| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:12:01 PM | I was mostly asking would the guys date a bi girl There is always going to be a part of her that needs something else and i don't share
That seems like a pretty big (and daft) generalisation. Just because a lady may 'swing both ways' doesn't mean that she does not know what she wants, or will jump into the sack with another woman at any given opportunity...
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 3:37:18 AM | Well i found out the hard way, that someone i was dating was in fact bisexual.
The signs were there, and all my friends and family noticed his mannerisms/actions too.
If he had come clean about in the first place, no i wouldn't of dated him - just not my thing really. It's all about honesty, with yourself and others.
Not that i have a problem with bisexual/gay people. But, i'm strictly male fodder lol
I have two friends (female) who are bisexual. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:28:15 AM | I couldnt date a bi -guy..just for the fact that knowing where his litle soldiers been prodding would upset my delicate constitution | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:36:19 AM | No
I wouldn't want a man who is checking out other guys when were together lol, I can accept they like to check out other woman but would find it odd.
I think men would mostly say yes to a bi woman because they think they are going to get a 3 som, if that did not happen the man is most likely to leg it!
Men do have these fantasys of two women together but would they want one of them for a girlfriend? not so sure. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:38:50 AM | | i dated many bi girls, in fact if a girl not a bisexual i am not that interested unless if she is a good dancing lady. | |
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lignin
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 6:11:23 AM | Would I?
I was going to automatically say no, but then reconsider what I know of someone I know, how long I've known them, and what mutual appreciation is possible, so it isn't a criterion. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 10:31:39 AM | I've dated bi men before, but I don't think I'd do it again... they need to make up their mind what they want and stop being greedy | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 11:05:22 AM | Surely it all depends on what you classify as a date...
If it doesn't involve sexual intercourse/forplay/snogging etc, then is it a date? After all many heterosexual men go out (down the Pub etc) with other heterosexual (or at least they think they are heterosexual) men. (is that not a date??)
tribadism isn't it called using the washing machine?????
Ruffy. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:12:34 PM | first answer was no.. i dont think i could date a bi guy...
then, thinking about it ; the answer.... if we were exclusively dating.. would it matter if he was bi or not? Id like to think it didnt matter as we 'were an item' so any other sexualities hopefully wouldnt get a look in.(as in any relationship, i wouldnt expect him to wander and see others, even females if he werent bi)
but then back to first answer.. could i date a man who were attracted to men ?
I absolutely adore the company of gay men.. but not one I know is bi ?
MMmm guess you have to be there, encounter it, then decide | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:37:01 AM | I know alot of bi people and some of the guys i know are great and attractive and we get on well.
If asked this a few years ago i would have said no but having seen the world a little more and meeting a wider circle of friends i would have to yes.
As long as they were dating me and me only then i dont see any harm in it,but if they were just tarts then i wouldnt want to know. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:56:28 AM | If they are faithful does it matter?
Or is the implication that bi people are more likely to be promiscuous? I suppose they could be twice as tempted. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/16/2008 4:06:53 AM | I've been in long term relationships with a few bi girls, they've ranged from 'very sure of themselves' to ' not so sure of themselves'. All of them equally messed with my head but I doubt that that was anything to do with their sexual orientation. It hasn't put me off.
I think girls' have a severe double standard when it comes to bi guys though. There seems to be a stigma of emasculation when it comes to 'em. For all the girls they can't get due to this they could probably match that in terms of guys. haha. I don't really think they have more choice, they just tend to meet like minded people who are severely horny and prone to alcohol and drug abuse. j/k.
Note- not trying to offend just playing on a stereotype. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:53:02 AM | Just becauise your bi, does not meen you are promiscuos or that you have loads more sex thn anyone else. In fact it is harder to find someone when you are openly bi because of reactions like the ones on this thread. Promiscutiy is not linked to sexuality, you are just as likely to be cheated on by astraight person as a bi or gay person.
Most people just want someone to love and when they find that special person, they will be more than happy with what they have, not continue looking for more. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:21:01 AM | I'd certainly *date* a bi girl. Whether things would go further would depend entirely on what we learned about each other during the dating period, exactly the same as with a hetero person.
If things did progress to a relationship, it would be on the understanding that girl/girl cheating is still cheating, and is still a dealbreaker in relationship terms. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:32:28 AM | | Yes I would date a bi -girl.Im hetrosexual so no interest in guys at all. I would date a bi girl because I think she might be more open about what she likes and wants and may teach me more about making sure my partner enjoys sex as much as possible,However im not a swinger .When in a relationship i am faithful and I expact the same from her wether she is bi or not | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/19/2008 3:40:04 PM | No...simple as that
couldnt sleep with a man who was into men
having said that one of my best male friends is gay....I have no problem with that and I love him to bits | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:13:29 PM | No problem with bi-girls here... Heck I dated one for like 18 months 
I was really impressed with her ferocious sexual appetite and her constant need to orgasm 24/7. Sometimes we would rate other women on their attractiveness, but before you jump to conclusions, she was NOT up for a 3 some LOL! Although she was up for giving me a "show" IF I didn't interfere.
Anyway I was young, naive and at University at the time, so I'm afraid I didn't pursue kinky stuff like that. But she sure gave me an education on the fact that some women are just as carnal and as kinky as men, and that was a welcome gift I assure you. 
So yeah... I would date bisexual women in a heartbeat AND I'd be happy for her to explore her kinky nature with other women ONLY (no men!  ) | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:06:16 PM |
trusting your partner and having tests doesn't gaurantee fidelity, and repeating the tests periodically suggests lack of trust....tricky
True enough, but you can say exactly the same thing about a hetero couple, so there's no real comparison to be made. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:59:56 PM | | It seems to the assumption that Bi people are more promiscuous. Ok they have two sex's to go at (poor turn of phrase I know) bUt my order of play is go out with a girl I find attractive and a condition of that is that she is monogomous with myself the Bi issue is third on the pecking order and lesser of a priority.and no that business about she could invite a friend home etc- is only a cliche, monogamy is the priority for me. who said it was a type of wood? | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/19/2008 9:00:56 PM | I dated and actually lived with a bisexual girl for a while, previously she'd had a long term relationship with a girl for several years.
It maybe took a little adjusting to, but it didn't mean that she was less faithful/more kinky/unsure of what she wanted etc. It was to do with her sexuality and not her fidelity, and I've always seen those as two very different issues. Why would a bisexual partner make a less attractive proposition than either a heterosexual or a homosexual partner? It's to do with how faithful someone can be to one person, and not their sexual preferences. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/20/2008 3:22:43 AM | Yep, I went out with a Bi guy before, not really that bothered by it really...
It's to do with how faithful someone can be to one person, and not their sexual preferences.
my sentiments exactly. | |
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/20/2008 3:29:27 AM | | Greetings, the joy of sex with male or female holds no anxieties for me. The whole sex thing is a grey area, whatever you feel comfortable with. Regards Des | |
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lignin
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Joined: 9/25/2007
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| Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 4/22/2008 4:30:01 AM | The things you don't think of/forget:
-changed the "search criteria" elsewhere, from hetero, to just ladies , and out come the weird people...
For me, one with one, me Tarzan, you Jane/Janet etc! | |
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