| submissive women?? Posted: 11/20/2008 9:20:36 AM | ^^^^^and for that you need an opinion right?  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 11/20/2008 9:22:33 AM | Yes, that's a very good answer, just before ALL THOSE OPINIONATED, Ladies, make a smash pumpkin out of your friend in picture. Thankful I'm not a pumpkin. | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 11/20/2008 6:13:24 PM | | might as well talk on this one too...lol...hmmmm submisive women...it's only normal...men are supposed to be the leaders...how i taught my sons anyways...they take care of the stuff...i.e. keeping the family, warm, fed, safe, wanted...normal in my eyes...submissive, pretty normal...dang god made men to be strong physically, made women weaker....lol, too funny...women are the backbone of men, yes maybe some of the weak men lose i'm sure...yet i hear of so much heartache, jeez...talk to me | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 11/20/2008 7:23:29 PM | | I hear you Kat...My ex was a guy who saw nothing through... never handled a bill, estimate, purchase or dispute...and eventually never knew how to spend time with his own children and occupy them for over a hour...pretty sad in my eyes...and not my idea of a real man...I am pretty traditional I have to say...I do think God created women for man and man is geared for hunting, gathering and taking care of home and family ( among other things) but in all truth...behind every good man is an even better women..not trying to be smug about it...I think it is our job or duty to help and clear obstacles from out of our mans path..inturn making his job easier..and making sure to not bruse any egos all this must be done in silence. Just knowing he feels solid and happy in his accomplishments is what counts..a happy man strives to make those around him happy...there is method in all that madness...just my spin.. | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 11/20/2008 7:25:51 PM | I'm trying for no more heartache Kat...not willing to lose myself to a man any more! I've gottn lots of bricks and built that wall up...not sure there will ever be anyone out there strong enough to tear this one down...I added steal mesh to the mortar! | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/3/2008 7:36:01 PM | YES YEs and YESsss
I am the captain of this ship. I am the lighthouse in the emotional fog of my woman. I am her rock and safe place to be.
I like when a woman suggests intelligent stuff and I am willing to decide to go along with it, but in the end I will make the decision.
Not only that, I want her to be happy to please me, and it should come from her. I should not have to beg for her to please me. I just need to let her know how good a job she is doing and how I love her, and how I am so pleased by her that I will NEVER cheat on her and that I will always be there for her.
I will take care of her and make sure that she feels appreciated.
But again, I am the captain of the ship.
Ayaay maties! lol | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 4:57:11 AM | hey, your statements sound like marriage vows!!! how cute! my next husband will worship and adore me or i beat the tar out of him, lol. forget this submissive b.s.
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 6:06:00 AM |
my next husband will worship and adore me or i beat the tar out of him, lol. forget this submissive b.s. Now that was funny!! Thanks for that  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:12:15 AM | big hugs robbittydodah...the softest, kindest, most loving hearts are the ones all scarred up...sweetie love can't come in if you lock up your soft heart...that would be a total waste of a great gal...have faith my friend...you'll know when it's right cause there won't be any hesitations, nor excuses, they'll want to be with you just as much as you long for them...it's out there, but i know the waiting stinks...if you get bucked off the horse just get right back on him and show him who's boss, he'll not only give you a lovely ride, he'll do it with a smile  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:41:32 AM | Awwww Kat , you are so right, """the softest, kindest, most loving hearts are the ones all scarred up"""
But just like Robin I wonder , how many scarres can one person take ?
but then my other side comes out and says ,,,
Kat , there you go again he'll not only give you a lovely ride, he'll do it with a smile DAMN right I'd do it with a smile ,,, OK , I'll shut up now | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:49:10 AM | All women should cuddle their man,it makes the relationship stronger | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:54:19 AM | ^^^^^ahhhh eddj and your perception of cuddling?
bdad, it's normal to smile when you're happy  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 11:41:02 AM | oh you are wicked eddj...sticks and coal in your stocking this year  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:52:52 PM | Now you make me want to dress up as a horse m/kat. Maybe i can be Santa next year...... | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:56:13 PM | ^^^^^oh my...too damn funny...do i give you apples and sugar for a job well done doc?  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 7:58:00 PM | Thanks Kat...I hear what you're saying girlfriend Just not sure you're right about that sweets. Only time will tell...and time and time and time and time. Doesn't it get to a point when you say enough? | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 10:48:04 PM | we can say no, or never, all we want...but the heart has a mind of it's own...when it's right girlfriend you'll know...like captain kirk says...no more "mamby pamby"  | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/4/2008 11:04:59 PM | I get the never give up, never give in theory. But, kissing frogs to find your prince just gives you warts lol. We all just need to spend less time and less emotion on the bottom dwellers Robin. Now if only someone can come up with a magic stick to help us determine which are and which aren't before it's too late lol. Can you work on that for us Kat? | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/5/2008 12:19:12 AM | | i say.. just keep hopping back on the horse. I d rather die of a broken heart than never to have tried... ( i think i may well yet) | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/5/2008 9:37:09 AM | yep the bottom dwellers, they can lure you to the bottom with their sweet tender promises...but you can't keep a good woman down...lol, amy my magic stick is intuition...not that it always works, cause some people are such great actors that it takes a minute...sincerity is so easy to see, if you look before you leap...once you take the leap, it's masked by the longing for love...that rosy glow or should i say glare that fuzzy's the lens up makes the signals get all distorted...women's intuition is strong magic, just sit back, relax, and let your very own magic stick have it's way | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/5/2008 1:43:12 PM | My point of view is. I think women have more expectations when they date a guy, then the guy himself has. Then when we find out all what you are looking for in a man. We panic. We can't be all that and a bag of chips also. I will date a woman longer, trying to find out slowly what they want. If you tell us in a couple dates everything you want. We start to think. She wants more then we can give so soon. A guy wants to date a woman that wants to have fun and not get into a relationship right away. Because we date a woman, doesn't mean wedding bells. If you date a frog. He probably is a frog. If you date a prince. He may not be a prince. He may be sleeping with a bunch of women. Why not? He is good looking and very charming. Says everything a woman wants to here. But, does he mean it. Not likely. He is saying it for a reason such as (a notch in the bedpost). On the other hand. If a frog does change, it has to be for better, cause he already is a frog. You just have to find the good in the frogs and maybe you will be happy ever after. Or you can be another notch in the bedpost.
I have one more thing to say.......ribbit...
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/5/2008 2:59:56 PM | JUST because you are dating exclusively doesnt mean you have to get married.. :))..
Dang men are skittish. i want a one on one try at getting to know the man..
So far so good with my current date mate | |
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| submissive women?? Posted: 12/5/2008 3:10:41 PM |
I will date a woman longer, trying to find out slowly what they want.
Doc.....I have a dossier. Just ask for it. I come complete with instructions and warnings about mis-usage.  | |
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