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 VioletSkye

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 26
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Aggressiveness
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:11:44 PM
All of these have been great responses.

It's taken me a little by surprise that there weren't more posts about the women being aggressive. Some of my male friends here have stated they run into some real crazy ones who've come on quite strong.

I think it's great to be assertive and know what you want, but I think it's somewhat distasteful to demand it or push it to the point of having to out and out say "leave me the hell alone, I don't want you."
 singer James

Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 27
Aggressiveness
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:19:13 PM

Well, no - it was just a question (I assume) to see if men reacted differently. Chillax, dude. Based on the answers in this thread, it seems a lot of men have no empirical data on this topic, so that's why the curiousity. lol

Ha, now that I read what I said back I'm starting to think I do need to relax a bit = ). In reality, if a strange girl I wasn't attracted to made aggressive sexual advances towards me then I'd probably just walk away.
 ohdriver

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 28
Aggressiveness
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:49:42 PM
Actual sexual aggression from a total stranger (woman) in the form of a PM/IM, without ever having met? With absolutely no encouragement from the male side? I’m guessing this is pretty rare. Maybe the story grew a wee bit in the telling. Or perhaps my profile just doesn’t inspire that kind of devotion!
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