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 jms_brggs

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/30/2005 10:04:55 PM
indigo to answerer yopur question with a question, Do you like multipal orgasims
 robertpaulson

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/30/2005 10:21:51 PM
I dunno, is "the dutch oven" bad or good?
 FunLovinFella

Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/30/2005 10:23:04 PM
I can be whatever when it gets to the point of the bedroom... see one of the nice things about us nice guys is we actually care about YOUR comfort and pleasure... whether you want it rough and tumble, or slow and sensual, whether you have 20 minutes before lunch break is over, or want to savor 6 hours under the moonlight, we're happy to deliver!

I for one like it whichever way but I PREFER the longer-lasting, romantic, sensual type session with a woman... bust out the sticks of incense, set the appropriate mood lighting, turn on the right music, start with a good amount of making out to start things off, lay her down on my nice soft bed and caress her delicate body... start to move my way down to her neck and earlobes and feel how responsive and into it she is, make sure to give enough at this point to get the engine going a little until the point I know she wants me to get her shirt off and work down a little further, spend plenty of time on her breasts and nipples and plant kisses all over her body... this act of my tongue working it's way down bit by bit combined with foreplay continues while I'm stripping off the same piece of clothing right after her each time, reaches a point of oral sex (me giving, her receiving, I like to give more than to receive anyway) until she's begging me to penetrate her, from there we can explore all sorts of positions all the while caressing and devouring eachother's bodies... this could go on for hours and hours without me tiring of it; as long as she's into it, I'm into it, if she's not then I'm happy to adapt and try anything else, I've even brought a little bondage and some biting and whipping into the picture when my woman desires such a thing, all she needs to do is ask.

Does that pretty much answer your question?

Let me leave you with one of my favorite quotes as well, from "Revenge of the Nerds" (right after Julia realizes she just humped a nerd with a mask on, thinking it was her jock boyfriend):

Betty: Oh my god, you're a nerd!

Louis: Yeah..

Betty: You were amazing... are all nerds as good as you?

Louis: Yes.

Betty: ...why?

Louis: All Jocks think about is sports... all nerds think about is sex.


Just replace "Jock" with "Bad Boy" and replace "Nerd" with "Nice Guy" and you'll understand why we nice guys can't help but scratch our heads in confusion whenever a woman turns us down for a bad boy instead...
 BraveFireFighter

Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/30/2005 10:29:52 PM
good answer to deagle, pandy! ya stole my thunder, girl!
speaking of deagle, ya think the "bad dog" would have the name Beagle!
 Pandy

Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 5/31/2005 1:01:53 AM
huh?
 RozeUP

Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:14:30 AM
i can be a nice guy, it's tough tho cause being an a$$ is fun. when i pull off nice, i get hella bad in bed. when i'm an a$$ i fall off and get all wimpy in bed. a lesson for all you 'nice guy' haters.
 Just_Add_Water

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:23:07 AM
I've always been pretty much a nice guy but can be a nut at times, but I enjoy opening doors and holding hands. I smile a lot when I'm near her or think of her. It feels good when you have someone close to you like that. I like to rub her back and when I'm in public and can't touch, I may give a slight moan in her ear and I'm sure she knows what I'm thinking or wanting. It's all about being a good boy and recieving your treat for being on your best behavior. I like to tell her what I'd like to do to her hours before we go to a party or a get together with friends and make her have that on her mind all day and wating or guessing what I've schemed up for our alone time.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/31/2005 6:40:19 AM
ohh loverboy...Too be young again *sigh*
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
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Posted: 5/31/2005 1:48:25 PM
too bad it's so long ago some people can't even remember.....and too old to ever experience it again...I prefer someone older and more adept...i.e. highly skilled; proficient; expert

 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:13:11 PM
Sal there isn't that many men older than you
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:20:08 PM
Is that the best you can do?

 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:24:17 PM
Some of these guys don't look like GOOD GUYS !
 djama

Joined: 1/17/2005
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Posted: 5/31/2005 2:25:34 PM
~~~~is a nice guy......terrible in bed
 Just_Add_Water

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/2/2005 10:57:03 AM
hey Djama, that was funny ,but hey.. Even sloppy sex can be thrilling. :)
 Robot Fatality

Joined: 5/21/2005
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Posted: 6/2/2005 2:25:28 PM
I think you can be a nice guy, and be good at what you do ... look the part (that's what attracts girls in the first place), then when it comes down to it, wear 'em out in bed. Be nice about it, but do what you do. It's all in the hips ;)
 DropDeadGorgeous

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/2/2005 5:06:56 PM
My boyfriend is the nicest guy I have ever met yet! And he rocks my world. lol ::whispers:: He's the 3rd guy to ever give me an orgasm. And he's only been with a few girls. I'm glad I found my Jose. :) Every girl needs someone like him.
 Nyctobello

Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/2/2005 9:47:13 PM
do NOT bring out the vampire in me.
 rock03

Joined: 4/27/2005
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Posted: 6/5/2005 1:38:05 AM
YA-KNOW IF YOU WOULD JUST GIVE US NICE GUYS A CHANCE YOUD SEE THAT NICE GUYS ALWAYS FINISH LAST ISNT ALWAYS A BAD THING!
 stealth2

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/11/2005 7:42:00 PM
I never had one complaint and I'm a nice guy. Nice guys know how to have a slow time and listen to the song Want a lover with a slow hand."
 jacel

Joined: 3/1/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2005 8:03:46 PM
Well; I was told one time--and it IS true- IT'S NOT HOW MUCH YOU HAVE; IT'S JUST HOW YOU USE IT; And windover; I'VE NEVER HAD ANY COMPLAINTS; I dated a nurse one time---45 minutes later and her coming to a climax 19 times;--WELL;-- SHE SMILED FOR 3 WEEKS.---I'LL JUST LEAVE IT AT THAT;
 sailorfun

Joined: 8/10/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2005 8:22:31 PM
If nice guys is defined by guys who are considerate of others, not egotistical...

Even though I would consider myself a "nice guy" that hardly means that I don't have a certain self-confidence that is borne of accomplishment, experience and achievement. That recipe has to carry over into love making.

Though some may call it chauvinist, I doth protest. I open doors for women, including their car door, and hand them their seatbelt. And two of my hard and fast rules is that if there is a man around a woman should never have to pump her own gas or take out the trash.

My rule in the bedroom is that if I am ensuring my partner is enjoying the lovemaking, then she will ensure that I do too.

So....is that "good" or "bad" I don't know. I just know it works. You want to be tied up, and let me use the riding crop on your fanny?
 Canadian_Hottie_30

Joined: 2/27/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2005 8:52:35 PM
I know the 'nicest" guy in the world, who turns into the NAUGHTIEST boy in bed! Kind of a cool combo!
 wonwascallywabbit

Joined: 7/20/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2005 11:27:18 PM
If you can't put together a coherent sentence for at least 4 hours afterwards, I'm a happy guy.
 Stepinover

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/12/2005 2:48:14 AM
I'm a pretty nice guy!!!!
 Smiler127

Joined: 7/8/2005
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Posted: 8/12/2005 6:47:10 AM
You know the best thing about Angels and the white they wear? It gets dirty so easily!
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