Free Dating Site

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.

Show ALL Forums

> Ask A Guy

> What should I do after this blow off?

Mod Threads

Home

Page 2 of 2

1, 2

Author

Thread: What should I do after this blow off?

WhosDrunk?

Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 26
view profile
History

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 4/10/2008 11:52:03 AM
have hung out with this guy twice now, each time he stayed at my place over night because we were drinking. Was it planned he would before you two went out, or something that just happened? We did not have sex, but we did make out and got things worked up. Spends the night twice and gets rewarded with a bad case of blueballs... He went to Long Island to get relief, so to speak...

american-soldier

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 27

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 4/10/2008 11:57:52 AM
You should dump the douche bag, and I'm sure you know this, but, you emailed me, and said you were going back to him. Good luck with that!

girl1sc

Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 28
view profile
History

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 6/26/2008 2:45:32 PM
Gee whiz, you got drunk together twice and you are doubting that maybe he got drunk with someone else and blew you off as well as another opportunity to get drunk with you AGAIN and have a drunken, sloppy, dry-hump session. How do you get a vibe from someone whom you've only ever known while drinking? This is insanity on so many levels. I say sure, give him another chance, what do you have to lose? I'm sure there are plenty of men out there waiting for the chance to have a drunken go with you.

Greyfeld

Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 29
view profile
History

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 6/26/2008 3:43:56 PM
stop ressurecting dead threads

No_Drama_please

Joined: 6/20/2008
Msg: 30
view profile
History

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 6/26/2008 6:22:16 PM
I think that you are both on different levels. If he's choosing to spend time with the frind, and your expectations and realities of your "relationship" are different, it's kinda obvious isn't it? Follow your instincts on whether to talk to him again about it. Otherwise you will put him on the defensive. Are you ready to hear what you don't want to hear?

clambroth

Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 31
view profile
History

What should I do after this blow off? Posted: 6/27/2008 2:08:11 PM
He had a good time with buddy and came up with lame excuse to placate you. Unless he went with a woman or actually blew you off I'd give him another chance. You know how it is. You go somewhere with this schedule all planned out. Stay for a certain amount of time then leave. You end up having more of a good time at place one than you anticipated and stay late or stay over. Hard to gracefully cancel plans so you use the various CF excuses available. Happens to the best of us once in a while.

Page 2 of 2

1, 2

Show ALL Forums

> Ask A Guy

> What should I do after this blow off?