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Posted: 4/7/2008 3:29:24 PM |
Big Girl (You are beautiful) by Mika is another really catchy tune that makes a woman feel good about her curves.
I totally forgot that one. I've only heard it the once though.
And for the record L, I've seen you for reals, I think you're sexy  | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 11:24:57 AM | ok...first off, im not ****ing are moaning about this i was asking what every one thought and took there comments, so i went back to his home and had dinner with him and went on to the fun part of the night and it was wonderful. and yes he called me today and ask me if i would like to go to his parents this week end and go for a long ride and stopwhere when it gets late and stay in what ever city we stoped at and then come home the next day....so was i upset for nothing..YES, i think i found my soul mate...well i hope anyway..tbaby | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 6:46:36 PM | Good for you, honey! I'm happy for you. As a super sized woman, I wrestle with these issues a lot. In fact, this is the only "regular site I am on, the rest are BBW sites. I do have a few comments on the issue though, for those that answered.
Yes, many men are into fat women and are ashamed of them, believe me.Your man sounds like the really manly type, so hang on to him.
It's like Buzzsaw McGruder said about motorcycles and fat women: "Harleys are like fat women-everybody likes ridin' them but don't want to say so". It's probably easier nowadays to go against social conditioning on race than it is fat.
But, the happy truth is a whole lot of guys like us biggies,even real biggies, like myself. Have fun, sweetie.  | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 7:17:26 PM | O.P.
if he has known you i doubt your size will be of any issue whatsoever. if things dont work out it will be personality or something else. 23 years is a long time and people can change, he may be a different person then you have known, possibly better, but possibly worse too.
sizes are kind of a "first impression preferrence" they are not relevant between friends or people that care for each other. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 11:59:16 AM | If you haven't seen him for 23 years, that means you were 20 last you saw him if you are 43 as your profile states. Yet you state you knew him for 30 years? Sorry, confused. I'm not giving you a hard time, just suck at math and wondering if I missed something.
Only thing to do is deal with it, or lose weight. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 2:24:01 PM | I looked at your profile and you're only 5'4" how small is he? The only problem I have with women who are bigger than me is cuddling or spooning they don't seem to fit against my body. Sorry it just doesn't feel right to hug someone taller than me. The best size for me seems to be about 4 inches shorter, big breasts, beautiful face, kind and intelligent.
Wait a minute that describes the OP  | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 3:30:51 PM | | You should never worry about your size. If he likes you, then that is all that matters. You have feelings for each other, express them. Don't be afraid to be intimate. Let love flow. Your size shouldn't matter. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 3:31:56 PM | looks only last a few years... then they fade.
if you're hitting it off it means he doesn't care that you're a little bigger. you need to have confidence... that's what will keep him around. low self esteem is the worst thing for a relationship. nothing kills a romance quicker than someone always second guessing themselves. i'm bigger than my boyfriend... he's rail thin but he loves me for me and when i say that... i mean all sides of me because i'm confident not to care that i'm not a size 0 | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 3:32:48 PM | He's already undressed you a hundred times in his own mind. So long as you don't have three breasts or a willy, you don't have anythiing to worry about.
PS: If you do have three breasts then please send me an email. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 3:34:58 PM |
all the comments that ive gotten has made me feel alot better, but im still worried but i think im gonna do this
As well you should. You never know, it might end up being the best thing you ever did. And for lovebuggie and midnight_radio as well as you too tbaby, I looked at all of your profiles and found ALL of you to be very good looking women and if anyone were either embarrassed to be with you or seen with you or had any issues at all with you then they aren't worth your time. All of you deserve a good man and hopefully one day you will have him and they will be happy to be with you AND be seen with you. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 8:29:32 PM | Don't you know the REAL reason why women don't like big girls? Doing a big girl just makes our****look smaller! :) Actually, that was an old joke.
Some guys know the secret that a good percentage of larger women have a higher sex drive than that of thinner or curvy women., so that's a plus. Other guys may believe in the notion that larger women may be inexperienced in that area, and therefore see the opportunity to prove themselves what a "man" they can be in bed. Other times it's just a matter of their own personal taste. I went on a date with a larger woman and was attracted to her from the start. I never saw her body, but I did know she walked with a limp. The fact that she had glasses and one photo of her showed her in pigtails were the dealmakers though, and later learning how money did not motivate her but rather helping others in need did, sealed it for me. I never got past the first date, but hopefully this proves to you that there are guys out there that will WANT you even if you feel unattractive because you may be bigger than him. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 1:39:40 PM | I agree with what u said... I am average to curvey... lol... I like my guys to be a lttle taller than me but definately bigger & I mean meaty... I don't like no skinny minnies...& that's just my preferance otherwise I think I could crush them with a simple hug... or worse if passionate love making happens... lol  | |
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