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 Mirage111

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 26
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She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:16:11 AM
WoW, 12 children...I would be ripping my hair out. As for your comment the fathers should be paying support. Keep it in your pants and/or get a vasectomy. I disagree where all the responsibility is put on the woman all the time. It takes two....and what matters are those kids now...since two adults or several were unable to use control or make good choices...
 anarkaos

Joined: 9/11/2007
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She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:34:56 AM
Do you people seriously believe that by stopping their welfare it is going to decrease the amount of tax you pay?
That the govt wouldn't find something else to spend your hard earned cash on?

Hello, reality check, just make it it out to cash and sign here..........
I'll fill in the blanks later
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 28
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She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:39:57 AM
This religious thing against contraception is utter idiocy. It comes from where God supposedly said "Be fruitful and replenish the earth." But if there is a God he/she or it is certainly not an idiot and did not mean for us to reproduce until we are all drowning in our own garbage. There are over six billion people on this planet and the quality of life is not getting any better because of it, and the Pope is still preaching that birth control is a sin. Superstitious nonsense is going to get us all wiped out yet.
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:44:15 AM
"Do you people seriously believe that by stopping their welfare it is going to decrease the amount of tax you pay?"

You are absolutely right. Our government of by the rich, for the rich and of the rich is addicted to our tax dollars and if it does not get them one way, it gets them another. The corruption is so deep that we are about ripe for a revolution.
 hardball75006

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 30
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:55:09 AM

She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31


Put a rubber on it.....geeeze!
 Steven02151

Joined: 2/17/2008
Msg: 31
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 11:14:54 AM
Federal Medicaid participation has a lifetime limit on TANF of 5 years.
 me_me_me_pick_me

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 32
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 11:23:19 AM
I'm surprised she isn't on POF.

Some of you ladies might have some competition on your hands....and I'm completely serious lol.
 Arugula

Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 33
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 11:52:05 AM

Federal Medicaid participation has a lifetime limit on TANF of 5 years.


lol...yes it does. And a hardship exemption is easy to get. There are many, many people who have passed their limit of five years and continue to receive benefits.

lol...yes it does. And a hardship exemption is easy to get. There are many, many people who have passed their limit of five years and continue to receive benefits. lol...yes it does. And a hardship exemption is easy to get. There are many, many people who have passed their limit of five years and continue to receive benefits. v
 ShadowLands

Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:11:24 PM

Do you people seriously believe that by stopping their welfare it is going to decrease the amount of tax you pay?


Hell no. We're not nearly THAT stupid.
 cooky1962

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:13:19 PM
I just wonder if she remembers all thier names
 galonthemt

Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 36
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 12:16:39 PM
competition? oh right msg 32....and thats why the ladies arent picking you. They dont want to give up their welfare....
 txriverwillow

Joined: 8/1/2007
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:23:48 PM
At least she doesn't have 7 kids by 12 different fathers, right?



You can't legislate many parts of life and sadly this is one more.
 uofijamie

Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:47:04 PM
4481joeseph. The EIC first stands for EARNED income credit which means you have to work to get it and once you have 2 kids the benefits don't go up for the third (or twelfth).
As far as welfare goes, the EIC is pretty good. Basically, if you are working full time minimum wage and you have two kids, you are below the poverty line.... so the government says "here is the money to bring you up to the line (and just to it no higher) Thanks for working"
So complain about welfare all you want, but watch your facts!
 angelah1975

Joined: 10/12/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 1:27:27 PM

Just like the EIC on Federal Tax return.


The EIC is capped at two children.
 Friendly Guy 23 23

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 40
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 1:42:15 PM
[QUOTE]It takes two to tango - what about the guys having too many kids out of wedlock (different moms) shouldn't the same be true? Mandatory Vasectomy after the 3rd kid?

No - please do not make assumptions: I am not a man hater but we all (male / female) need to be responsible and held accountable for the outcome of our actions.[/QUOTE]

Dude, you ARE a man-hater.

The OP said the woman had sex with 12 DIFFERENT guys. Each guy only slept with her once, as one kid, it probably was a one night thing for those 12. They don't have 12 kids with 12 different woman. They have 1 kid with one slutty-ass woman.
 denise630

Joined: 11/25/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 1:44:35 PM
I must admit I didn't read the article before posting my remarks. After reading a few insensitive remarks I decided to read the article.
This is a real problem that has to begin with education, inside and outside the home. We must make it mandatory that these women are given counselling and made to take parenting classes. The education must begin when these children are small. If the children are made to understand that there is more to life than boyfriends/girlfriends and doing whatever makes them feel good. Let them know they can suceed with perservance and hardwork. The mother needs to understand that she is a role-model for her children and if she doesn't want them to fall into the same traps than she must stand up and say no more.
 4408joseph

Joined: 1/10/2008
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She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 3:33:10 PM

Just like the EIC on Federal Tax return.


The EIC is capped at two children.


Ummm... Yes and er...... NO sorta...

Total bad example on my part anyway though.

Yes the chart would have 3 choices. 2 children, 1 child, and um NO Children
Yes, you can get an EIC from the feds and don't even have a child..

Basically IMHO, the EIC is basically welfare for the working poor anyway.

HOWEVER, if you do go to line blah-blah-blah when listing exemptions, you will see that every child counts, in itself lowering you taxable income over all.

While the chart may very well only go to three children, if sayyou have 12 kids at a $1,500 . This would knock 18 GRAND of the TOTAL taxable income and possible bring you back onto the chart as the EIC does have a cap itself..mid 30'sK I believe for 2 kids. Lets face it, If your income allows you to collect an EIC you pretty much are making less then what you could in welfare in my state. ( A college project I had for sociology class was to campare a working mom to a welfare mom, In Maryland in 1990 a Welfare mom with 2 children taking ALL benefits was compatable with about 22-24 dollars an hour ...THATS 1990 money at that)

Again bad example on the EIC
 boyzni3

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 3:47:39 PM
The only people that should get welfare and foodstamps is someone dealing with a physical handicap or has a handicap child. THe others should get a damn job. No wonder these girls now a day, Just have to produce 1 or 2 kids. And be set up for welfare for life. Also, go after these dead beat dads! She didn't make them by herself.

I take a lot of offense to that statement. i waited til marriage to have children, how was I to know he was abusive and going to leave me. And I have a job...does that mean my kids should have to suffer because we live in a capitalist society that doesnt help people. I dont know where you think having a kid makes you set for life on welfare, and even id you do qualify for assistance it is minimal living at best. And as far as going after dead beat dads, I can tell the state exactly where my ex lives and where he works, but I cant get support. If i dont let him see the kids though I am in jail. The system is unfair, and the reason it is unfair is people generalize that every person on welfare is like the one in the OP. I do not agree with what the OP did, and I am not saying she is nto living off the government, but you cant lump all welfare receivers into the same category and have to realize what type of soceity we live in....Do you know how many people in this country have a full time job but cant afford rent and food due to capitalism? Roughly 16% of the US population.
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 4:02:33 PM
this is why seatbelt use should be optional, condoms put in happy meals, lawn darts be legal again, the drinking age should be 16 and high schoolers allowed to smoke cigars in class.
 Heart Bandit

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 4:04:07 PM
The EIC might be capped at two children, but they can get the ACTC or Additional Child Tax Credit if they have more kids. That reduces their adjusted gross income even more which therefore gives them an even larger refund. I've read that the whole EIC program is ripe with fraud. About 1/4 of all EIC claims are fraudulant. That's somewhere close to $20 billion, possibly more, of the tax money we legitimate taxpayers involuntarily have deducted from our paychecks to pay for this welfare program.
 Denny P

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 46
She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmother before age 31
Posted: 3/31/2008 4:09:26 PM
3 of the dead beat dads are in prison so not much help there in support. Although the fathers are responsible this woman has no control of saying no . Using the religious beliefs instead of contreception is just BS.
 angelah1975

Joined: 10/12/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2008 5:31:13 PM
The EIC might be capped at two children, but they can get the ACTC or Additional Child Tax Credit if they have more kids. That reduces their adjusted gross income even more which therefore gives them an even larger refund. I've read that the whole EIC program is ripe with fraud. About 1/4 of all EIC claims are fraudulant. That's somewhere close to $20 billion, possibly more, of the tax money we legitimate taxpayers involuntarily have deducted from our paychecks to pay for this welfare program.


The majority of the people who qualify for EIC don't pay in taxes, therefore the ACTC really wouldn't do them any good. In order to get a "bigger refund" utilizing the lower AGI given by the ACTC, you would have PAID IN that amount of money. Basically, the ACTC helps people who make a little more than those who qualify for the EIC. And people like the Duggars, who have oodles of kids.

Yes, the EIC is a redistribution program. Just like Social security. You don't hear people bitching about having to hand over money to the old folks, now do ya?

We don't voluntarily pay any taxes. Furthermore, if the gov't didn't spend tax dollars on redistribution programs, the money would likely be spent on $120 hammers, while at the same time our soldiers are in the battlefield without proper gear for six months. Oh, wait! That already happens.

Politicians (our tax dollars pay those crooks, too!) are just a big of a money suck as welfare.
 txriverwillow

Joined: 8/1/2007
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Posted: 3/31/2008 6:13:43 PM

I've read that the whole EIC program is ripe with fraud. About 1/4 of all EIC claims are fraudulant. That's somewhere close to $20 billion, possibly more, of the tax money we legitimate taxpayers involuntarily have deducted from our paychecks to pay for this welfare program.


Very true about the fraud. I spent part of this tax season working at one of the chain tax preparers and I saw a lot about the EIC. You have people who know not to marry because it affects their ability to be Head of Household and changes what they can get through EIC, especially if the SO makes too much to get the EIC. One of the funniest was when we called the woman to tell her that her check was ready to be picked up (she had already filed as Head of Household) and the man who answered the phone identified himself as her husband. We flagged it as potential fraud but when she came in, she said the man was mistaken, he was really just her brother. Then we had couples come in, each to file Head of Household, but both can't be HOH. But I was really amazed at the number of people who can barely read or write, but they sure understand the tax code when it comes to get the most manipulation out of it.
 mmagnet

Joined: 10/6/2007
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Posted: 3/31/2008 10:38:42 PM
Sorry Friendly Guy2323

# 1 I am not a Dude -

#2 My statement was a intended to be a hypothetical scenario
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#3 Title of the Thread clearly says 12 kids by 7 different fathers (nearly 2 kids a piece if my math is correct [it is actually 1.7 ]) Hypothetically "what if" she was not their (the guys) first woman to get pregnant ... not too far from 3? Or is my math that bad?

Why is the majority just bashing on the woman ? If it is o.k. for everyone to say 'keep your knees' together, or get sterilized ... and put all the blame on her alone - what about the men who are also quilty of spreading their seed ? (oh - forgot later find out they're in prison..? And prisoners don't pay child support )

My stance is if they (men) procreate multiple times with multiple women and have no aptitude for taking care of or supporting those children then should they not be held just as accountable? Is stating that she be sterilized really fair - and not question if the same rule applies to a slutty guy? Or is it really cool to father 12 kids with 7 different women? Same difference right? Fair is Fair right?

Still not a man hater.........I believe you have made a poor judgement call sir.



Graciously yours,
Mmagnet.
 redbeard151

Joined: 3/22/2008
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Posted: 3/31/2008 10:45:32 PM
Of course there should be.A lot of those women have that many babies so they can just live off of the government.This is nothing new.Abuse of the welfare system is what has screwed up the health care system,among other things.Women like this should be made to have her tubes tied and never to have babies again.This earth is already suffering from over population,we don't need some woman having 12 kids before the age of 31..Ridiculous

"mmagnet--Why is the majority just bashing on the woman ? If it is o.k. for everyone to say 'keep your knees' together, or get sterilized ... and put all the blame on her alone - what about the men who are also guilty of spreading their seed ? (oh - forgot later find out they're in prison..? And prisoners don't pay child support )"

Because this "woman" cannot keep her legs close for 2 secs and think "hey,maybe if I'm going to be a whore and have sex with everyone I meet,then maybe I should get on birth control". If she would have just went to the doctor and gotten a birth control shot once every 3 months and she would not be in this situation.Its her fault end of story.

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