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 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 176
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Posted: 3/17/2009 4:01:51 PM
used is cool...just depends what you're used for
 samsgurl

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 177
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:32:26 AM

If women were not generally sensitive to so many minor things then I'd agree with you, but the fact of the later is if we don't notice you parted your hair on the opposite side one day a year you'll get pissed. Then next year it happens again and you hold it against us.


I dyed my hair red once to piss my husband off.. and he didnt notice for a month!!

NOOO.. it didnt make me mad, it just tells you how interested he is in me.. :))

it takes alot to piss me off really... But anything that makes me unhappy or mad are obvious things, like being stood up or hitting on other women.. etc.

I wont blow up.. ill smile.. and Just leave one day!
 eddj

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 178
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:42:28 AM
Hey! Did you change your name or something Change it back! You confused me for a minute. Women need to forgive more exp: Brianna forgave Chris Browns little indescrition....now thats submissive
 Howie_J

Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 179
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:27:55 AM

I wont blow up.. ill smile.. and Just leave one day!


Precisely
 smartazzjohn

Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 180
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:40:26 AM
I don't like submissive women when the only thing they want to do is submit their bills to me for payment.
 Howie_J

Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:46:55 AM

I don't like submissive women when the only thing they want to do is submit their bills to me for payment.


/rim shot
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 3/18/2009 11:33:11 AM
I agree with Moonybabes somewhat. You all can call it being Submissive or whatever twist you want, i call it having old fashioned values, JMO. Times have changed, this is true. As Moony said, this isnt Ozzy and Harriets world anymore, nor June and Wards, but that doesnt mean that a woman still cant take care of the kids, or have the family meal ready at a certain time everyday, or make sure the laundry is done and the chores around the house are kept up, whether she works outside the home or not. Personally, i still yearn to have a hubby i can cook for, do laundry for, keep the house clean for, AND still keep my job too! But,,,i also see him doing 'quote man jobs' around the house too. lol Taking care of the yard and lawn, household repairs and maintenance, taking out the garbage, etc... Unrealistic? Not really. This is the household i grew up in, and yes my mom worked outside of the house AND all those other things. Our house wasnt ran like the military either...it was mutual and....it worked.

I guess im doing it all myself (obviously)....but i can still dream. :)
 DevotedRomance

Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 183
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Posted: 3/18/2009 12:45:27 PM
Umm..uh,,,,hello? Well ive um, been here going on *whispers* 4 years (shhh!)....and ive not gone on a meet/date with anyone! Notta 1! lol Ok,,so it doesnt help that i had Not Single/Not Looking for a lil while there on my profile


Thats a bunch of rubbish Ripples a doddles.... I know i have offered sincerely offered and you can not tell me that a beautiful classy lady as yourself has not had any sincere offeres AND NO I DO NOT MEAN THAT KIND OF OFFERES... and yet she siggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhssssssssssss.. nope not one in 4 years..



And since i am no longer available the offer has expired but maybe the manufactures warrenty will need to be upgraded one day who knows... gggeeessshhhh...

Only time will tell:::::::
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 184
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Posted: 3/18/2009 1:53:33 PM
cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids..or liking your man on top has nothing to do with being submissive does it?...i asked a few people what the word submissive meant to them...the 35 year old male said quickly "obey"....22 year old female said "easy going"...hmmm that might be news for the "men and women don't think alike" thread eh?...submissive, my first thought was mindlessly following someone...yeah that would work in some circumstances, but not all...female intuition rocks
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:07:24 PM

or liking your man on top has nothing to do with being submissive does it?..



I quit chewing my Twizzler in mid chew when i read that!
 smartazzjohn

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:09:28 PM
I explained rather extensively how I feel about this topic on page one of this thread. I could use my superior "copy/paste" skills to post it again but I don't want to clutter up this or any other thread by doing so.


I guess im doing it all myself (obviously)....but i can still dream. :)


rip you know I don't sing karaoke...... but if you come to my house I'll get in the shower, my normal singing venue, and perform an acappella rendition of "Beautiful Dreamer" just for you.........you just can't laugh loudly enough for me to hear, OK?
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 187
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:24:22 PM
awwwww john, thats so sweeeeet

lol, ripadoodles....i had katnip today
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:25:41 PM
Ill just flush the toilet when i feel a giggle coming on. Your voice might go up a few notches tho when the cold water hits ya!!

Bob Seger, eh? Next time we meet up at Lafata's, im gonna put that song in with your name on it!
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 189
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:37:15 PM
^^^^^oh my, too friggin funny...i could just hear that soprano john
 smartazzjohn

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:38:11 PM
I would probably sound more like Bing Crosby........I do believe you are thinking of a different song..........maybe Beautiful Loser? LOL
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 3/18/2009 3:00:21 PM
hahahaaha Omg you are right ~ it is Loser and not Dreamer!

Bing Crosby? lolol My ex used to drink like a fish (wahhh fish! lol dont say it John!), and he'd embarrass the hell outta me doing Frank Sinatra renditions ~ even going as far as getting on one knee, spreading his arms out, and just belting out his tunes!

Hmmm,,on his knees. Good subby position!! LMAO
 martiniqueenie

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 192
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Posted: 3/22/2009 12:47:43 PM
I like to compare a relationship to a dance. I expect the man to be a strong lead, but how he gets me to where he wants me is what I pay attention to. Is he clumsy and jerk me around, or not know what he's doing and trying to fake it? Or is he smooth, strong, knows what he's doing, and gets me right to where he wants me without me even realizing how I got there? I don't know if I would call it Dominant/Submissive exactly, but I want a man that I know is strong enough for me to lean on if I need to, and will be looking out for my best interest in all ways, because that's what I'll be giving back to him. I wouldn't call being feminine in the old fashioned ways being weak, although I do think it's submissive, but being submissive doesn't mean you aren't strong. You just have to find the right man, and I do say "Man" because there are plenty of jerks out there who think finding a submissive woman is to find a doormat they can walk on, and yes, I guess there are women out there who like that, but it isn't me. I find great pleasure in pleasing my man in every way I can, but I also expect that given back to me. I'm a responder, and respond to each action given me. And when the day comes that I'm not happy anymore, I just go away, and yes, I do give warning before it happens, but once I'm gone, I'm gone, and I don't look back.
 bite my hook

Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 193
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Posted: 3/23/2009 5:04:40 AM
quennie, i agree with everything you said. real women want real men, and not jerks. i remember this one fella (not from POF) kept emailing me and im'ing, and eventually we exchanged phone numbers. he was a successful accountant. he begged to meet and i wanted to meet him, too. so we decided to just meet at a tim horton's. so we meet up there. is it too much to spend $1.79 on me? we get up to the register and he orders for himself ONLY. he pays and i was quite stunned. so i buy my drink. when we sat down he explained he never pays for the first date. he said he'd go broke if he did.....that was our last meeting. cheap azz.
 martiniqueenie

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2009 12:21:15 PM
I'd sure like to read some more male feedback on this.
 ggroeller

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2009 2:35:52 PM
I've heard it said that POF should be known as POFD ... "Plenty Of Free Dinners"

Myself, being an old fashioned type, I have no problem grabbing the whole tab and then suggesting that 'she' leave a good tip assuming we're at an eatery. Sometimes, it's the only time I do so, sometimes not, it all depends on 'the connection' .

And next time it's the other way around. Figure that in the world today it's only fair to 'take turns' IMO
 Howie_J

Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:34:13 PM
I think I've already clearly stated that I'm a baller and have no problems picking up the whole tab and even letting the woman order a large drink at Taco Bell...
 samsgurl

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 197
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Posted: 3/23/2009 7:12:12 PM

I've heard it said that POF should be known as POFD ... "Plenty Of Free Dinners"


LOL..i only got one free dinner off of my dating life on POF.. :))... i must have been doing it all wrong!!
 martiniqueenie

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2009 9:12:38 PM
What I meant was I wanted male input on the Submissive Women thing. Not the free dinners. Start another forum for that one.
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 199
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Posted: 3/24/2009 12:53:21 AM
queenie girl i couldn't have said it better myself...nothing like dancing in strong arms...oh my
 Howie_J

Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 3/24/2009 5:05:01 AM

What I meant was I wanted male input on the Submissive Women thing. Not the free dinners. Start another forum for that one.


No joking or fun allowed in thsi thread, got it.
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