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 motownmaniax

Joined: 8/13/2006
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:13:25 PM
spit before you mount as the older chicks are running dry!


Exactly the type of guy I was talking about in msg 293.

You mean this is my competition, Ladies??? Maybe I'm the one that should start ?
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:14:44 PM
Dating Nefertiti? Priceless comment, and made me snort milk all over my keyboard.......sarcasm is just great at this late hour.
 felis48

Joined: 5/21/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:41:30 PM
Hi,
I just wanted to say i like your attitude and i wish more men had one like it because it is the truth for a lot or women but then again there are the women out there that are like this guy you are talking about that make it bad for the women like me so i guess it ends up being a catch 22.
 raredawn

Joined: 1/10/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 9:40:31 PM
Well for one thing don't kiss like a St bernard. Keep your tongue in your own mouth. Kisses should be sensual not sloppy wet.

SEcondly ty asking her out to do things. Don't just ask her to your house then stop talking to her if she doesn't agree to go to your house. Actually it is pretty rude to ask woman to your house until you know each other pretty well.

Don't expect her to ask you to her house till you know each other pretty well.

Try being mannerly and show interest in what SHE has on her mind.

Bottom line guys if she is a woman worth knowing she is not going to have sex with you right off the bat. That won't come till she knows you well and has DEVELOPED feelings for you.

If you are in a real hurry for sex try a hooker. Faster, cheaper and less trouble.
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/7/2008 11:15:20 PM
spit before you mount as the older chicks are running dry!



...I wouldn't be too concerned if I were you, some of us have been fortunate enough to encounter those rare men that know how to make love to a woman....to satisfy her every need and experienced enough ignite a passion so strong , as to get those juices flowing without the aid of lubricants or gels........Obviously something that you are quite unfamiliar with.


...maeflowers
 wishfulthinkn

Joined: 5/24/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 2:34:38 AM
Seduce: 1. to lead astray, corrupt or 2. to persuade to have sexual intercourse or 3. to
lead away, as from principles.....OR...(tah-dah!).......4. to win over; attract; entice

i'm all in on number 4.....forget the first three though. i think being courted is fun, exciting, and so very human. i think it starts with courtesy and consideration and includes a big dollop of humor too. authentic compliments help and being yourself is number one.

course i could be wrong since i have a year to go yet...lol.
 outofthedesert

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 4:03:16 AM
A man who knows the right word to say, the right glance to give and the right touch. The man in my life says love is not a 100 yard dash..........it is a slow sensual walk that begins much earlier in the day. Oh, baby.........He knows how to seduce this woman!
 SJS4JC

Joined: 6/24/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 8:08:02 AM
By george! I believe that you have told the 'tale' here. Definitely throw away the script and all of the ideas behind it. Pay close attention....she will definitely point the way....eagerness isn't a virtue
 esk 04

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 8:08:44 AM
OMG "They let you get away with that statement!" What a pig!
The above statement is regarding "spit before you mount as the older chicks are running dry!"

Maybe the problem is you are seducing at an age you should know better.
I was seduced once. It will never happen again. I know this post is old. Hope you learned something.
 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 8:46:58 AM

spit before you mount as the older chicks are running dry!
HAHAHA!! Obviously, we date different women. lol.

I keep a snorkel and fins in my trunk, and a mask could have come in handy a few times.
 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 10:14:46 AM
I was seduced once. It will never happen again. I know this post is old. Hope you learned something.
I can't reach my glass, can you pass it to me? I promise I won't pull you into the hot tub when you hand it to me. lol. (but you never know!!!! ;) (rushes the edge. The wave soaks you) "Oh christ.... I'm sorry. I'm sooooo sorry. Just throw your clothes in the dryer and put on a robe. There's one on the door."

I just want to have fun. Doesn't mean I'll sleep with ya.
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 12:44:55 PM

I can't reach my glass, can you pass it to me? I promise I won't pull you into the hot tub when you hand it to me. lol. (but you never know!!!! ;) (rushes the edge. The wave soaks you) "Oh christ.... I'm sorry. I'm sooooo sorry. Just throw your clothes in the dryer and put on a robe. There's one on the door."


....* Note to self* Always remember to bring a change of dry clothes if ever asked out on a date in the near future.


...maeflowers
 Sapphireeyes

Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 1:13:18 PM
Personally I love seduction, but it has to be a two way street, there has to be something there to start with or it wont work. Can start with laughter, a look, a gesture....but once it has been established that there is a *connection there then the mental sparing begins and that ...with the physical chemistry...those moments when every inch of you is primed, ready and waiting for the next interaction....the unspoken desire that is fanned into a full burning fire with a toe curling first kiss...oh yea bring it on !!!!! (btw there is no time frame on this...from hours to days to weeks to months to the rest of your lives together).


spit before you mount as he older chicks are running dry!

usually if someone is dry it is cause someone else doesnt know what to do...sorry your looks have faded that the instant turn-on you used to get from females doesnt happen for you anymore...now you might actually need some skill...and a personality wouldnt be a bad idea either.
 honeydoooo

Joined: 5/10/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 1:42:52 PM
LOTS OF LUCK.....YOU WILL NEED IT!!!! Older gals are watching for creeps just like you, and we are ready. YOU will NEVER seduce a woman who doesn't want to be seduced!! Do you have some idea that because we are divorced, widowed, single, etc. that we have to HAV IT??
Quite the contrary...it's you old men who need to think you have something to give. If it weren't for VIAGRA, what would you do?
 dustyknight

Joined: 9/14/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 1:45:17 PM
somebody please answer this, the over 50 women want 30/40 year olds and most of my friends want the same in women..
I'd love to find a warm, sensuous, 50's cute lady to seduce!
somebody make a list of the top necessary seduction have to have's..:)
dusty
 Sapphireeyes

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Posted: 7/8/2008 2:30:00 PM

somebody please answer this, the over 50 women want 30/40 year olds and most of my friends want the same in women..
I'd love to find a warm, sensuous, 50's cute lady to seduce!
somebody make a list of the top necessary seduction have to have's..:)
dusty


I'm 49, but I am not interested in 30 year olds and most 40 year olds still have some drama left in their lives.

To seduce me you have to have reach a point in your life where you are comfortable with yourself. Passion is top on my list, you must want to live with passion (not just sexual) foods, travel, reading, learning...a passion, zeal for life. One person said "I want it all"...that desire to keep living vs existing.

Hopefully you are in a profession that is challenging to you but not overwhelming. You have realized that the inner beauty of someone is to be valued more than outside packaging. That comes across as a complete person...not needy...and not someone who is looking for a quickie.

You are seducing someone for a lifetime so you are engaging...there is a warmth to what is said. Conversation flows not forced, little things that could slip by are picked up on...you are into me. There are warm glances, smiles, soft touches, (this doesnt have to be by candlelight in a restaurant, or moonlite walk on a beach). It is the small gestures that scream that hey this person wants to know more of you.

Once you have this feeling that there is a connection that has a basis to built on that is when you can actually start to seduce someone...until then you are spinning your wheels. Then you can engage their minds and explore further their thinking process...you can talk in depth and neither want to pull away...each thought is welcome and celebrated and expounded on.

You find that your bodies are opening to each, mirroring the minds. You sit closer, you might invade their space but it isnt felt as an intrusion..its a fit. The looks into the other person's eyes lengthens...after a bit the vocal will become more secondary as the amount of time in comfortable silence increases but there is a rare energy...a charge between you...each breath is noticeable. There is a tingle with each touch..a casual feeling of your hand on mine sends a spark up my arm....you can tell by the twinkle in my eyes the effect it has...and it builds
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 2:59:13 PM

I'd love to find a warm, sensuous, 50's cute lady to seduce!
somebody make a list of the top necessary seduction have to have's..:)
dusty


...So is this a list of the top 10 or the top 100? Lets just go with top 100 for the fun of it...

# 1.....


...maeflowers
 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 6:20:50 PM
It all starts with this.

# 1 - Be kind.
 fra59e

Joined: 6/4/2005
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Posted: 7/8/2008 6:55:01 PM
A good post:
..............................................

I'm 49, but I am not interested in 30 year olds and most 40 year olds still have some drama left in their lives.

To seduce me you have to have reach a point in your life where you are comfortable with yourself. Passion is top on my list, you must want to live with passion (not just sexual) foods, travel, reading, learning...a passion, zeal for life. One person said "I want it all"...that desire to keep living vs existing.

Hopefully you are in a profession that is challenging to you but not overwhelming. You have realized that the inner beauty of someone is to be valued more than outside packaging. That comes across as a complete person...not needy...and not someone who is looking for a quickie.

You are seducing someone for a lifetime so you are engaging...there is a warmth to what is said. Conversation flows not forced, little things that could slip by are picked up on...you are into me. There are warm glances, smiles, soft touches, (this doesnt have to be by candlelight in a restaurant, or moonlite walk on a beach). It is the small gestures that scream that hey this person wants to know more of you.

Once you have this feeling that there is a connection that has a basis to built on that is when you can actually start to seduce someone...until then you are spinning your wheels. Then you can engage their minds and explore further their thinking process...you can talk in depth and neither want to pull away...each thought is welcome and celebrated and expounded on.

You find that your bodies are opening to each, mirroring the minds. You sit closer, you might invade their space but it isnt felt as an intrusion..its a fit. The looks into the other person's eyes lengthens...after a bit the vocal will become more secondary as the amount of time in comfortable silence increases but there is a rare energy...a charge between you...each breath is noticeable. There is a tingle with each touch..a casual feeling of your hand on mine sends a spark up my arm....you can tell by the twinkle in my eyes the effect it has...and it builds ...
...............................................................................
........ without one word of gender discrimination. Apparently the poster is a liberated person.
 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 7:21:06 PM
#2 - Just be yourself without a hidden agenda.

Ladies truly can and do connect with someone who doesn't have some kind of game plan. Someone who can be open and honest.

And Dusty? I have no idea why you are inundated with ladies who wish to be with men much younger than they are? I for one certainly can and do appreciate a man with a history. The payback is awesome!
 felis48

Joined: 5/21/2005
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Posted: 7/8/2008 7:47:07 PM
I just wanted to let you all know that i was talking about moto and his attitude not the one who started this spit thing.
 maeflowers

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Posted: 7/8/2008 10:05:09 PM

It all starts with this.

# 1 - Be kind.


Hmmm, you be kind or me be kind?....I pick you.


#2 - Just be yourself without a hidden agenda.


...Yeah, none of that ..".Ooops, did I just accidently pull you into the hot tub with me"


For me # 3 would have to be someone who is mechanically inclined....I think it should be on my "must have list"

...maeflowers
 alicia60

Joined: 12/10/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 10:15:35 PM
This is really offensive. I don't know what kind of women some of you smart aleck guys have been with, but I bet it wasn't with a woman over 50, she would have smelled you coming a mile away. With the attitutes you have you wouldn't have tried to seduce or be with an older woman because you still think you are all that. Immature bimbos would be more your speed. So, how dare you comment when you don't know. Unless you just want to be the center of attraction.
 rearguard2

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2008 7:50:54 AM

For me # 3 would have to be someone who is mechanically inclined....I think it should be on my "must have list"


Mechanically inclined, eh? Well, I can make a lawn mower work and handle most types of plumbing problems, but, I confess that I am hopelessly ignorant of the workings of a vibrator. Can you be more specific?
 maeflowers

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Posted: 7/9/2008 8:05:04 AM

Mechanically inclined, eh? Well, I can make a lawn mower work and handle most types of plumbing problems, but, I confess that I am hopelessly ignorant of the workings of a vibrator. Can you be more specific?



....Please refer back to # 1, now repeat after me 100 times " I shall be kind, I shall be kind" Keep in mind the thread topic, its all about the do's and don'ts of seduction.
Now behave or I'll have to remove you from my favourites list

...maeflowers
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