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| The baby was born, now what do i do with my relationship?
Posted: 4/23/2008 4:16:00 AM | I read the other threads that Melissa started and it dosen't paint the happy picture that she suggests in this thread. Her boyfriend wants to keep their relationship secret from the mother of the child. She wonders if she is just his FWB. Mellissa searches through his PC and finds his p0rn.
Her responses are the sort of thing you would expect from someone her age. For example she didn't ask him about the porn, she deleted it from his PC to 'see if he notices'. She often replies by saying that he's such a wonderful man.
I never thought a wonderful men got other women pregnant and lied about relationships. Obviously Im doing all the wrong things. | |
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| The baby was born, now what do i do with my relationship?
Posted: 4/24/2008 8:52:45 PM | This might sound dumb, but the best way to get this resolved would be by getting your boyfriend to understand your feelings. Start a blog. I know, like I said it might sound dumb. But write what you feel. Just like you have been doing here. Just write on the blog what you are thinking. i.e.
"... but is now not so-um,- enthused, so she is trying to pull away from saying that? Or even worse, maybe she isn't interested in me anymore, but since she promised to never hurt me she is having a hard time telling me what's up. I don't know if I am overreacting. I pray that I am. But if the worst is what's real, I'd tell her to get it over with. I'd rather have my heart suddenly ripped out rather then slowly."
Then when you have everything that you feel down on your blog, get him to read it. It is important not to write it to him. Don't think about what you want him to hear. Only about what you truly feel. It works really well. The example above is from my own blog that I used for just this purpose. And. It worked. | |
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| The baby was born, now what do i do with my relationship?
Posted: 5/7/2008 11:43:07 AM | | its ok to feel that way, you would have preferred it to be you who had his kid, but I think it is more that you feel that he is now gonna leave you and start a relationship with her be cause they have a kid. that is not always the case, all I can say is talk to him, and let him know how you feel. he will understand if he the guy you hope him to be. | |
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