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Posted: 4/8/2008 3:53:16 PM | "people message me saying i'm a jerk..i'm just a very honest and upfront person..isn't that good?"
A mugger is very upfront, but it doesn't mean people like him. I was gonna say cut out all of the "jerky" stuff from your profile (e.g. "social reject" part), but then the girl is going to get a big suprise when they get to know you. A mugger is still going to mug you even if he hides his knife, and you're still going to upset people with what you say. Maybe work on losing the knife, or at least blunting it by banging it repeatedly against a rock. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:23:44 PM | You didnt just want to know if it was mean. This is what you said:
"let me know though and if it's offensive to some people i will change it"
You are right we are all retards.
We thought you actually wanted to know what people thought of your profile.
We thought you realized that if girls read your profile and thought you were a self centered jerk they would not want to sleep with you.
Oh abie..... It's ok. We did not realize you had it so bad. Now we understand.
"you remember highschool ...everyone knows eachother, word gets around..."
Obviously everyone in your "group of friends or peers at school..." have formed an openion about you. Word gets around about boys with ....um...lets call it.....performance issues.
This is why you are looking for "discreet encounters with girls that have no connection to my group of friends or peers at school..."
You need a group of young ladies who dont yet know about your...um...lets call them...Shortcommings.
"girls don't want to have sex unless it's with their boyfriends because they are afraid of being called sluts"
Maybe if you were not such an ass you could have a girlfriend to have sex with too.
Dont worry abie, one day you will be 30.
Maybe then you will be able to moove to a new town where no one knows you.
You can create a new profile on a dating site that talks about how nice you are and start a tread to find out what women have against ex-football stars with comb-overs and beer guts.
It will be great.
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Posted: 4/10/2008 12:08:46 PM | i have a changed opinion of you dj abie. you have inspired me to change my profile.
thanks :) | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 1:42:00 PM | Getting all the replies from the 18 year olds now, indiallias?
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Posted: 4/10/2008 2:09:20 PM | "i'm just on this website to meet girls my age in the city and have a bit of fun.."
"thats why i come on this website to enjoy some discreet encounters with girls that have no connection to my group of friends or peers at school"
How many girls in your city, the same age as you, go to your school?
"I consider myself better dressed than most people here, becasue people in Ottawa have no idea about fashion."
If this is true, then why aren't the girls in your city noticing you already? Maybe it's because there aren't many that can relate to you - arrogant, down-right rude, very childish, dis-respectful, prejudiced and lacking any life skills what-so-ever ... oh, and racist ("haha white trash"). But I can actually say I like your profile, but only for the reason that it makes me look like the perfect gentleman!!! If you've got nothing better to do than get your kicks from honest and decent people taking the time to offer you advice, then there's no hope for you in life. I hope someone from your city sees your profile and spreads the word ...
I suppose when you read my profile and find I'm from the UK, you'll have something very interesting to add - can't wait ...
In the meantime, I'll take my retard, white-trash ass and spend the rest of my evening replying to more literate threads. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 2:11:07 PM | dj abie, you definitely show the immature side that goes along with your age. I think the people that are messaging you are being brutally honest with their opinion just as you were in your profile.
Instead of putting in your profile the characteristics that you find a "turn off" maybe you could list the things you find attractive. Negativity will only attract negativity and why would you want to do that?
good luck....and to be totally honest GROW UP, get off this site and go out and act your age. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 2:35:56 PM | Can I just say at this point that this is my very favoritest thread EVER!!!  | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 2:45:03 PM | I dont think that your profile comes off as being mean. If thats how you feel then thats how you feel. But it seems like you spent most of your time describing what you arent looking for as apposed to what you are looking for.
Now, with that said, since you have weeded out what you dont want, how about stating what you do want. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 3:15:45 PM | | lol corvinm, afraid not, i decided to change it to neutral for now since i had 3 views after i wrote it and decided to role play to a girl that viewed me for a laugh, went too far and she didnt reply lol | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 4:56:00 PM | A very good profile to bump, this is one that has to be seen to be believed.
Offers learning potential as well. (besides being highly entertaining) | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 12:57:05 PM | Well, I just wanted to check in and see how the OP's doing. So, did you take any of the excellent advice you were given or have things stayed the same?
I just feel this profound connection to him, for some reason. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 1:00:05 PM | ^^^^^^as do I.
Me thinks he had a tantrum and skedaddled. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 1:47:11 PM | (from posts 21, 23, & 25)
i'm sorry my grammatical skills aren't as polished as yours are..you're double my age so i'd pray your english was better than mine
Hey, Jackal, take it easy on the kid. He's only 18 and hasn't been to university yet - where they teach the secrets of grammar, spelling and punctuation that aren't revealed to the ears of youth.
Shirley: I've often enjoyed your posts (sorry about your carpet), and your profile is a hoot ("difficulty urinating" - OMG ;-), but, as we've heard here from the horse's mouth (am I speaking figuratively?), you're a 'b!tch', so it'll never work between us and I'll have to keep looking. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 4:15:50 PM | ^^^^Another prospect lost to forum honesty. Curse my ability to express myself adequately in my original language!!  | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 11:03:27 PM | | Ladies, you are giving this guy everything that he wants, ATTENTION. Just don't write him or write about him. The Universal Law of Attraction will give you whatever you think and talk about most, whether you want it or you don't want it. Set your sights on finding a nice guy that respects women. Keep seeing that nice guy in your mind and you will not see this kind of guy in your life. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 11:05:59 PM | | Ladies, you are giving this guy everything that he wants, ATTENTION. Just don't write him or write about him. The Universal Law of Attraction will give you whatever you think and talk about most, whether you want it or you don't want it. Set your sights on finding a nice guy that respects women. Keep seeing that nice guy in your mind and you will not see this kind of guy in your life. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 11:26:17 PM | Wow, dj abie. I'm finding it really hard to see any of your profile because the knees of your high horse keep getting in the way. Nonetheless, I shall endeavor to answer your question: "Do I sound mean?"
The short answer: Yes.
The long answer: Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees.
The other long answer: Well, your profile shows that you've got the subtlety of an 900-lb. gorilla wielding a ball-peen hammer, and the profile picture seems to support that very image. I'll admit, you almost had me charmed when you convinced me that you dress better than the entirety of the most heavily-populated province of your country, but then you started going into a whole tangent on transgendered and/or overweight girls. First off, I have to wonder why you felt the need to include them on the profile, and I can only conclude that you've had them on your mind for a while. Well, no shame in it. In particular, I like how you tried to tell them that they were okay being who they were, while in the same breath branding them as "social rejects." Particularly magnanimous of you, and befitting of your self-proclaimed status of royalty.
Next off, there's the dishonesty. You say you want to hang out, but in this very thread you've expressed a preference for "discreet encounters" with women because you want to get yourself some poontang without the girl having to deal with any social backlash. Oh, how thoughtful of you. I'm sure that all the not-fat, not-transgendered women that you've charmed will fall to your feet in gratitude, as well as be excited by the prospect that they're just another notch in your bedpost and nothing more to you. I've got to hand it to you, you really have a deep understanding of the female mind.
And then, you played the age card on a few posters who have so kindly responded to your query. Sure, some of them might be far older than you, but I am not. So, allow me to say, as one of your peers:
-Your English is horrid. I was writing at a higher standard than you when I was nine, and I can prove it. Age has nothing to do with the nimbleness of the mind. You've either got it, or you don't.
-Nice guys don't finish last. They might not be so fast out of the gate, but the race doesn't end in high school and college. It ends when you die, which is plenty of time to gain on lost ground. Unless, you know, you get hit by a bus. Women might bed men of your kind, dj abie, but they will never marry you, and so you'll lose out on that lasting happiness that would otherwise stay with you long after your flame burns low and your charm eludes you.
I expect you're probably going to call me out on this or that, so I'll just pre-empt it right now: I'm on this dating service for fun, and to see what might come of it. And yes, I wrote a very long post to answer your question. What can I say? I thought it was a question that merited a long post. Also, I couldn't resist getting in a few jabs here and there, and since it's so early in the morning I don't have much else to do. Congratulations, you fill up my early morning hours, just as I'm sure trannies fill yours!
Good luck fishing, dj abie. But a word of advice: try baiting the hook when you cast out. It makes you more palatable. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 12:57:36 AM | Well, I'm thinking that this is talking the age that you are.
Some of your comments are borderline rude (even if you don't mean them to come off that way). You need to consider who your reading audience is; girls that you want make a good impression on.
Lighten it up a little bit with some positive comments/words!
Good luck! | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 1:13:23 AM | Aahahaha. OMG, this guy made my day.
I think all the men here need to give this guy a big hand. Cause he is making it a hell of alot easier for us to chat with women.
I am only 25 man, so I can kinda get where you are commin from. Seriously though, if you are not interested in Trans gendered men or women, then simply say no thank you if they reply to you. Thats all you gotta do. Once you do that a few times, word gets around. Its like going to the gay bars/clubs with my gay friends. Once people know your not really interetsed they just dance with you. Then its a good time. The thing about "heavy women" as you put it. You seriously dont know what your missing. Keep your twig stick chicks buddy, you will find that having sex with your boot is about the same feeling, small and leathery. (that is in retrospect to the :I need to be a size zero" 18 year olds out there btw apologize if that offends anyone). | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 5:24:36 PM | OP, I hope you are able to accept the review of someone in your own age group, Wild Card NY, since you are unable to accept ours. I feel that he, as a young man, better relates to you and some of your underlying struggles in ways us older folk may not ever truly understand.
Thank you, WildCardNY, for illuminating so clearly the conflicts this youth suffers in such a kind and understanding way. You, sir, are nothing short of a saint.
Bless you, my son. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 10:06:39 PM |
Well, I'm thinking that this is talking the age that you are.
I beg to differ, lovelytonou. As I've demonstrated, people in our age bracket can be quite eloquent. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 11:27:22 PM | OK so does this mean if I'm nastier, I'll get more feedback on my profile? I mean, I got some, but just a few (kinda like the number of emails I get). ::sigh::
Yanno, positive feedback is welcome too!  | |
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Posted: 4/14/2008 8:41:47 AM | for you Sammi435
aye it is true more people view and post if you are narky, rude or dam right arragant, it is a funny read and more amusing but it seems most people do not get huge amounts of feedback because the first few people that reply to a profile review tend to cover everything.
you could always make a new post daily on your own thread and then delete again after, i think it will bump you up onto the first page even after deleting, though im too lazy to check again myself so feel free to have a mooch.
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:45:19 PM | Well if your intention was to be funny in your profile you failed miserably, as it comes off as arrogant among many other descriptives: chauvinistic, misogynistic, vain, and Machiavellian to name a few. But you’re shy. Again, if it’s just a joke you won’t have many laughing.
A picture says a thousand words my friend, and I’ve seen very few big girls with thin faces. You can usually tell from a picture what they body type is, unless they are an outlier. And have you ever wondered why you get so many messages from the transgendered community? I get a lot from the gay crowd but I know why.
And girls don’t like to be controlled. They like a guy who’s confident and can make decisions, not order them around and pick out their clothes or choice of dinner entrée. You’ve got a lot of growing up and learning to do before you can claim to be an expert in this arena.
your profile made me laugh, thanks. It is so narrow minded but i guess thats your age and why many girls your age prefer older men That is too good Indiallias. I couldn’t have said it better myself! And then you follow it with the tranny bit. Can I join your travelling act?
Girls are only called sluts because the douche bag teenagers they sleep with go and brag about their conquests to all their buddies and point her out in the hallways, and her friends revolt and do the only thing they know how to do at that age… point fingers and name call. If you’d learn to keep you teenage boys would learn to keep your affairs on the down low and not brag to try and increase your credibility the girls would be more open to sex. That’s why when you hit 25 and up the girls have no problems going to bed with you before they call you their boyfriend or you slap the ring on their finger. They can be pretty sure you won’t run and tell all the guys who will tell all the girls she hangs out with who will in turn call her a whore. Tact, my friend; it’s a wonderful tool
Okay, you asked if you were being mean and I didn’t get the glorious chance to see the original masterpiece but from what you’ve spewed in here I’m going to say yes. But you posted in a profile review forum so I’m going to do just that as well, whether you asked for it or not. Take it or leave it, but I strongly urge you to do the former if you’d like to avoid a life sentence of tranny trains and fat chick sandwiches, and I mean only one slice of bread here young buck.
Your current headline is offensive. Should she be barefoot and pregnant too, or are pregnant women disgusting as you’ve expressed your disinterest in having children. You’ve got one picture and it’s a poor glamour shot of you in a football uniform that looks like it was taken in one of those cheesy photo shops in the mall that’ll put your face on a box of Wheaties whilst cupping Jessica Simpson’s assets for $50. And not only do you have a smug look on your face but your hair is gelled and done like you are heading out to a club. Only bench boys and gay football players primp their hair AFTER they put on their equipment, and both for totally different reasons. I played football for 8 years so I’m not making fun of football players here either. If you have this big circle of friends you should have access to hundreds of photos of yourself, as kids seem to always have their digital cameras in tote wherever they go. My niece posts about 2 dozen pictures on FB a day! Put up a bunch more, with a clear, bright headshot containing an inviting smile or look. That’s the key to getting a girl to open your profile is a good picture. The rest keeps them interested and convinces them to write.
Add some interests, and lose the selfish, self-centered approach here and add a few interests that girls will find attractive and interesting also but make sure they are things you are ACTUALLY interested in. Your profession is listed as DJ, yet you are not currently a student or employed, so which is it? And you tell the reader that if they don’t know what house music is they need to get out more yet you aren’t old enough to get into any clubs yet so your knowledge of what’s being played “out” there should be rather limited.
You list “Hang Out” yet right here you said you are looking for casual intimate encounters. This all shows up on your profile and you just displayed yourself as deceitful, a trait most women avoid like the plague when it is evident. If you are interested in IE’s say that. There will be plenty of girls in your area looking for the same thing and you aren’t a bad looking cat so you should do okay. I can’t really say much about your About Me section as you are all over the place with what you want. But to make matters worse you go and insult about 98% of the POF populace by virtually saying we are a bunch of losers because we’re on here looking for long-term relationships and you are above that. I tell you kid, if you dust that meteor off your shoulder for a moment and turn on some wit and charm you could probably do really well for yourself. If you want to stick with 18 year old girls forever and treat them like garbage in order to get with them fine, but coming from a guy who’s been with both ends of the age spectrum believe me the sex improves exponentially with age, and quite often the body doesn’t go the other direction. I’ve seen many 35 year old women that would put the majority of 18 year olds to shame, and make your head explode to boot. You decide where you want your sex life to go in the future.
I’m going to cut it short here before I throw up on my laptop, because if I read the First Date again I might just do so. But at least you don’t have a dozen email restrictions so that’s a plus.
What do I gather from your profile at a quick glance? Here’s a kid fronting. I don’t think this is who you are. I think you’ve crafted this alter-ego, and I saw ego with a little stress here, because this is who you see women getting with in the media or perhaps in your own back yard. But soon enough the girls grow up. And let’s face it. Many people have already said this but girls your age are quite often looking to date guys my age. Every time I get hit on by an 18-21 year old I tell them they are too young for my liking and I tell them to go find a guy more suited to their life experience and they say all the guys their age are immature, unintelligible, and rude. Hmmmmm. Sounds familiar. Take notice of the things people are telling you here, quit being so defensive, and you’ll see marked improvements.
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OP, Maybe you could tell us how you approach girls on here. What does your contact email look like? From how you present yourself in your profile and on here it would seem that you are the dik-pik-sending type who is quick to ask girls to fcuk without so much as a hello. Do your opening messages look like "nice tits, wanna fcuk?" or "I've got a seven inch tongue and can breathe out my ears" or my personal favourite "I'd swallow broken glass and walk across burning coals just to suck the dcik of the last guy you fcuked". I promise you, even the girls who are looking for IE's or open to the idea will slap you with those types of emails or lines. They still want to get to know that guy who they are going to let deposit their DNA in them. And they are girls; they still want to be romanced to a degree! Just a thought. | |
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