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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:00:37 AM |
You MUST NOT have kids!!! No baggage. You must NOT have been with dozens of girls!!! So I do not want to walk down the street and meet with one of your ex's.
You have control issues make a life decision that you are through being a control freak. Control you!!! Accept that your controlling problem is about you. You need to stop taking it personally when your guy doesn't do what you ask.
The only men you will ever be able to change...wear diapers. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:01:23 AM | | You don't respect him...and he doesn't respect himself........and I'd bet my life on the idea that you've cheated......b/c those that are usually THAT jealous are guilty of doing the things that they worry so much about others doing.....you need to grow up and realize that the sun doesn't rise and set on your a s s...and realize that being happy with someone doesn't mean that they do whatever you tell them to, it means that the two of you can be yourself around each other........and he needs to do himself a favor and leave...... | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:01:46 AM |
All my life I've always known I was like this and tried to change whenever I could, but with no success. Even had help with councilors and my family doctor. They didn't tell me anything that I already know. So they didn't help. I was thinking on going to see a therapist, but am affraid they would tell me the same things. Waste of money. I watch Dr. Phil, he kinda helps on some issues. But whenever I feel like I'm getting better, something triggers that jelousy, and rage fills up.
The above is what the OP had to say about herself on another thread she started about the same topic.
At least she recognizes that she has a problem.
I wish her luck. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:07:46 AM |
Help me on this.
Okay, since you asked.....
YOU need intensive counseling and strong medications.
Perhaps one of the kind forums posters will provide you
with the phone numbers to the appropriate mental health
resources in your area.
Poke Me & Die
Perhaps your problem is simply,
that you're not being pOkEd often enough!
P.S. Midol is your friend. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:08:27 AM | This thread is precisely the sort of crap I snarl derisively about when I hear female posters comment that "women are more mature than men, at any age" 
OP your "relationship" is a sham, your "love" for him is a sham, your very existence is a blight upon the human race as a whole, and it just serves as yet another appalling example of how far the bar has truly fallen in our society. 
I can't even bring myself to post anything beyond that, lest my bilious contempt for your very life cause me to write something the mods would only remove as inflammatory anyway... 
Where's the "spits with contempt" emoticon when you need one...? | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:13:42 AM | Control Freak. I agree with everything the other posters have said. I would also suggest you find a Mental Health Forums site to discuss Your problems, I do Not think a dating site is appropriate for you, as you are not Ready for a "healthy" relationship.
That is my Honest Opinion. I also think you are incredibly self-centred and very Rude. I hope he runs like the wind and grows a set.
geez you can almost hear the chant "jerry jerry jerry..."
A.S.is
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:17:23 AM | Oh boy, having read the rest of the OP's posting history, I would definitely recommend therapy, meds and that any man coming into contact runs away, as fast as their legs can carry them!
OP, you won't be happy until you meet a virgin who you move to a deserted island so they will never even so much as set eyes upon another woman for the rest of their life! There you can raise your little family together spanking them every day just to keep them in line. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:19:36 AM | To say it is ok to touch someone and doing so with the other person(GF) not liking it is BS!!!
And to say people fool around at work??? It's work not a playground!!!
No wonder why half the stuff I buy is CRAP!!!
I NEVER touched ANYONE at work. Or ever will!!! One guy tried to rub some sun tan lotion on my arm... and I pulled away. Who needs sun tan lotion indoors?
Sounds like people at work needs to grow up! | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:19:49 AM | | after reading message #28 on this thread that refers to one of your posts on a previous thread......your family doctor can't offer the help you need....and your feelings of rage and mistrust obviously come from the family that you have (i get that from reading your profile) and growing up in some shady surroundings....they say that Anger is depression turned inward (and you are one angry woman).......the ONLY help for you will be a therapist...b/c he or she can actually help you address your pent up feelings....figure out where they come from and how to deal with them.....and upon seeking counseling, if the first one you go and see doesn't impress you, don't give up...try another one........but, fair warning, they're not just gonna tell you what you want to hear either.....the truth hurts babe.....period......and the truth is that you shouldn't be so quick to blow up and get all worked up over every little ting........and controlling folks ain't the answer to your search for happiness.....we've all been through some things, and lived our own lives.....and not a darn one of us is perfect, incuding yourself......happiness starts within.....and if you were confident and happy within yourself, you wouldn't be so bothered by ex's and co-workers.... | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:21:40 AM |
Sounds like people at work needs to grow up!
Ahem.....
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:33:18 AM | Poking as a dealbreaker?...Oy Vey!
Time to ditch this guy!!!!!!!!!!!
thank goodness you are going to drop him, I mean in this world of smokers, and abusers, snot pickers/flickers, farters, bad acne, alcoholics, drug users, etc..... a POKER!...wow!
so... anyhow.. I am a poker...and I have to watch who I poke or touch...but most people know that I am a toucher and it is gentle now... I have it in check with strangers, I do have to observe and respect them and understand their personal space.
With co-workers and an associates, acquaintances....well they know me and it is all good...and yeah I poke...and it is a non-sexual thing, no one is offended or reads anything into it. They do it back to me and it is all good.
Yeah...ditch the bum...how dare he Poke some other woman! | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:39:17 AM |
I believe in "Give & Take"....
Yeah....him giving and you taking.
He use to do everything I say and anything I say in order to make me happy and not to have distrust in him.
Personally, you remind me of my first ex-wife and I'd tell you to blow it out your azz. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:43:42 AM | Obviously your boyfriend does not have a jealous bone in his body. If he did, he would not be happy that his girlfriend has a profile on a dating site and never mentions she is involved.
He does know about this...right???
He must be a saint.
Now...don't leave us hanging....tell us what the awful thing you did was?  | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:45:31 AM | | ^Shadow- I agree. When you expect your partner to do everything that you want to make you happy there is go give and take. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:49:55 AM | Control freak...He would do everything you said?...POOR GUY...He needs self esteem...Im not even going to say , what you need...Sad, very sad...Some people are jus plain full of their little selves... | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:55:22 AM | OP...your a whinea$$ and your lucky this guy has stayed with you this long!
After checking your other posts, I have to agree with all the other posters...get some help...you brought this all on yourself...HE can't fix YOU, WE can't fix YOU!
Major counseling is the only way to go, and just leave the guy alone until your emotionally ready for ANY kind of relationship.
I don't feel bad for you, you made your bed...etc.....I do feel sorry for the dude your messing with.
get help~~~ | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:56:48 AM |
To say it is ok to touch someone and doing so with the other person(GF) not liking it is BS!!!
That's your opinion; it's not shared by everyone.
And to say people fool around at work??? It's work not a playground!!!
Maybe you just need to find a better job. There's nothing wrong with having a playful work environment. I've always found myself a lot more productive with such conditions. Besides, it's his workplace not yours.
No wonder why half the stuff I buy is CRAP!!!
Do you really think there is a causal relationship there? It couldn't be because most of the stuff you buy is made in China?
I NEVER touched ANYONE at work. Or ever will!!!
So if somebody at work is falling off a ladder, you'd let them? Sounds a wee bit cold to me.
Sounds like people at work needs to grow up!
Growing up is highly overrated. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 11:57:15 AM |
He use to do everything I say and anything I say in order to make me happy and not to have distrust in him. Thank you for providing a perfect description of the hapless, neurotic, egocentric attitude espoused by far too many. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:03:03 PM |
To say it is ok to touch someone and doing so with the other person(GF) not liking it is BS!!!
And to say people fool around at work??? It's work not a playground!!!
No wonder why half the stuff I buy is CRAP!!!
I NEVER touched ANYONE at work. Or ever will!!! One guy tried to rub some sun tan lotion on my arm... and I pulled away. Who needs sun tan lotion indoors?
Sounds like people at work needs to grow up!
1. He's touching them, not sleeping with them, not kissing them, not touching their erogenous zones--- get a grip.
2. People are allowed to enjoy their jobs. You seem intent on dominating his whole life.
3. Rubbing suntan lotion is completely different than horseplay with friends.
4. You have a very strict view of how people should act that he obviously doesn't agree with.
I was honestly surprised that you're 20 years old. I expected an 18 year old... though honestly this behavior is more the type that I expect from a 16 or 17 year old. I find your outlook controlling and immature. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:03:09 PM | Is this a serious post?
You silly girl, get a grip on reality.
I'm amazed you managed to attract any man with that selfish attitude! | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:07:15 PM |
I NEVER touched ANYONE at work. Or ever will!!!
Actually....I wouldn't want a psychopath like you near me much less touching me.
One guy tried to rub some sun tan lotion on my arm... and I pulled away. Who needs sun tan lotion indoors?
Sounds like bullsh!t to me. How long have you been having these delusions?
Sounds like people at work needs to grow up!
Based on the age listed on your profile.......that would be YOU. Only twenty years old and you're already a ball-breaking, self-righteous, neurotic witch? | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:10:31 PM | Melissa, you sound exactly like my present wife. And I mean EXACTLY!
I get yelled at for saying more than three words to a convenience store clerk. And there's hell to pay if my hand accidently touches the clerk's hand while recieving my change ("I SAW THAT!! DO YOU KNOW HER!?! ARE YOU ****ING HER!?!")
I just hope your boyfriend is smarter than me, sees who you really are before it's too late, and drops you like a hot greasy turd for both of your sakes. Because, as a result of my wife's behavior, I'm one of those "evil" and "immoral" cheaters, and I can guarantee, after a few years of your crap, he will be too. If he has any self respect left at all after you've stomped on it, he WILL cheat. With a vengeance. Guaranteed.
He's going to come to the same conclusion I have, and that's if I'm going to live under the constant accusations, I might as well make it worth it. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:16:06 PM | ^^^Wouldn't leaving her, divorcing her...be better than cheating on her?
Maybe if you explain why you tolerate it we could understand why the OP's boyfriend does. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 12:18:54 PM | That's another thing--- if you treat someone who is innocent of cheating on you like they are going to cheat on you there is a HUGE increase in the likelihood that they WILL cheat on you.
I noticed that a loooong time ago. | |
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