| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 6:07:12 AM | Maybe we should declare it a Sadie Hawkins Dance, so the ladies can ask all the men to dance? I talked to a couple after the last one who were bored, because they did not ask the ladies to dance. I can understand some guys who don't dance not wanting to fast dance, but ask the ladies to slow dance! Laurie | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 6:20:54 AM | Hey Laurie.... I hear ya!!! Howwwww many times did men look at me from across the way and then give me the "nod" as a way to ask me to dance. Gentlemen....If you want to dance with a lady, a "nod" in her direction is not the way to ask her. It is actually harder to turn down a guy who is right up to you asking you to dance than it is a man wayyyyyy across the room making a gesture with his head to ask for a dance. My best dances of the night were with Badbutinagoodway. He just skated right up to me on the dance floor and came up to my backside (he actually startled me) and asked me to dance. You cannot get any more forward than that! Gotta love a man like that! Wouldn't it be fun to put our names in a hat and pick one for someone we have to dance with...just to mix it up.....unless everyone is afraid of strangers??? Maybe I am too much of a daredevil? lol.....By the way...Playfully Yours has some moves on him!!! | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 12:49:02 PM | the official song list walk like an egyptian bangles rapture blonde should i stay or should i go clash she drives me crazy fine young cannibals reminiscing little river band into the groove madonna can't wait nu shooz (this is a must) put 'em on me sinead west end girls petshop boys pretty in pink psychedelic furs (this another must) what i like about you romantics dancing in the dark bruce springsteen hold me now thompson twins 867-5309 tommy tutone jump van halen every body have fun tonight wang chung legs zz top get ready rare earth all right now free who's that lady? isley brothers you ain't seen nothing yet BTO play that funky music wild cherry the boys are back in town thin lizzy boogie oogie oogie taste of honey i wanna be sedated ramones (and another must) brass in pocket pretenders my sharonna the knack born to run bruce springteen low rider war shakin eddie money hey kids rock and roll david essex carribean queen more than a woman bee gees nite fever bee gees lady marmalade super freak we are family sister sledge i love the night life gloria gaynor | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 2:39:03 PM | Hey everyone!!!!! CANNOT wait for this dance April dance!!! wasn't sure if I could go due to prior committment but that seems to have spontaneously cleared!!!! so I'm finding my dancin shoes and ready to rock and roll!!!! lets get the request lists together!!!!!!! | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 2:47:40 PM | Yes I agree with Lisa,
Come one guys put your pride aside and your best foot forward and just ask. Dont tell me you have to dance with the right one, because at these things, there are no right or wrong ones. You are coming to have a good time and if you want to be a wall flower, oh well, your the one missin out, no one else. | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 3:36:17 PM | I think the names in the hats is a very good Idea blondindian ! Now were getting some idea's !!!! Any more out there? Yippee Lisa making the dance so glad to hear this!! Lifetimefitness I second what you just said. It's about having a Blast out on the dance floor... I sure did !!! I'm not good at the line dancing or what was that they were teaching us,? Yea , I am the first to admit it .. I didn't get better either LOL I wont pass up a fast or slow dance.... So Lets dance!! | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 3:36:24 PM | laurie!!! sadie hawkins day!!!! that is so funny yet has so much truth to it too. the guys can't help that they were peer pressured into NOT dancing in their youth. and your right about a lot not wanting to fast dance. maybe we could do a single song selected for sadie hawkins. make us women do what we demand from the opposite sex. i think you're onto something muree LT you missed it last time, the music was way too disco oriented. the songs they played were geared for couple dancing. It was quite intimidating for the regular guy. i think a lot of us are only capable of free styling, with some line dancing thrown in. they did teach a hustle step in the beginning. i think there was more of us out there dancing when it wasnt couple dances. i'm not sure if thats a good thing or bad lol. muree | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 4:03:44 PM | | Hey Tammy....Thanks for the kind words about my dancing moves. All I do is get into the song and feel what move I can do that is best for that song. I try to imitate good lead singers that are great dancers and entertainers. The best dancer and entertainer for me is "Mick Jagger"; he puts on a great show with his dancing moves and the girls and the crowd go crazy over him...thats what I like and he is my idol. That is free-style dancing as any dance step can be a good one for the song. So my best advice for the men is get a song where you feel the good rhythm and put it into your best dance moves and the girl will adore you for that. Asking them(ladies) to dance will be fun, enjoyable and exciting so don't hesitate...ladies love a guy that dances....Ask Blonde Indian and Laurie...they can dance; they have good moves. My favorite dance song is "Brown Sugar" as I like to put my good dance steps into that song. Rock N Roll will never die...keep it going. Jim(Playfully-Yours) | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 6:28:05 PM | | this is lisamuree.....geeez what am I doing!!! well anyhow I AM wearing a skirt and yes I vaguely remember the hustle and those other snf dances if anyone is willing to do them with me I will try to coerce the wb to teach those instead (I'm generally good at those things ask muree...) | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 7:30:02 PM | | Nancy....I was out there dancing(Friday 3/28)...guess you didn't see me but I was dancing mostly with Laurie(she's a good dancer) as well as other girls. Some of them tired me out...lol. So I hear you do a good "Keith" imitation...thats great! so that means you use your eyes to flirt with the crowd...lol and you use alot of "bends" in your legs to dance around...great...thats "Keith's moves with his guitar and eyes. He has his "good way" with women...thats for sure. "Muree..You know how to rock". By the way, I guess you know that I'm a Rolling Stones fan. Love their rock n roll. Going to see their movie "Shine A Light" this weekend(4/4-4/6) at Navy Pier. Jim(Playfully-Yours) | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 8:40:23 PM | This time I will definitely look for the red balloons so I can meet everyone (not like at the last one), plus my friends and I can make it on time since it is on a Saturday.
As for song suggestions..no one mentioned KC and the Sunshine Band or WHAM. We were also expecting more 80s hair band music at the March dance. Can you add some to the list Muree? Whitesnake, Poison, Bon Jovi (started in the 80s).
Hope to see POF members there in April.
Muree, I can probably help out with "check-ins" this time. | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/3/2008 10:35:19 PM | hi ocelot can you give song names for those bands? i love kc........my list was a lot longer but i whittled it down...so i think they were there. shake your booty? i think i have their cd lol it'll be fun to meet you. i'm waiting to hear from mach 56 and freshstart2day about maning a table or not. lisa muree!! i'm gonna ask for proof of these dance moves at work today...and yes i'll tell on what i see lol playful!! no one moves like mick. i might be getting pete townshend mixed up with keith. does keith ever do the windmill when dancing? lol i've heard 'shine a light' is awesome on th big screen.......reminds me of the 'movie' concert (led zeppelin band aid) i used to see at the 'coral' in oak lawn......way back to the 70's. you have to let me know how the movie is nancy muree | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 4:43:48 AM | Playful: Thanks for the dancing endorsement! :) Ladies, this guy is fun and a pleasure to dance with, you don't want to pass him up................................. a real sweetheart! I think the names in the hate for a sort of "mystery" dance is a good idea, maybe twice in the night for a slow song. This way everyone who wants to dance, will have left dancing even if they were too afraid to ask anyone! Laurie | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 5:02:13 AM | thanks ronnie cool i think if we get a little change up in the music it may be even better, but thanks. we're looking at the hat/name tag/master list for a possible dance contest. the problem is we don't get microphone time to round people up or get a hold of the 'missing ' people from the name pulls. whatever we do it would have to involve gathering people without the use of the dj or minimal announcements. thanks for all your input so far everyone!! LETS DAN CE!!!! | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 5:35:53 AM | OK, some ideas on the mystery dance.................. *Optional * For those who want to particiapte, get something with a number on it * We need to pass out numbers, men get a pink number (1-100? in order handed out), ladies get a blue number (1-100? in order handed out) *Mystery dance to occur at set time, like 9pm, for say 2 dances in a row, slow music *Sheets of paper can be placed on floor near sign in table, to say #1-10, #11-20, etc so we can figure out who has our number fairly quickly. We can hand out a flier when the number is passed out with the instructions. This could all work if we set it up right.......................... I would be willing to help with it! Laurie | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 6:27:45 AM | hi laurie i love your thoughts!! you are on to something here. i'm waiting to hear back from the owner about microphone time. if they let us announce stuff it will change the course. also, fresh start has been mulling over ideas as well so we have to see what she says since she's co-hosting the event. but...i love your ideas........... muree | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 9:38:58 AM | Last Friday was a great time.
My observations:
More women than men and they were looking to have a good time.
There were tables full of women and guys were not asking them to dance.
I thought the music was fine, and who said Salt N Pepa sukked? It was great.
I don't know about any planned stuff to force guys to dance, I think that will make them even more self conscious....but I'm def open to a woman asking me to dance, how could a guy not want that?
Men:
Get out and dance.....no one cares what you look like, it's the energy you project that will attract a woman. I probably looked like a dork, but I wanted female contact and I didn't care.
Dancing does energize you, opens you up....be a dance whore....I danced with 2 women at the same time, there may have been a man included in there too, can't remember....if you need some stimuli, pound a shot of Jack, chase it with a beer and get yo' flabby buns out on the floor....otherwise women may stop showing up if it isn't a good time.
Also, wear clothes that smell nice....women like a man that smells good. Wear something right out of the wash and use fabric softener. I had women sniffing me all night long. | |
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| 70's-80's dance party @ willowbrook ballroom saturday april 19th Posted: 4/4/2008 1:31:00 PM | Hey UltraJ
Well said! We all know how self concious men are and you are so right about smelling good! I will be sniffing you out somewhere, lol... Just come out and have a good time.
LT
PS: I have been told I look nothing like my photos, so I gues I will be wearing a name tag. I hope it doesnt scare anyone away, lol.. | |
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