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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 6:08:41 AM | | I'M not a man (obviously) but I think we both want the same thing in the end. Passion. It's not something you can fake and can only be felt with certain people. Usually someone you care about. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 7:16:19 AM | Havent you seen "when Harry Met Sally"? Just follow Megs lead, even if you fake it honey, fake it til you make it! Oooh, oh, oooooooh, yes, yes, ooooh, aah oooooh, yes, yes, yes, yes, YES YES YES!!!!!! Fling head backwards, move hands all over face, lick your lips honey, roll your eyes a little, then a lot, touch yourself. Just be animated! get my drift honey? That will turn em on and upwards!!!  | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 1:32:33 PM | Does anyone else think that you are only as good as your partner?
I disagree with this statement. I'm the common denominator, and sometimes its great and sometimes it's meh. I think it has more to do with true sexual compatability. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 1:58:37 PM | If she's very experimental, open to try new kinky things, very confident and knowledgeable about her body and basically just has a very healthy interest in sex are ALL good things.
I don't think it's a technical issue about techniques really... More about her attitude towards sex in general.
Women that are frigid, are scared or ignorant of the male anatomy, have some complex about sex due to religion, or have misguided perceptions about biology and how babies are conceived, can REALLY kill the mood.
My last girlfriend (who just had to get dumped) had many of these issues… For example, when it came to using my hands to get her off, she insisted that I use anti-bacterial hand wash, so as to stave of “vaginal infections”.
Yeah… The sex (if I can even call it that) sucked big-time! | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 4:00:51 PM | Oh man,
she just lays down on her back and looks at me like "whatcha waitin for" while I am thinking, would it be rude if I just leave her like this and go watch a movie or sumthin......
boriiiiiiiiiinnnngggggggg..... | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 4:24:49 PM | Synergy in mind and spirit that effectively creates a freedom that allows a dynamo of animalistic pleasure at the very lowest level, based on our highest values, wherein each is pleased, pleasing, and has the desire to further pleasure their partner... further creating a higher level of satisfaction, wherein each is pleased, pleasing, and... (and so on)
A little freaky, and a couple shots of Tequila followed by a couple hours of foreplay never hurt either.
I would never brag... they would never believe me... | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/24/2008 8:27:49 PM | OK, since you asked: Enthusiasm Imagination The ability to put her ankles behind her ears.
Hey, you did ask!
<div class="quote">"One, Two, THARRREEEE"!Bullielover62, That's just SO wrong! Sex with owls is just sick, I don't care how poorly they were drawn! | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 11:56:36 AM | | she doesnt complain o that hurts its too deep i am tired do you want sex or not that would be one and done with me.the funny thing is when you get up and leave in the middle of this a girl would say whats the problem as i laugh bye. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 12:17:52 PM |
I'M not a man (obviously) but I think we both want the same thing in the end. Passion
Well said Miss Movifan! My kind of woman! [obviously]  | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 2:22:00 PM | I think many people have answered this in a similar way, or danced around, the simple concept that what makes a woman good in bed is primarily her wanting to be there (physically, emotionally, and mentally at the same time not just one or two aspect) and subsequent behavior supporting the desire. I can't answer the bragging of having a woman part. I don't have any buddies nor seek out one sided gratification. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 3:18:03 PM |
Just wondering what you guys consider being good in bed?............. Passion, enthusiasm, uninhibited and a driving desire to please.
I can't speak for other guys but my baby pretty much owns me mind, heart and body.  | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 8:44:33 PM | I think men like women who are 'un-inhibited, sexy, nasty, and 'open minded'.....
men are 'visual'.... they want to see EVERYTHING.....
they want to feel like "GOD"........ LIKE THE KING OF HIS CASTLE.....  | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 8:48:24 PM | This is one of those question with no answer I think.
1. You never know if she's going to be good. 2. You can't explain why she's good.
I think it all boils down to pheromones. When yours mixes with his, and they bind to all the right receptor, you just get really high. How else can you explain it?
Now, if you ask what make a woman BAD in bed, I think you'd get tons of good info.  | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/2/2008 9:25:27 PM | We live in a very compeatitive and somewhat harsh world (particularly at work, etc.). What men desire in a woman is softness. I'm not just talking about soft skin. I like a woman who is soft spoken (a tone of voice that is gentle, etc.) and soft hearted (caring, etc.). If you think about it, being a "gurly girl" is all about being soft, right down to the soft colors (pink, etc.). Men don't want to be soft, we usually don't feel that we can be, but we want to be able to bask in the softness of a woman when we retreat from the harsh world. just my thinking............ | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/3/2008 7:28:54 PM | | Oh my God, I'll never be able to think of a Tootsie Pop or a Tootsie Roll innocently again. I could end up in therapy over this one. But to answer the question, I did love "When Harry Met Sally" but I think a woman who does such a performance would be perceived by the guy to be doing just that...a performance. I would like someone to be into the give and take of a passionate encounter and not just do all the taking or all the giving. Most people could tell if the woman they are with really WANTS to do what she is doing. It is definitely the enthusiasm, not just the actions involved. And you can tell if the enthusiasm isn't really there. I don't like to be lied to, but I do enjoy complements on the things I do to make a girl feel good. I know, there are some women out there taking notes on specific dialog and such, but it isn't about specific words, it is about the enthusiasm with which you speak those words, or perhaps a loss of ability to keep yourself from saying certain things. Yeah, lots of enthusiasm and the total loss of inhibitions would be the place to start...or put another way, sexual desperation coupled with lots of alcohol. You can never go wrong with a horny drunk woman. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/3/2008 9:10:27 PM | -No teeth.
-Massive breasts.
-Sword-swallowing experience (other freakshow talents also welcome; bearded ladies, though, are an acquired taste).
-Ability to contort self and/or missing/detachable limbs
-Open to experimentation with urethral penetration if she's given birth in the last few days
-A good heart and a beautiful soul
If only I were a man...oh, the sex I'd be having. | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/3/2008 9:50:13 PM | To get a general consensus, the question might have to rephrased. The "bragging to your buddies" part preselects a portion of the male population. Not trying to get clinical on you, but there is a difference in being good in bed and being worthy of publicity:) | |
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/4/2008 5:13:14 PM | Fun thread...
As I read all the posts... One recurrent thought keeps coming to my mind.
There is a French saying... "Il n'existe pas de femmes froides. Il n'y a que des hommes maladroits!"
Lousely transalted....
There is not such thing as a "cold" woman in bed. Instead it is the man that is not in tune?... (I have no idea how to translate "maladroit"...) Let's see, awkward, not quite right... something like being off beat, not the right timing, etc... Visually, means if you are right handed, and you use the left had to do things, then things get awkward, off key, etc...
Soooo... literally translated it sounds funny in English... Here goes...
There is no such thing as a non sexual woman. It's just that men use their left hand when they are right handed and vice versa...
Maybe someone has heard the English version somewhere.
PS: I googled "maladroit"... Here is the information: Maladroit = clumsy; awkward; unskillful
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| What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 5/5/2008 12:27:53 AM | There is not such thing as a "cold" woman in bed. Of course not. Women are never cold anywhere for any reason. Instead it is the man that is not in tune?... Naturally it would be the man in control of the woman's body and mind. How else could it possibly be? Could you really entrust such a delicate thing to a mere woman, her own thought process, heven forbid.
I would far sooner have a good woman in my bed than a woman who is good in bed. Sorry but sex just isn't very important in the grand scheme of things. It won't last (10 - 15 seconds maybe.....hahahahahhahaha) it fades and then you are left cold and frightened trying to figure out what happened. You are left dirty and used and she just wanders away leaving you like a discarded gum wrapper to eventually rot away.
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