/2008 4:22:38 AM |
Personally I delete anyone who adds me to their favourites - my profile shows I am on 1 person fav list but that person does not show on my edit option so can not remove
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/16/2008 8:08:22 AM | Oh no you lot don't start that! I'll get the blame for it all
I can see it now GOW will come back on line later and be listed in 500+ favourite lists and she'll end up kickin' my ass  | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/16/2008 10:43:13 AM | None, coz all the women on here seem the same to me. i.e. Time wasters - but I've been nominated as a favourite by women I've never been in contact with.
They don't post on the message board though - but if they did.  | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 5:42:23 AM | Know what you mean CD, which is why I don't bother with pm'ing much.
Very ordinary late middle aged women will be inundated with pm's which lead them to believe they're more attractive than they are..........especially if chaps in their teens and twenties contact them.
It's much more fun on the message board. :-) | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 7:20:09 AM | Fave to me is a bookmark for pages I want to revisit, maybe I want to email, haven't got time, can't think of anything, not sure if I want to, all sorts of reasons. Don't read too much into it. I find it amusing thos that delete them as soon as you add | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 7:40:26 AM | I find it amusing thos that delete them as soon as you add
And I find it amusing that someoen wants to add as favourite people he/she does not know....
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 7:41:25 AM | It's the point iof the website (to get to know ppl, which adding can lead to), and I gave the reasons I would do so in my post. | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 7:51:28 AM | compact disc
most of it is a waste of time, effort and space, the forums are just about acceptable tho.
for a guy , unless he is an absolute looker and can pose shirtless without showing any folds or is in the army and posing in his combat gear then you just dont stand a chance on here.
I could be completely wrong here, but I suspect that despite all their protestations the majority of women do go for the 'bronzed adonis player' with his shirt off. I am considering setting up a profile with one of 'those' pictures on it, very little in the profile and just send messages saying 'hi, fancy a chat' to all those I have previously sent long messages to but been met with the 'read deleted' response.
Anyway, back on topic, and I do apologise most profusely for venturing off the path, no one can see how many you have selected as a favourite and as you can't really be responsible for who adds you to their favourites it is not much of an indicator. You would think that a woman with over say 50 favourites is a bit of a net tart, and likewise a bloke would be a bit of a net playa, but as some deranged people just add you for no reason it is a bit misleading. I have had one girl from Ireland, another from Thailand, and another from the good ol' U S of A add me without speaking. Why? It is not as if I am going to pop over to New Jersey for a quick Latté. | |
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 6/17/2008 9:57:59 AM |
I am considering setting up a profile with one of 'those' pictures on it, very little in the profile and just send messages saying 'hi, fancy a chat' to all those I have previously sent long messages to but been met with the 'read deleted' response.
Do you keep a list of those?
I could be completely wrong here, but I suspect that despite all their protestations the majority of women do go for the 'bronzed adonis player' with his shirt off.
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| how many have you added as favourites ? Posted: 7/7/2008 7:04:14 AM |
Icey ... I'm over due for my annual maintenance.
OMG Eric48,
I am so sorry! I am just getting settled over here in Wales. I will have to make it up to you somehow
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