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 VioletSkye

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/31/2008 8:23:37 PM
Put your johnson away, go home to your wife, and if it's not working...LEAVE.

Get a divorce, then go play.
 quirkymom73

Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 3/31/2008 8:23:38 PM
Get with her. Leave your wife. Divorce your wife. Marry her. Meet a women at work you are really hot for. Process begins again...with broken hearts and families left in the rubble.
 hardngood

Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/31/2008 8:45:03 PM
never DIP the company pen in the company INK!!
 Bethlet

Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:00:07 PM
*sigh*

You would be better off hiring a hooker at $1200 a time than banging someone who is

(1) married
when you are
(2) married
(3) IN YOUR FRIGGIN OFFICE

I mean.....if you cannot see the issues (pronounces ISSSS SUES) with banging a married woman and you being married, at LEAST for gods sake realize that there is no poon tang in the WORLD losing your job over.

And if you think for one second you might not lose your job???....

Then by all means please do bang this woman
Because if your intellect is THAT sublevel....then you possibly deserve the entire life-wrecking results that are going to come from this little "fun time"......

(where is the "handslap to the forehead with a big L" icon?
 arwen52

Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:04:54 PM
Two marriages and two jobs at risk and you don't know what to do? Think about that. Quit flirting at work, behave like a professional, and bring all that energy home to your wife. You could both lose your jobs and your marriages. If your home life is that bad, do something or get out of it. I've yet to encounter a situation where cheating improved someone's situation in the end.
 wingedstar

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:15:24 PM
Grow up.

And leave her the bloody heck alone. If you want to screw up your marriage, no one can stop you but do NOT tamper in someone else's! Even if she doesn't appear happy, don't be some creep that moves in on a woman thats vulnerable.

If I were her I know I'd want you to keep your distance and stop fantasizing about me. Seriously.

Just because she flirts with you (or what you seem to percieve) doesn't mean she wants to bed you.

What is the matter with you? That is ground you have no business trodding on.
 shit.head

Joined: 1/28/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:49:02 PM

fear for losing my job or a sexual harassment complaint and then risking my marriage.


obviously your marriage is on the backburner...you're scared of losing your job over losing your wife?!

first - get your head checked, then get your wifes head checked cuz shes gotta have something wrong with her to be with you.

*barfs* see what you losers do to me?!?!?!
 simplelady66

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:53:21 PM


Get a divorce first, or at the very least, be honest and up front with your wife. It will hurt her at first, but it will hurt far less than finding out you are messing with someone behind her back.

Ewww, I feel sick now.
 cheshire_grin

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:58:33 PM
**** her brains out. Use a rubber.
 browser59

Joined: 9/14/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2008 12:48:45 AM
Seriously, what should I do ????...LOL*2

Put a nice big picture of your wife and kids on your desk....and if your lust returns, look at the picture of your family. You may want to put a picture of your house, car and anything else on your desk too that you are willing to lose if you still want to have an affair. Lust is a lot different than love and family.
 HillsideCA

Joined: 10/2/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:01:45 AM
Ladies, I think you misunderstand the question.

The question is not "what do I do" so much as it is "how do I get in this woman's pants, and without getting caught." By his responses (and hell, by the fact that he has a profile here) he doesn't want to be told how to back off...he wants to know how he can hit that!

OP, shame on you. Use the other head, you're giving the rest of us a bad name.
 American_Iconoclast

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:02:10 AM

She is married, I am married, what do I do?


1. Find a heavy metal door.

2. Unzip your pants.

3. Stick your meat flute in the doorway.

4. Slam the door very hard!

5. Repeat as often as necessary.
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:08:15 AM

Gee, thanks for the deep thought.


And you were expecting everybody to say... what? That you should go ahead and act on your urges and chaet on your wife?

I think everyone has put deep thought into it and called you for the cheater you are.

Not only do you want to screw up your own marriage, you want to screw up hers as well you selfish git.
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:14:00 AM

3. Stick your meat flute in the doorway.


Meatflute? I love it! lol

Reading your words describing the process though, that brought tears to my eyes Iconoclast. Ouch!
 JebH

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:31:34 AM
Be faithful to your wife, another woman will not make you happy.

IMO I would avoid her at all costs. Talk to her only when it requires a professional business dialog. If she makes a move on you, confront her.

I really feel bad that some of the women on here would give you bad advice insisting you should get a divorce. All men face temptations like this. Confronting it was a good choice.

~Perseverance will prevail~
 American_Iconoclast

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:40:40 AM

Meatflute? I love it! lol


Oh really? I bet you dont really mean that!
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:51:31 AM

Meatflute? I love it! lol


Oh really? I bet you dont really mean that!


Perhaps I could have phrased it better. lol
 hamiltonlad36

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 4/1/2008 6:35:16 AM
Never crap in your own back yard yo yo....
that being said everyone that cheats does it for reasons that they(both men and women) have to justify to them selves. Be it for kids money comfort or just another notch on your pole someone is always at risk of getting hurt.. caught.... blackmail so forth.... is it worth the risk only you will be able to answer that..You are the one risking all
As for the most common advice to get divorced it may be right but who knows for sure, sometimes it works out for the best other times leads down a slippery path of hurt..... life is not something anyone can predict nor put into black and white and that my friend leads us to many open discussions on another post
 english lass

Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 4/1/2008 6:39:51 AM
spend time with your wife, put effort into bringing back the romance and excitement there...take photos of her to work - put one on your desk...remind yourself of the life you've had together, the dreams you've shared and goals you've been working toward together...

distance yourself from the other woman as much as possible, keep it professional

if you really want to be with someone else and have no desire to keep your commitment to your wife, then leave her - cheating is unfair, to everyone
 strawbs08

Joined: 6/29/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:33:36 AM
You really are one of the worst specimen of men imaginable......
Many of us are here hoping,dreaming ,of finding that special person,& you're on here,trying to work out how to cheat on your wife........ ?? WTF !!
I feel very sorry for your wife....would you even care if she was on here,too,looking to screw other men...................................
Ppfft.....you are a lowlife.....go and crawl back under the rock you came from.....
You're truly pathetic !!!!!
 raiderfan18

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:39:46 AM
I'm sort of hoping he does do her, and then her hubby finds out, beats the crap out of him, then he is fired from his job for sexual harassment, and then his wife leaves him. That would be the best scenario for someone like this.
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 6/7/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:48:36 AM

Ladies - WHAT DO I DO? If this woman was you, what would you want me to do? Please help!!!!!!
.....I would bury your head in the sand then line your children up to kick you fair and square up your ar*e. Your a pathetic excuse for a man.
If your sexually frustrated then go get some help the right way.
 wondering1980

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:06:07 AM
hummm this should be obvious dude.... don't do nothing with anyone thats not your wife!!!if your unhappy in the marriage then get out before you sink to a low level and besides no matter what reason cheating is wrong and there is no excuse for it other than your selfish and only think about your own needs
 sarcastic_smileygirl

Joined: 10/13/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:13:24 AM
Mandatory sterilization would be good. The gene pool has been peed in enough already.
 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:22:44 AM

I'm sort of hoping he does do her, and then her hubby finds out, beats the crap out of him, then he is fired from his job for sexual harassment, and then his wife leaves him. That would be the best scenario for someone like this.

And everyone other than the OP live happily ever after...the end!
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