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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/19/2008 9:13:18 PM | | I know it takes 2, but I can tell you from experience, you would not want to run into a mad husband, since he has to battle her in court, he may want the other party in the cheating event to vent on. Thats all I have to say. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/19/2008 10:04:33 PM | Do you really need us to answer that question for you? I don't think you're expecting an overwhelming amount of responses to tell you, 'yeah, just go for it!'. Perhaps you're asking this in hopes of being able to justify what you probably, will do anyway.
I say this after reading your profile. You are up front in what you are looking for. You seek intimate encounters. I'm assuming your wife has no idea.
I feel empathy for your wife; lucky her, eh? I'm sure this wasn't a part of your marriage vows. If you think you need the "mindblowing sex" and "intimacy" to happen with someone else, I recommend you start thinking about everyone who will be hurt by your choices, first. Sorry, I have no tolerance for cheaters.
Geesh OP, you are married. Either grow up to be a husband who has a conscience with morals/ethics......or remove yourself from your marriage.  | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 4/20/2008 8:49:23 AM | | Here is to everybody who reads this post. I consider my average when it comes to book smart, but I also don't think there are too many people above me when it comes to just BASIC common sense. Well for the OP, there aren't that many people who are below he and people like him. I just don't get it. Advice to the OP, take some time to yourself and just think about what you asked. I think you may come up with your answer instead of having the world rip on your sorry self | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 1:09:30 PM | the first thing is that you need to think about is do you love your wife and if so think how see will feel knowing you gave her a std or aids and her knowing it came from you because she has been with no other but you. Now think is this worth what is going to cost me, your job maybe, your wife for sure, kids, half of every thing you have, a std\aids, or the best case would be your wife stays but starts screwing her co workers just to get even with you and she now gets a std\aids that way and gives it to you. Think about that how would you feel that by wanted to screw this lady that your are killing yourself and maybe your wife.
I as a Man would tell you if you think you need this woman that bad then go and get your nuts cut thats what we do to keep horny animals from humping everything around them and you would also be doing your wife a favor by doing so because then she would know for sure your not ever going to cheat on her. You may ask if i do that how can i be a man and be with my wife...WELL your not a man your a peace of $hit that really needs shot but if you want to live then do so without your nuts. Remember No matter how hard you try to hide the things you have done a woman tends to find out they just don't tell you that they know. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 1:32:04 PM | | I'd rather regret doing something, then regret not doing it later on in life.........if you're considering the act, then obviously you didn't get married to the right person.........so........go for it.........and dont brag about it to your friends..... | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 1:45:35 PM | | GO HOME AND LOOK AT YOUR WIFE‘S FACE WHILE SHE IS SLEEPING AND ASK YOURSELF DO I STILL LOVE HER ？AM I STILL IN LOVE WITH HER WHO SLEEPS BESIDE ME EVERYNIGHT ？ | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 5:13:48 PM | You know realy I feel sorry for you .You really need help.
There is a saying: You don't know what you've got untill you loose it.
Mate, all I can say is that you became complasent with your wife, now looking for the next high. I gave up everything for my wife, I went to work, came home, she had the control of the money, gave up my friends for her, everything to please her, if there was a problem she came up with I made sure it would not be so anymore.
Now LISTEN TO THIS.
After 24 years she told me she wants out. Now I am on my own to try and start over again. You seem very selfish and are only thinking of yourself. Or the lower part of you. I as a MAN was prepaired to make any sacrifice possible to make my wife happy, as her happiness was more important to me than mine, after all I made a commitment in church, it was not to be, How is it that an ADULT can come on here and make a statement like this and expect the Ladies condone it? I just don't know anymore, realy I am asstonished. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 6:09:53 PM | | OP, you are an embarrassment to men. What you are doing will betray you, your wife and your children, the children being the most innocent of the victims. Why would you want to harm the ones in your life who have stuck with you through everything and love you more than anything? To betray one's family is to loose all morality. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 9:09:52 PM | | One word is "don't" do anything. It's wrong to cheat, both of you will end up hurting everyone including yourself and more. Avoid the temptations and stay away from each other, you are both adults. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 11:13:07 AM | This is whats so scary about the work place. People care less about whats right or wrong they see a hot girl and right away go into dog in heat mode and want to screw them. You are going to cheat on your wife. You need to get a divorce.
To risk your job is insane. You should not be married; Your acting like a 21 year old frat boy in heat.
Also, women flirt a ton these days and many just are that way. Again, I think you should take a cold shower and grow up some, or leave your wife and get a divorce and do what the heck you want. This is why the workplace is such a scary place. Affairs are happening all the time. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:48:59 PM | | I know you asked for female opinions, but an opinion I have none the less. It takes a bunch for a person to make me want to type curse words but you sir are pushing the envelope. My opinion is for me and every other single male on the planet over 18 to tie you down on all 4's with your butt tooted up in the air in the middle of the worlds biggest stadium. Sell tickets across the world for $1.00 (THATS A BUCK) and allow everyone with a ticket to boot you up your butt one at a time. Then donate the money to "Breast Cancer". You fugging disgrace... It's punk azz boyz like you that give single, never married, good looking men like me a bad reputation where we have to pay for your stupid actions. I hope your wife cheats on you with unprotected sex and then lets you go down on her! YOU'RE A DISGRACE MAN. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 3:08:21 PM | You should leave it alone.
Years ago I was in a similar situation and the bottom line was she was married, I was married at the time and it wasn't to each other.
As the (former) husband of a woman that cheated it sucks. And I am sure that a wife would feel the same way.
You took an Oath to God to forsake all others except her. Let that oath guide you. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 5:18:23 PM | Okay, What you're feeling is normal. Every married couple is tempted one way or another and at some point of their lives. MY POINT...IS the ladies and men busting your balls today 50 percent of them will have an affair. Facts are Facts! Just remember for every "action" there is a "reaction".
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:18:11 PM | | First off you need to go to your wife try and get your marriage back to what it once was or you need to get a divorce.....Do all that before you even really think about approaching this women. You could loss alot you job your home and maybe even your kids if you have any.Think long and hard before you do something that will change your life forever. Just my thoughts. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:46:18 PM | OP consider this. Your wife is having a coffee with a girlfriend and she confides in her that her husband hasn't been all that attentive to her lately, he seems distracted. In the meantime, the bank manager (who is also married) has chatted up your wife on a number of occasions and he's starting to look really good to her.
Would an attraction be worth throwing away your family for? Did you not promise to be faithful?
You're looking outside your marriage for some fun times. A big indication you have things to fix inside your marriage before it implodes. The hot chick might be fun for a night of fun but when the shit hits the fan, it's not worth the pain your family and friends will feel when it all falls apart.
Your big head needs to seriously rethink your daydreams. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:36:12 PM |
So here is the deal: I work in an office and am very attracted to a woman in the same office. She is hot, gorgeous, beautiful, whatever you want to call her. We interact a fair amount on a professional level and find time to flirt and laugh a little. I would do anything to be intimate with her. I find her striking and can only think sexual thoughts when we are together. The PROBLEM - We are both married! I sometimes get the feeling that she is feeling some sexual frustration and friction between us and would take the opportunity if it presented itself, just my vibe though, I could be wrong. I in the worst way want to be intimate with her, not for the sex, but for the imtimacy and feelings I think we have for one another and I have to admit, the mindblowing sex we would have. I have only been professional around her, but in the worst way want to make an advance but fear for losing my job or a sexual harassment complaint and then risking my marriage.
Ladies - WHAT DO I DO? If this woman was you, what would you want me to do? Please help!!!!!!
My advice:
Don't be a dumbass. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:38:33 PM |
My opinion is for me and every other single male on the planet over 18 to tie you down on all 4's with your butt tooted up in the air in the middle of the worlds biggest stadium. Sell tickets across the world for $1.00 (THATS A BUCK) and allow everyone with a ticket to boot you up your butt one at a time.
If he plays the idiot, then I'm there... with steel-toes. | |
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| She is married, I am married, what do I do?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:05:42 PM | | You need quit thinkin with your small head (your Johnson) and wake up. YOU ARE MARRIED. That does not mean you can cheat with the office skank whenever the wind blows. Get it together, quit being stupid and save your marriage. It's no wonder 60+% of all marriages end in divorce with schmucks like you running around. | |
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