| | What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?Page 2 of 11 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11) | If it happens once, well we might give you another chance. If it's a regular occurrence, we just assume you are a selfish porface, unconcerned with our pleasure and needs.
There are things you can do to make up for premature ejaculation, we call it "foreplay" and "oral sex". | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/28/2008 7:50:50 PM | In ancient tantra the men would have foreplay for 24 hours before penetration.
Then, they might ejaculate 2 or so times a year, all the while learning to orgasm while keeping their seed..... Energy Mastery
They took sex seriously...
Today, it is little more intimate than a gooey handshake
Just a little perspective for y'alljavascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/29/2008 10:05:26 PM | well, when i first got with my girlfriend, and doing all the loosing your virginity stuff, i had a real problem with cumming too fast. 2 or 3 minutes was a good day, but over time i learned that you need to stop before the point of no return. You have to take a step back before that point to calm yourself down, during that time you then pleasure the woman. Go down on her, introduce toys, do whatever to not leave her out of the equation whilst your calming yourself.
I guess this is to do with being a caring lover. just because you cum to quickly doesnt mean the woman should suffer and allow you to climax while she just has to turn over and go sleep when done. Over time you will learn to control when you cum, once you've 'mastered' it, you can go for hours. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/29/2008 10:45:48 PM | | If I were in a LTR, I would feel cheated. My first husband was like this and it was awful. If it was with someone new, I would probably have sex with him one more time, but if it happen again, I wouldnt see him again. women need longer than a just a few minutes. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:05:06 AM | Where do you learn this tantra stuff? Books? videos? classes?
The path of tantra is emerging on the world now in response to the lack of education about the mysteries of sex and spirit .
Just as yoga did some 40 or so years ago, and now it is part of the landscape of almost every city and town in the country.
You can Google: or go to a book store or search for a tantra teacher....
To the woman who said she likes to make her man come quickly so she knows she's done her job... You don't realize that a guy can come just by looking at him the right (or wrong) way, and that 'making him come' requires about as much skill as watching him pee.
But helping him to master his ejaculation so that he can circulate that life force around his body to rejuvenate himself, overcome PE, ED, prostate issues in later life, and be a masterful lover so can take his woman to god, and make her feel like a goddess...that takes some doing. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:32:55 AM | | sometimes a guy is just really excited and it happens..not a big deal..take a break or keep up the foreplay and try again later..usually theres no problem then however if this is a constant thing then Id probably get a little frustrated | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:48:08 AM | (quote) sometimes a guy is just really excited and it happens..not a big deal..take a break or keep up the foreplay and try again later..usually theres no problem then however if this is a constant thing then Id probably get a little frustrated
You are all settling for the McDonald's version...and it seems you have NO idea of what is possible...
But there IS education and information out there....
This friction/release thing is kindergarten!!!!
www.TantricHealingTouch.com
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Make Love Not War...free mp3 on the websitejavascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:51:14 AM | | Im not settling for anything they came too quickly not me, while theyre recovering I can cum many many times n be just as happy if not happier then if it took them a really long time to climax.. what you do works for you n what I do works for me.. one is not better than the other.. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:42:05 PM | well i can't speak for anybody eles,,but when this has happened the first thoughts that swim through my head are..
dam what a f u c k i n waste of life,,this is what i waited for what a waste of time,he was talkin all that s h i t an couldnt do not a dam thing,, i should have known better.. what a lame,this night has been a complete joke,,hell i should have just stayed home an did laundry 2night..atleast it would have lasted longer..
then i usually look at the person like umm okay well uhhh?.. then i might say so is that it?? are you down 4 the count?.. hmmmm? i see..then i get up go to the bathroom wash up put my clothes back on an of course am ready to go home by then after i get home i usually call up a friend an tell the dirt about my evening an we both sit back an have a good laugh.. about the guy i was with who was lame in bed an really thought he was doing something...
ya ive been through the 60 second men b4..hell it takes longer to smoke a cigarett..atleast theres some satisfaction that comes from that... | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 2:19:38 PM | It would seem that if a guy is just using the girl as a soft way to get off this would happen, but should he be motivated to really 'make love', to savor her, to adore her femininity, bathe in her shakti, then it seems he would be more inspired to learn to last a loooooong time...It would be to his benefit.. Big time....That's the stuff that makes life worth living...Anyone remember that???javascript:smilie(' ')
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I do not understand why, in the first place he wouldn't just go home and have his way with a hole in the couch...personally.javascript:smilie('') | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 2:52:37 PM | The way I see it, life is too short. The world could end tomorrow. If you meet a nice lady, or if ladies meet a nice guy and you FEEL that chemistry, run with it. If you can't size a person up in one hour or less, you shouldn't be dating or looking for anyone. Now, this is if you meet in a bar or club.
If you elect to meet someone online, it requires a different mindset, you have to go through this "protocol" of writing, then talking on the phone and then setting up a meeting. My preference is to meet upfront first at a bar or club because the repeated eye contact from the other person across the bar is usually a pretty good indicator of whether or not the evening will advance. Having said this, you have to find the best approach that works for you.
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:10:13 PM | | I don't care how much he does orally, after a few years it ges old if he doesn't make some effort to fix it. I got an herbal supplement. One pill for my ex, and he wouldn't even try it. Bottom-line we aren't together any more, and I don't like it. I have a problem with that with most guys I have dated. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:22:28 PM | | Women don't seem to like it if you last too long either. I like to do it for a long time when I'm really enjoying it. If I'm tired or bored then I'm not interested going at it for hours. | |
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| What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:47:08 PM | first of all what do i think when it happens....DAMN IT, learn some control boy!!!
and Miss Mia is absolutely correct. TANTRA is amazing. everyone should learn of it, study it, adopt it as practice as it will enhance your being in a phenominal way.
Thanks for educating people Mia...those that have not explored or experienced the art of Tantra don't know what they are missing. (ah happy memories of my tantric teacher) | |
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