| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 11:48:29 AM | I don't think anyone is "meant" for anything...the future is what we make of it all on our own. No predestiny, no fate....just US and the decisions we make.
Add "deep" to smart, pretty and Ellie-Mae-Clampett accent when flustered. Quite the complete package there Miss Pandy, hmmmm!  | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:06:46 PM | | Well I think God has a plan for all of us and sometimes we don't follow the plan he wants for us. So really my question is do you think God's plan for some people is to be without a life partner? I have really prayed about it and I just want to know what God wants me to do with my life. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:03:02 PM | i dont really think anyone truly wants to be alone whether they say they do or not,with the word love thrown out so loosely by so many,and the excpectations that are placed over every ones head in relatonships like ,i want this,i want that,must be this ,must be that,ect,make it alot harder to actually let someone in to love or be loved,its easy to be alone no one to disagree with you ,you dont have to share with anyone,and with all the modern conviences of entertaiment today like internet,video games,tv ect it makes it easier to just throw in the towel and live in your own little world,well if we where meant to be alone why would we be able to create life?to be alone?i dont think so,i think we are here to love and share and thats all ,you cant take the fancy house clothes and cars with you when your gone,but the love and sharing memories are whats filling up your castle in the sky!and i plan on filling mine to the limit! so to the ones that think there supposed to be alone dont close your doors to tight ,lets some sun light in every now and then and see what grows!  | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:13:07 PM | Well now that God has been dragged into it, maybe you might want to discuss this with someone more qualified to answer your theological dilemma. I don't know what sort of religion you adhere to, but most, if not all, have some sort of dogmatic leader who can interpret the will of God for you. This pastor, deacon, brother, priest, father, padre, prelate, rabbi, imam, sister or mother superior could probably help you figure this out better than any of us? I'm making an effort to be less rude and caustic so I hope I'm not offending you. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:16:19 PM | Who mentioned the G word? We have a seperate thread for him/her/it. This is gonna heat up if there isn't some change of topic here... Religion is not something that is lightly discussed.
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:28:07 PM | | I believe in the old addage by some dead guy. "The fault lies not in the stars, but in our selves." Maybe that sounds harsh but I think that we are merely limited in how and how far we are willing to change the situation in our lives. But for alot of people its more comfortable being alone. I dont thinnk im one of em myself. I like waking up to someone and be glad that their there... | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:28:08 AM | I get the impression that I am meant to walk the road of life alone. I mean, unless we're twins we're all born alone and unless by coincidence we all die alone.
I realize that I am not an attractive man and I have little to offer the type of woman I truly desire. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:34:12 AM | ^^^ I totally disagree with you. I think you have a lot to offer, and the woman you choose will be a lucky woman indeed. Too bad you don't like single moms.
OT: I don't think anyone is meant to be alone. If we were there wouldn't be terms like "cabin fever" and hermits wouldn't generally be known as insane. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:44:00 AM | i think everyone should have at least one person they can be with i kno i definetly don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.. but on the other hand some ppl would rather be alone.. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 8:30:27 AM | | I honestly believe that some people are. I feel that way about myself. No matter how hard I look I can`t seem to find HIM. I`m a very fun loving and good hearted woman and really do want to find that one man who can make my toes curl with justa kiss. Maybe I`m asking for too much, who knows. Any way, that`s what I think | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:42:55 AM | I think that a lot of people are happy being alone.(lot less headaches) I do believe that there is someone for everyone. They may have just not found that person yet.I think some people are alone because they have too high standards or unrealistic expectations. | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:07:38 PM | | no one will ever really be alone, u cant tell me that out of all the ppl in the world there isn't a match for someone, everyone has the option of being with someone its just wheather they take it upon themselves to find that person, if ppl were MEANT to be alone it would be a sad sad world we live in | |
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| Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:12:02 PM | Count me in as those who figure they are destined to remain alone.
After the death of my husband, and the destruction of what remained by someone else, I find that I can't even find the tiniest spark of interest in anyone I'm meeting. Maybe the ability to love again has truly been buried with the greatest love of my life.
Moving over to the other side, though.....nah, not me. | |
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