| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 11:24:51 AM |
I'm sort of hoping he does do her, and then her hubby finds out, beats the crap out of him, then he is fired from his job for sexual harassment, and then his wife leaves him. That would be the best scenario for someone like this.
And everyone other than the OP (who learns a valuable lesson) live happily ever after...the end!  | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 11:24:58 AM | I SAY GO FOR IT!
go for it and have mind blowing sex and feel the lust and satisfaction....make sure you have a ton of condoms, I hear Costco has them in bulk.
see if you can get a Two for One deal on Divorce Lawyers first cos you two should get divorced before you go on this wild n crazy fantasy adventure of yours.
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 12:13:00 PM | First you heve to answer a question. Why are you feeling this way.
Is it that youre wife is a busy person and almost never get to see her. Or maybe youre wife and you have stopped being romantic with each other because ...[insert reason] and now your feeling "needy for love and intimicy" and youre projecting your need on someone else that you see everyday.
Regardless I dont think that telling your wife that "Hey honey I want to bang this girl at work, Do you mind?" (trust me no matter what you say thats all she'll hear) is a good idea. I also dont think divorce as a first option is the smart way to go. Rather tell your wife that you want to take her out on a date, tell her to put on that sexy dress you like and to bring her A-Game, and rock her world, trust me on this you will definitely get "lucky" that night and have alot of fun. (assuming you also bring your A-Game) And probably the next day when you see your coworker you wont be so attracted to her anymore.
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 12:16:09 PM | Go have mindblowing sex and share the intimacy/feelings with your WIFE. Do you think we are going to condone you committing adultery? Not getting it from me.
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 1:06:43 PM | I find this absolutely hilarious. Reading the replies to the original post and so many condemn the OP.
Holycow, this is temptation. You are going to experience this your entire married life.
You mentioned interacting with this co-worker only a fair amount on a professional level, and you flirt and laugh a little. That is the grease of corporate culture, how complete strangers are able to actually work together without screaming at each others foibles and mistakes. Is there anyone that does not flirt, laugh, and interact with their coworkers to some extent? It is generally meaningless, and shallow behavior that allows them to tolerate working with strangers they had no control over accepting into their professional life.
You have engineered expectations into any possible coital enterprise. You believe you would fulfill a need for intimacy, validation of feelings, and mind blowing sex. I highly doubt at this point she would be able to live up to your fantasy.
You notice the risk of losing your job, your reputation (lawsuit), and marriage. Basically, your life. What could be more thrilling?
I would consider your inability to bask in the emotions of the situation as it stands. Enjoy the flirtations and fantasy, resist the temptations, keep your life. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 4:39:26 PM | Excellent response gnuru....
i can only add that IF people stick to WORKING at work and avoid all the flirting ,etc. they may be LESS tempted to move on to the next levels.
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 5:25:33 PM | Sounds all based on sexual tension to me. If you want to lose your marriage then fine. If you want to lose everything for a piece of ass fine but that's what will happen.
Talk to your wife, go councelling. If all else fails leave your wife and go from there.
Just because you think she's flirting doent mean she is, sometimes we see what we want to see. Shes cheering up your dull day. Its ok to have a fantasy that gets you through its tryin to take it futher that is the problem here. Fantasy is very rarely as good as the reality. You have a bit of excitement with all these thoughts thats all! | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 6:20:38 PM | Ok, follow these simple instructions:
1. Find a mirror.
2. Look into that mirror.
3. Repeat this phrase 10 times: I am a lying, cheating scum that does not deserve to live.
There. Hopefully it sunk in. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 6:53:24 PM |
1. Find a mirror.
2. Look into that mirror.
3. Repeat this phrase 10 times: I am a lying, cheating scum that does not deserve to live.
"Mirror, mirror upon the wall, Who is the sleeziest dood of all?"
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/1/2008 7:08:37 PM | This must be one of those posts where the OP reads it after posting and thinks, "Oh, I am going to regret this aren't I?"
I am going to say GO FOR IT. Mostly because everyone else is saying otherwise and a little because Dr. Phil is always looking for more people to invite to his show. I mean, who is it going to hurt right? The two of you might be the talk of the office and you might lose your jobs and marriages over it, but who cares? Jobs are replaceable and if you were happily married you would not be so tempted. Oh, that is being kind of selfish - I almost forgot to mention how it would devastate your wife and her husband and your respective families, but that is of little concern.
EDIT: I leave for a few minutes and suddenly everyone is saying GO FOR IT. I make no sense now...if I ever did in the first place. | |
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| Have Morals
Posted: 4/2/2008 11:46:39 AM | | EVERY MARRIAGE states until death do you part. If your wife has deteriorated in her looks help and ask her to make a change, if her sex drive has lessend, asked her what YOU NEED to do to insire her, You were given that WOMAN TO LOVE AND CHERRISH, (DO IT), You Sir are the failing Clog in the Sprocket. Show INTEGRETY AND MORALS. It's better to get a XXX RATED C D and Masterbate then to destroy the lives of your wife and those in your family for a little fun and stupidity. My 'X' did exactly what you are doing, when her fun was over and she wanted to come back home she found a COURT DOCUMENT waiting for her. She's asked several times to reconcile but now the trust is gone. Wake up dude, you're a dummy. | |
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| Have Morals
Posted: 4/2/2008 12:53:54 PM | THE OP IS HERE FOR AN INTIMATE ENCOUNTER
That's according to his profile.... so it's no wonder he's here looking for validation to have an affair.
Hey dirtbag.... grow a set. A real set.... and put an end to your marriage before sticking
your waste of manhood into someone else. Look beyond that little twig between your legs
before demolishing anyone's life but your own sorry excuse for one.
Here's the thing.... most of us are gonna rip you a new one because of your lack of morals,
ethics and any sense of family values. Sure, you probably have a good story to tell, but guess what.....
SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE. What separates the boys from the men is how
you handle yourself when faced with a bad marriage or any sort of temptation of the heart/c0ck....
You've chosen the easier, softer route... and TO HELL with anyone else but you....
Go screw yourself. Figuratively.... because then, and only then will you know what a waste of time you truly are. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/2/2008 2:31:37 PM | I'm gonna skip all the name calling and judgements. I think 3 pages of angry female response was enough.
I'd ask why you aren't having those thrilling fantasy's about your wife. You know, like you did BEFORE you did her the 1st time.
Tempation is all about mind over matter.
If your job and marriage (house, kids, car and money) are important. You'll re work that active fantasy life of yours to include your wife and not someone who isn't and is indeed married to another man.
Try this as an experiement. For 3 solid weeks. Feed everything you can into your marriage and your wife.
See what happens. Post and let us know. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/2/2008 5:09:56 PM | What do you do? Adultery and affairs have been around since Adam and Eve so the temptation for the forbidden fruit is out there and if theres no peace in the valley of a [marriage,steady squeeze,,etc] it makes you want to look for greener pastures to roam elsewhere you'll do what you do to justifies your lust for another and regardless of the moral majority here as they probably have experiences in it at one time and know the consequences, but eventually you'll pay the piper for being a horny toad.
No relationship is without being, happy happy all the time but the goals, beliefs and the big pic is fairly constant,it makes us dif from the animals. Have fun for now, and that will not last for long till reality will kicks in. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/2/2008 5:15:06 PM | | I'm a man so I can't fault you for looking or noticing another woman but the fact that you actually posted this kind of pisses me off. My advice is that you go look in the mirror and think about what you just wrote. Then think about the vows you made to your wife. Then admit that regardless of whatever has happened between you and your wife, at one time you wanted to be with her for the rest of your life. Now ask yourself what happened and how can you make it better. Now put yourself in your wife's shoes. How would this make you feel? Now if you still feel like you need our advice I want you to take the butt of your gun and bash your own face in. As long as you are married, doing anything more than looking makes you an ***hole. If you care so little about your wife, then get a divorce. Then you can have all the meaningless sex you want. Now before you make your decision, consider that just because you see it as flirting, she might just see it as being friendly. You might end up losing your job and your wife not to mention acquiring the official title of douche bag. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/2/2008 6:26:16 PM | What kind of question is this? You are married. Both of you. Stay faithful. That is the WHOLE point of marrying someone.
Take your wife out to dinner. Start paying attention to her instead. | |
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| Have Morals
Posted: 4/2/2008 6:38:21 PM | First time on a forum and am laughing a little at what i have just read.
I have know a few men who have strayed from their marriages and I promise you they regret it afterwards. Some are just straigh out scumbags others idiots who found solace in a quick screw when thins were going bad at home.
BOTTOM Line, Why did you get married in the first place?
I t is worth fighing for OR get a divorce and make sure you support you children if you have any.
My ex was prone to 'having a bit on the side" and it took me way too long to realise "I do not need this' | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/3/2008 7:55:06 AM | If you have an uncontrollable urge to be with another women while the both of you are married to others, I say take care of your business before you make a move. I find it a character flaw in a person who would want to pursue an intimate relationship with someone else while they are still married. For God's sake, you're an adult so don't let you emotions take over what common sense you SHOULD have.
If you are not happy in your present relationship in your marriage, you owe it both you AND your wife to discuss this. If nothing more, it is called respect not only the other person(s) involved, but of yourself.
All of us out in the world, I am sure, have met someone to whom we are attracted. However, SOME (and I would hope MOST of us), have the maturity and morals to take a step back and logically evaluate the situation. What you are saying is that you want to have your cake and eat it too....such a selfish person that you are.
I say Shame, Shame, Shame....What you should be doing with your spare time fantasizing over this women is to spend more time evaluating your morals. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/3/2008 11:02:19 PM | ..............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
I hope she leads you to her bed, pulls down your pants, gets you ROCK hard and then rams a red hot poker into your sorry ass. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/3/2008 11:24:40 PM | Oh boy, you decided to come on here and post that you where married, ready and willing to cheat and that you want to get a married woman to cheat with you. You must be new to this site. You should search the forums about that subject.
Im not touching that one with a 500 ft. pole.
The general concensus are going to rip you a new one. | |
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