| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:01:47 AM |
What personality traits make you more likely to fall for a married guy.
-insecurity
-selfish about having own needs met with no regard for the married guy's wife and family
-desperation
-a lack of morals
-the inability to say no
I am sure there is long list of personality traits of women who fall for married men. Thankfully, I have none of them!!
The married guys will never stop looking, think of a lower primate (less evolved?) like a male gorilla, he's always looking for more females to add to his family.
The decent, loving married men stop prowling. The selfish ones who care more about themselves than their wives at home will continue to prowl..and then beg, when the doting wife packs up with the kids and leaves!
As for your other question, Gaz, if Guy 1 is a dedicated family man, he is not going to be looking for something on the side, is he? The second guy earned nothing. He lied and manipulated to get what he wanted and I doubt it gave him anything more than short-term gratification. The girl did nothing to get the loser, except for being trusting and perhaps, a bit naive...probably deserved much better than she ended up with.
De-gloving injuries caused by a wedding ring? MMM yah, I am sure those are common. The only time the wedding ring needs to come off is when there is an occupational risk of injury. When I was married, I turned the ring in, so the diamond would not get caught on the glove when I was taking it off. | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:16:22 AM | I'm always kinda puzzled what type of people end up getting in a relationship with a married people.
Really can't remember any girls I've dated or been in a relationship in having this problem.
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:41:22 AM | I am not sure there are any tricks for avoiding the marrieds. Married people who cheat often get very clever in the lies they tell to get the person to meet them etc.
Lies are hard to keep going though and in time they do get found out..often there are signs...
Are there times of the day when his/ her mobile is turned off?
Does he /she often take ages to respond to messages?
Does he /she always go online very late at night and never in the day time?
is he/ she deffensive when you suggest going to theirs?
lots ad lots of things which will tell you that they are already in a relationship...just need to not be blinkered and when you see the signs, walk away. | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:54:47 PM | Ladies, you should not have to come up with any tricks to avoid married men approaching you.
Just be honest and tell them, "You are married, your wife is the one that needs the attention, leave me alone so I can focus on other single men."
"Have a nice life" | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:05:49 PM | You can easily put any guy on a test whether he's married or financially secure. Yes that's my priority. I can't stand married men or cheap men.
I like to travel so I often tell them, I need a vacation soon, and that I am flexible with my time. If a guy jumps at the chance to go on a long trip with me and offer to make arrangements and pay for the trip. I know he is single and have money to spend on me. If there are hesitants, then he's married and possibly broke. No time for that as there are plenty of fish out there. Once they meet these two criterias, then I can meet them in a public place.
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:43:04 PM | If all you have is a cell# that should be a red flag.
So now I am married because I only have a cell phone? I wish someone would tell me where my wife is, then I could get off of POF and live happily ever after. This is a not very big apartment, and in the 6 months I have lived here I haven't noticed a woman living with me, and have yet to be b*tched at about the toilet seat being up, so I must not be married. | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:54:19 PM | | That is not a "date" . Who goes on a first date at 11 in the morning? That is setup for disaster or "friends only". Not a good idea in my book. I would never agree to go on a first date at 11ish. Nope. | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 5/31/2008 6:21:05 PM | | Sunday morning dates are for idiots. Playing golf, jogging and doing all sorts of stuff. Queen of England could call but I'm not going on a Sunday morning date. | |
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| Tricks on avoiding the marrieds
Posted: 6/1/2008 4:43:06 AM | Sudchai, any man who can't go on a vacation with you is cheap?
That is very unfair.
OP, a private detective could easily find out if a man is married, living with someone, employed, etc.
Or you control scheduling of dates, etc. If he is inaccesible, he may be in a committed relationship. | |
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