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 PopPopcicle

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 151
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Posted: 4/25/2008 2:32:00 PM
Oh guess I left out the word MOST in your quote, and awesome you found at least someone. Everyone should experience it, because nuffin feels better than a wet muffin for both involved.
 fishingman62

Joined: 11/21/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2008 6:59:24 PM
i have had the pleasure of a woman who squirts and i thought it was incredible.... all you women who can should never be embarrassed or ashamed of it... you have had the ultimate orgasm both physicaly amd emotionally.... the lady i was with could squirt all the time.... for myself it was a huge turn on and it made the sex fantastic we were like a couple of kids in a candy store and we are both in are nid 40's i would love to find another woman who is that sexual and can squirt all nite long
 islandw

Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 153
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Posted: 4/25/2008 9:02:42 PM
I'm a squirter and I cant imagine having to "warn" my date..should I tell him if hes any good Ill have multiple orgasms and i might scream? Should I tell him I sometimes growl just before I cum? Should I tell him if its really, really good I will actually cry? Should I tell him if he comes up behind me and plays with my nipples I'll cum without anythign else needed? WHat happens if I tell hi8m these thigns and none of them occur? ISnt he going to feel liek a failure?
I think all that is the fun of exploring each other. I dont want a biography of HIS sexual reactions, id like to discover them myself. And yes,If the guy was shocked Id be dumping him pretty quickly.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 4/25/2008 9:40:08 PM

I'm a squirter and I cant imagine having to "warn" my date..And yes,If the guy was shocked Id be dumping him pretty quickly.


Well see....if you warn him (before the first time )about the possibility, then he wouldn't be 'shocked'-that's the whole point.......I personally just do it as a coutesy but to each his own.

HR
 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2008 10:24:37 PM
OTOH, I understand the other side of warning to. I don't squirt with every man or even every time so if you say you do, then it doesn't happen, that could be an ego buster.
 coffeelover

Joined: 3/31/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2008 11:02:33 PM
well now,

Knowing all of that how does a husband, lover,friend, allow? a womean to feel that comfortable?

My experience allows me to say that it is in the mind of the the squirter and not the to be squirted in that really matters
 rencen

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 4/26/2008 12:20:08 AM
Dude that's actually a common thing for women to do that if they let you take them that far. Just like most men don't have a problem gettin their cum on a womans face, you shouldn't have a problem with getting hers on yours. You have a gift dude. she can't fake it. You'll know everytime. embrace that shit. alot of women will stop you be for they burst love juices because the feeling is overwhelming and draining. If you comfort her , then you are opening the doors to some of the greatest sex you could have. the worst thing you could do is make her feel uncomfortable about something good. That's like telling someone they're wrong for winning $20,000,000 in the lottery. SO GET IN THERE, PUT YOUR WET SUIT AND SCUBA GEAR ON AND GET TO FRIGGIN SNORKLIN BRO. IT'S NOT SO BAD. "Renny" has spoken
 nsfreespirit

Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 4/26/2008 7:14:48 AM
There are a lot of squiters out there,some who squirt and those who gush.Some will soak everything and go off like a high presure hose and some have multiple little ones.It is one of my biggest turn ons.
 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 4/26/2008 8:59:26 AM

My experience allows me to say that it is in the mind of the the squirter and not the to be squirted in that really matters


While this is indeed true, the right partner can make all the difference. I think this statement applies to both men and women.

Many people enjoy sex, but many are unable to communicate during, about, before. For some, sex happens first and foremost in the mind.

Many women do squirt, but don't run into men who on are the same plane sexually, so she will never squirt with him.

If you are with someone who does not think sex is important or cannot talk about it in an open free manner - things quickly go sour.

If one thinks they have nothing more to learn about sex and sexuality, personally I would not be interested in dating them. I truly believe there is always more to learn - in everything!
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 4/26/2008 9:00:37 AM

Knowing all of that how does a husband, lover,friend, allow? a womean to feel that comfortable?
My experience allows me to say that it is in the mind of the the squirter and not the to be squirted in that really matters


coffeelover....I have to agree somewhat with what you said. A lot of times, it is in the mind of the 'squirter' but if she knows that the man would be ok with her 'letting go', that's half the battle. It can depend on many things and sexual attraction (chemsitry) plays a big part of it for me. I have to be really into the guy and feel totally comfortable with him and he has to be a great kisser - because that's what gets me going Its not going to happen with every man, every time but if two people are really connected - mentally & physically, chances are it'll happen. I'm not sure how to answer your question as to how to make a wife/lover feel comfortable enough to let go. I would think that if someone is in a relationship, their comfort level is already there. Communication can only make sex better, so perhaps talking would go a long ways.

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 Renaissance Mun

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 4/26/2008 4:51:01 PM
A question that may have been answered in this thread, but I didn't spot it and I don't want to start a new thread on something that's so related to the original topic, but: Does it turn you women on for a man to swallow your cum? I would think it obviously would, but seems that one of the issues is whether a woman is comfortable in squirting in the first place and a man swallowing is one degree of possible discomfort. Ladies?
 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 4/27/2008 6:12:22 AM
^^^that is a question for each individual woman. Just because someone on here might like it doesn't mean someone you are dating will.

Ask the lady you are with - not a bunch of strangers on a forum.
 coffeelover

Joined: 3/31/2006
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Posted: 4/27/2008 7:04:22 AM
Rebel,

Thank you for your response. I understand that the comfort and trust level needs to be there but also shouldn't the individual's needs come into play a bit. I would like to think that in a sexual situation that we all could be a little bit greedy. What I mean is that we need to help get us there and be a little bit selfish about it.

I would love it if my wife and lover would squirt when she came, I find it to be sexy even though I have yet to witness it.
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 4/27/2008 8:59:30 AM
From reading some of the responses I'd have to conclude that probably the BIGGEST problem with stimulation of the GSpot comes because a good % of guys simply can't get their head (sic) around the concept of doing ANYHING to turn on a lady withOUT using their di¢ks.

I have been involved in a number of G-related topics on these thread and strangely enough THIS thread is missing the usual shrieking hordes of WOMEN and a few men who have never experienced a G-Gasm (let alone the squirty part) and post over and over again trying to kybosh the idea of a G-Spot and find the idea IMPOSSIBLE that any guys might know their body better than they do.

Considering that SCIENCE is, just now, using ultra sound discovering unusual tissue, nerve and glandular arrangements in the area CLAIMED by SOME women to be the area of the G-Spot it isn't a big surprise that so many have never heard of it or if they have assume it is unattainable by the average couple. There have been several recent reports claiming that there REALLY IS SOMETHING THERE. OK, science is discovering what a very few women and men have known for centuries. Good. But up until now researchers and publications have trashed the idea of an actual GSPot. HINES called it a MYTH. Others have suggested it is simply a ploy to persuade some women they aren't as sexy or sexual as others. What a stupid and cruel idea but that has even been posted by a creep in here on another thread. I got banned for calling him a moron but I think that is EXACTLY what he is when he's telling the women who post that they HAVE GSpot orgasms liars and reassure all others that GSpots do NOT exist. In the end MOST women CAN achieve those levels of mind blowing orgasms and those orgasms can be REPEATED almost indefinitely - so telling couples it's all BS and don't even try is just plan nasty and idiotic.

For the very few who ACTUALLY READ some of these posts there is a great G-Spot thread on LIT called TRY THIS. There is, sadly, a lot of fluff and banter especially the first few pages but the Technique for maximizing duration and intensity is finally recognized by a few who try it and discover it does work (for most) and the discussions and posts thereafter are some of the best on the net for newbies trying to discover this for the first time.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
 Kiefmeister

Joined: 2/21/2008
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:10:10 AM
Well first of all, All women and I mean all women are capable of squirting hugh vast amounts of liquid during sex. If a women hasn't yet experience this phenomenom it is only for the fact that we as men have yet to find her "spot". Should we be weirded out, .... I say hell no. We as men and women should be happy that our partners enjoy sex and should try to make it enjoyable for both parties. Sex is better when both are getting done to them what they want and vice versa, and the finale is the orgasim. Big or small as orgasism go are NATURAL and may sometime require a bib to eat at the buffet table. If you are not a fan then move away from the exploding clam. For easier clean ups fold a towel in half and tuck in under her butt, all that leaves is a sopping towel to throw into the hamper. Myself I love the fact that women can have such force behind their's (yes I'm jealous).
 blonde chickie

Joined: 11/3/2005
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:25:27 AM
I'm a squirter, guys luv it too !!!
 Lisa_0307

Joined: 2/28/2008
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Posted: 4/27/2008 11:04:06 AM
LOLOL, I'd warn my lover if it was our first time that I squirt.
I mean.. you don't want him to think it's something weird do you? (Men can think silly things sometimes)
And actually some men don't like it when girls squirt.. So id tell him.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 4/27/2008 11:53:02 AM

I have been involved in a number of G-related topics on these thread and strangely enough THIS thread is missing the usual shrieking hordes of WOMEN and a few men who have never experienced a G-Gasm (let alone the squirty part) and post over and over again trying to kybosh the idea of a G-Spot and find the idea IMPOSSIBLE that any guys might know their body better than they do


Dave...I think the reason why these people are missing is due to the title of the thread Women who squirt. I've participated in a lot of other threads that you mentioned and you're right - there are usually lots of people claiming it doesn't exist solely because they've never experienced it. Can't say that I miss seeing them on this one though

Kiefmeister had it right - two people should enjoy each other and make it an pleasurable experience for both parties involved.

If the guy is grossed out, it will sometimes reflect in the woman's attitude of sex. I mean would a man want to have a lot of sex if he was never allowed to cum because it was considered disgusting by his partner? I don't think so!

HR
 TOMic bomb

Joined: 3/25/2008
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Posted: 4/27/2008 12:02:30 PM
^^^^^^^^^ right you are happyrebel. ^^^^^^^^^^

you can learn this techique from any of the above posters. women who have never had it happen can learn to have this type of intense orgasm.

it takes trust and patience and some knowledge.

happy squirting all you sexy water babies!!!!

tom the bomb (wanna explode with me?)
 Just An Average Guy

Joined: 4/10/2008
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Posted: 4/27/2008 12:20:49 PM
Women who squirt rock. To me, there are very few things hotter than that.
 mwg1978

Joined: 4/20/2008
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Posted: 4/27/2008 8:29:38 PM

all you women who can should never be embarrassed or ashamed of it...


Yes, I totally agree, it is nothing to be ashamed of and you should be proud of it. It means you are comfortable enough with your partner that you can enjoy his company enough to do this. Too many women are so inhibitive about sex and their bodies that they would never be able to do that, but the women that can, well, you are very lucky. It says a lot about yourselves. To all the women who can squirt, what is the one thing you all have? I would say confidence in yourselves and you are secure with yourselves, which is so cool and it is a big turn on. Nothing sexier than a woman who is secure with herself and confident in bed, especially one who will communicate because so many women DO NOT communicate in bed (or at least the ones I have been with, and it sucks!!!)
 Renaissance Mun

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 4/29/2008 3:37:25 PM
Curious: Is there any kind of squirting world record recorded anywhere ... like longest squirt by a woman? It might makee a great new 21st century Olympic sport, sort of like "The long Jump" but instead, "The Long Squirt". Women representing different countries, lined up on their backs, "Ready, set, bang!" "And we have the gold medal winner! 6ft 4 inches!!! Fans going wild!
 maxoutlife

Joined: 4/19/2008
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Posted: 4/29/2008 4:45:12 PM
IT'S NOT SUGAR WATER.....RAIN WATER...
 Laneagan

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Posted: 4/29/2008 5:37:40 PM
I had the experience with a lovely lady who was multiorgasmic. Well into our relationship she suddenly began to squirt. It took penetration of either fingers or a****to produce this result. It was terrific and immensly satisfying for her and me. Though I learned the technique it did not always work. I think she had to repenish her resevoir and though it was infrequent it was unbelievable. One time she absolutely gushed and it soaked the bed, the floor and even the wall. Still it was frequent enough that we put an extra quilted type pad under the sheet just in case...
 !!MIKE DT!!

Joined: 7/16/2007
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Posted: 4/29/2008 6:11:47 PM
OP, You hit the Holy Grail of a female orgasm. You handled it all wrong weirding out over it...you should have been turned on. ...don't make her feel uncomfortable, embrace and celebrate it by doing it again. There's nothing more intense for a woman than a G-spot O...Learn, Give, Repeat!
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