| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:05:53 AM | | About the car, would you buy a car that stalls and the seats are worn out from all the people that have taken it for a test drive? And are people objects for you to use? | |
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:19:20 AM | | Haven't been with a woman sexually in five years, all that running around trying to play the games just wore me out so as for now I've decided just to wait til marriage. So pretty much just see it as a waste of time until I meet that special someone. And proposing any sooner just for sex isn't a good reason in my book, because you may rush past some important part of the relationship. It seems better to work out as much as you can as friends before marriage to make it work. That way if something does come up, both can go separate ways with very little emotional impact. Of coarse there are also those who wait til marriage, experience sexual interaction for the first time. Start off with their only partner ever being their spouse. Then some start getting curious and start sleeping around to experience sex with different people just for the sake of sex with people they really don't care about. So it all depends on the person's choice as the individual can only know what's truly best for themselves... | |
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:27:19 AM |
Don't you have to make love before you have love?
Would say that the love comes first. Then you decide you want to experience what you know about feeling love for the person to whatever extent you do. That's why so many people keep running around these days trying to have sex with as many people as they can and wondering why it seems unfulfilling no matter how many "hot" people they sleep with or how erotic it may be. They got it all backwards. From my experience, if there is no love there then it won't do much of anything for you. Until you experience what you know, then all it will be until then is contemplation. Then after you experience it, you have confirmed what you know... | |
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 4/19/2008 2:04:03 PM | Not with someone who already has kids. See, this to me, reeks of "I've made mistakes by jumping into bed with other men, so to counter these mistakes I'm not going to have sex with you, until you ask me to marry you(and actually do) and prove your worthy of my divine sexuality".
I can't believe a man would put up with a game like this.
Plus, I'm sure said man will have to deal with the child(ren) walking, talking,crapping, crying reminders of what your denying him? Please....
Some loser(usually acknowledged by Mom) got it, but you can't.
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 4/19/2008 2:26:02 PM |
Not with someone who already has kids. See, this to me, reeks of "I've made mistakes by jumping into bed with other men, so to counter these mistakes I'm not going to have sex with you, until you ask me to marry you(and actually do) and prove your worthy of my divine sexuality"
EXACTLY!
Do it all these years, then one day, decide to hold it....plus you have a kid.
Jeez..can't get any better than this.I don't know one single guy who'd buy this.
Say, you're a virgin, then that'd be a different story... | |
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:12:19 PM | | ok well consider this the guy dumping u after u have had sex the condom breaking and u getting a std or Prego (birth control is only 95% or sum thin like that affective) and there is other things you can do besides sex.. And what if “she" isn’t ready to have sex??? or is waitin for that sum one???? | |
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| is anyone here willing to wait until marriage?
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:52:53 PM | Sounds like the type of situation that would appeal to someone with incurable impotence.
Let's see... Sign up to potentially lose half of your stuff (or more) if things don't work out... Agree to be faithful to someone regardless of how often / enjoyable sex with them is. What if she just lays like there like a wet blanket? Agree to hold your finances ransom to their decisions regardless of how rational they may be.
Sure, give me $1,000,000 in the bank and an iron-clad prenuptual and I'll think about it...
I'm much more inclined to focus on trying to build a "real" relationship than filing paperwork for society to "validate" what is none of their business... | |
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