| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:20:34 AM | | This is just philosophical bs. Hot sex with someone is just hot sex, but you can call it anything you want. The phrase "making love" was invented because the word "fukking" is offensive to finicky female sensibilities. "Making love" sounds more warm and fuzzy and romantic, but it is still the exact same physical act. There is nothing wrong with being in love with someone you are having hot sex with, but it is still hot sex. Since good sex is better than bad sex I am going to make my sex just as warm and tender and loving with someone I am not in love with as I would with someone I am in love with. There are also times when it should just be hard and hot and nasty. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:32:54 AM | Re: Custis
[ I am going to make my sex just as warm and tender and loving with someone I am not in love with as I would with someone I am in love with. ]
Really !are you able to do that ? Make the "physical act" to someone you have no emotional feelings for , in the same way as you would to a Woman you are in love with? Humm
I wonder do you enjoy the "physical Act" just as much ? The absence of love does not affect the"physical act" ? | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 12:19:20 PM | Yes , Bloom 10....but I believe you love your friends to an extent...therefore there is still love involved. I may have misunderstood what he was saying ...I took it to be just a random encounter ....a one night stand kind of thing. I can not see that being as pleasureable as having sex with someone you care (love ,in love with) about.
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 1:10:08 PM | | Imho it wouldn't be making love if there wasn't love, thats the difference between sex and making love to me. Sex is purily physical, making love is more intamate. Now I think what the Op was trying to get at by saying "in Love" was like a girlfriend. I have lady friends I would be making love too if I had sex with them, that doesn't mean I want a romantic relationship with them but I do love them. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:32:32 PM | | if you like someone and the mood is right you can make love and enjoy yourself. you may not be in love with that person. just as you could love someone that does not take the time to make love with you. you feel like you just have sex. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 6:07:35 PM | curtis: I am going to make my sex just as warm and tender and loving with someone I am not in love with as I would with someone I am in love with.
You may fool some of the women some of the time, but not those who have been loved by one that has loved them...dont believe anyone can fake an aura of love for an aura of lust.
Its more about put your heart inside of them.. and plus even if they dont know. You will.. Dont short yourself go all the way!! 
I have know women that could have a full blown, over the top, orasm, just by getting close to a person they loved. Not even touching or very little. By getting inside there space....
hello my name is penis,  and when grow up i wanta be an orasm donor 
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/9/2008 6:22:25 PM | litefoot that last line was TOO funny...never heard that one before!
and ITA with you...we can tell the difference. Big time.
Intuition is NOT to be f*cked with! And I'd bet that men can tell the difference too, if a woman is ML or just having sex.
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PeterC
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/19/2008 3:21:49 PM | I dont believe you can.
You can have sex with someone you are not in love with. But to make true love you have to love thgat person. And you both can truely feel the love when its really there! | |
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nogo3
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:05:55 PM | | I believe "making love" and just sex are 100% completly different things. The difference is in the emotional connection. Sex is the instinctual act people are drawn to do (and a release). Making love is what couples who care about each other do and usually invloves more then just the basic motions, it's supposed to be two people mutually trying to please the other as opposed to two drunk people meeting in a bar and going off the make themselves feel better. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:22:06 PM | IMO making love, sex, screwing, f*cking, it's all the same thing. The only difference is 40 years ago it was taboo to say "sex" and so the phrase was make love, because you were only supposed to have sex when you were married... and in love.
Nowadays, it's seems the phrase is more of a type of sex. If you are emotionally connected and actually love each other etc. etc. then that's making love, so if that's the case, then i would say you would definitely have to be in love with someone to make love to them.
Personally, when i hear that phrase i cringe a little because i really don't think love and sex have to be related, and if some girl i brought home from the bar actually said "make love to me"... i'd lose all mojo. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:52:26 AM | "making love" is a euphamism. one cannot physically "MAKE LOVE". But, one can and many do, engage in sexual intercourse without persons they dont love.
so, the question is rather silly. there is actually no difference between the two; "sex and making love". they are both euphamisms for intercourse. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:44:28 AM | | yep u can make love to urself or u can make sex with urself,according to ur frame of mind at the time and the screams of the flesh.U can and should love thy neighbor as u love urself now does that mean go jump in bed with him or her?This love is for humans mixed in with other emotions like compassion,respect,understanding of who they r and the level of love u extend to them is tied into the level they have in ur life which goes with how u think about them.Massage therapists can give u a massage that makes u feel like u r being made love to and some do cry from the level of relaxation they reach.U can put candles around ur tub and up the smells of flowers till u think of it or relate it with love making.Some ppl can smell a fragrance or aroma and instantly be in the love way of thinking kinda like what chocolate does for some,ok I need a minute weeeeeeee,ok ty all done. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 5/14/2008 9:10:02 PM | just my opinion but to me if your not in love with someone then its sex not making love.
the term says it all.if your not in love u cant make love lol
if your not in love with someone but u care a lot for them and all and u feel like its getting close to falling in love then its a bit more than just sex but i still wouldnt call it making love. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 5/14/2008 9:26:54 PM | | The word games are meaningless. If you are getting into it with them, really getting into it, you can call it making love to, making love with, doing, screwing, whatever. The upshot is, if it is good, it is good. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 5/14/2008 9:35:29 PM | "Really !are you able to do that ? Make the "physical act" to someone you have no emotional feelings for , in the same way as you would to a Woman you are in love with? "
Absolutely. Sex is either worth doing right, or it is not worth doing. | |
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| Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:44:32 AM | | The answer is NO. making love is for the person you love. sex is just sex which can be had with anyone. love making is speacial and rare in this day and time. you see lovemaking is not about HOW you sex a person. Its the feelings you have for that person that u are haveing sex with. sex is just an act. who its with determines if its lovemaking or just sex. boyfirned and girlfriend cannot make love unless they are truely in love iwth each other. if not truely in love they can only sex each other. | |
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