| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:07:57 AM |
Immature bimbos would be more your speed
Indeed. No doubt about it, the "immature bimbos" are distinctly easier to seduce than the mature woman. I think its probably because of the hormone cycle over a lifetime more than any fundamental limitation on the mental abilities of younger women. As far as I can tell from observing the younger crowd, they are quite intelligent and perfectly able to understand what is going on when it comes to sexual behaviour, but they have more of a tendency to choose between immediate gratification than the concerns about long term meaningfulness.
In fact, I suspect that the heightened sensitivity of the younger woman to sexual behaviour caused by the hormone levels of the younger body probably means that they, rather than being "immature bimbos", are somewhat more in tune with what is going on than the older ladies.
If one were to judge solely by the exchanges on these forums, one might conclude that the focus of the mature woman in sexual domains is primarily on long term emotional gratification, and that, by and large, they have a hard time achieving that goal, possibly because they lack skills with which to succeed.
Of course, the vast majority of people do, in fact, find emotional satisfaction in their sexual relationships, once they find themselves in one. So, what is the problem here? Do you find a sexual relationship and develop emotional satisfaction? Or do you find emotional satisfaction and develop a sexual relationship?
Most young people appear to approach the problem using the former strategy, while the older people try the latter one. From a purely socio-statistical perspective, it does appear that the hormone driven approach of the youngsters is the more successful one.
Or, which comes first, the chicken or the egg? | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:11:28 AM | | I can't tell you how often fixing a lady's lawn mower has led to a subsequent romantic idyll. And I was just trying to be kind at the time...... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:29:25 AM | | a woman of over 50 is no differant than one at 20 or 30 . You romance her, hold hands, hug kiss same as when they where younger. or it is for me anyway. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:34:33 AM | Dang......no wonder I'm not getting anywhere w/ my steamy nights of unrestrained bingo & geritol shooters!  | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 9:05:45 AM |
This is really offensive. I don't know what kind of women some of you smart aleck guys have been with, but I bet it wasn't with a woman over 50, she would have smelled you coming a mile away. Chill a bit. I'm not all that, but I do have a SENCE OF HUMOUR and know how to have fun. If I don't want to sleep with my date, I will be aloof without being disrespectful. Trust me on this... I won't be seducing her and nothing will happen. Period.
But if I find my date interesting, you can be sure I'll try to build as much sexual tension as humanly possible. "How much can I blow up this balloon before it bursts" kinda thing. And you know what? It STILL doesn't mean I'm gonna sleep with her. If she makes the jets in the hot tub start sucking, I'll give her one more lung full. Then I'll ask her to make me a sandwich.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 9:22:45 AM | cool..i've been doing it correct all along..now where are those younger horny women? lol
now if'n I can just get em on the bike andlet the vibes do the work..lol
and then I woke up and smiled...
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 9:35:43 AM | I used to think you had to "seduce" and "pursue" and "chase" and "win" women. Then I grew up. When I quit trying so hard I found attractive women everywhere and THAT is when I woke up and smiled.
The belief that you really need to strive to meet people is a myth. It's easy and it's natural and it's fun. Life is not a battleground or a contest or an examination; it's a playground and an artists studio and a feast. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 12:13:32 PM | ^^^^ exactly why I asked my friend..
I don't try at all..just be nice and civil and couteous and people tend to gravitate towards you..I just collect people 1000 miles away! dang the luck!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/9/2008 1:16:50 PM |
How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Kindness, compassion, strength of character, laughter, and a certain sparkle in the eye.
Same as when I was UNDER 50!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:36:07 AM | One person said "I want it all"...that desire to keep living vs existing.
Hopefully you are in a profession that is challenging to you but not overwhelming. You have realized that the inner beauty of someone is to be valued more than outside packaging.
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That's a good comment, the rest based itself on seduction but i think too many guys don't look at the "inner beauty" of woman at all.
Why can't a woman be seduced mentally, verbally, for the purpose of wanting her, not her in bed? LOL...
Then he can have her in bed.
Spit before mounting? mmmm....
Agree with Sam Spade, although i tend to think he is a bit of a character who could if single, charm himself on any woman, any age, if she had a sense of humor.
No tick for favourites, Mayflower, lol, not dating.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 6:51:03 AM | One person said " I want it all"...that desire to keep living vs existing. Hopefully, you are in a profession that is challenging to you but not overwhelming. You have realized that the inner beauty of someone is to be valued more than outside packaging.
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That's a good comment, the rest based itself on seduction but i think too many guys don't look at the "inner beauty" of woman at all.
Gosh, what kind of men have you been dating? Sweeping generalizations implying that " men are shallow. Meh!!!!
From my own personal experience, most men are interested in "getting to know me", my personality, my interests, my lifestyle and my hopes and dreams etc. Sure, there have been a couple who just wanted a romp. But for the most part, I think most men are sincerely looking for a relationship of substance, that includes lovemaking. Don't women want that too?
To those who have been following this forum, I just want you to know that I've had a 42" flat screen delivered this morning. It will be installed tomorrow. Can I seduce anyone into joining me to watch an action-packed movie? Pass the popcorn?
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 7:31:30 AM | ^^ Well hunny? You can "seduce" me to come over and spend time drinkin your fine wine. But somehow? I truly do not think that "I" was what you had in mind! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:01:58 AM |
Can I seduce anyone into joining me to watch an action-packed movie?
I am gassing up my car immediately!. Size DOES matter....when it comes to TVs.....:)
We can delve into each others underlying motivations during commercials. But, if you are only interested in my body....hell....we can delve into that while the movie is playing...:) | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:03:39 AM | | Does the expression "menage a trois" mean anything to you, Miss Moon? We could share the "popcorn"... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:06:37 AM | ok off topic a bit..
when do the women do the seducing?
Dang.. I know some women do all kinds ofcools things to entice their hubbys..
So where are the single women who have the confidence and maturity to seduce us males? oh I forgot there are 5 males to one female on these dating sites..silly me..
dusty | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:12:26 AM | Well Dusty my friend? What can I tell you?
Apparently you reside in the wrong neck o the woods! Think of the moon and the connotations it brings to mind! 
Mr. R? Sorry, menage a trois? Nope, this gal doesn't share well, even her popcorn! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:23:33 AM | Sigh! People are so conservative these days. Back in the 70s, what with key parties and such, life was so much more fun.....
Of course, nobody had a 42 inch TV, and hot tubs were few and far between. I wonder how it was that we all got a lot more sex?
I do believe we had to call up a girl, take her to a nice restaurant, engage her in conversation, pay attention to what she said, then wait to see if she invited you in for coffee. Once inside, there being no flat panel TV, there wasn't much to do other than strip down to the bare essentials and explore each others physical attributes..... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:16:11 AM | Of course, nobody had a 42 inch TV, and hot tubs were few and far between. I wonder how it was that we all got a lot more sex?
I do believe we had to call up a girl, take her to a nice restaurant, engage her in conversation, pay attention to what she said, then wait to see if she invited you in for coffee.
What worked then, might still work, doncha know?
Making a note to myself to go to Costco and buy a case of Orville Redenbacker to go with my "fine wine".
Ms. Moon You're always welcome but you were correct with your post! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:54:42 AM |
What worked then, might still work, doncha know?
Indeed. However, in former times the end game did not typically involve watching a movie and sharing (Ms Moon excepted) popcorn. That was usually part of the preliminaries, like the proverbial "Second Date". Obviously, the male motivation can be expected to be different these days, what with things being sort of backwards, don't you think? | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 1:00:13 PM |
Obviously, the male motivation can be expected to be different these days, what with things being sort of backwards, don't you think?
I don't expect a male's motivation to be any different "these days". I personally don't see how things are backwards nowadays...???.... My conduct within a relationship is the same as it's always been. Ladylike, yet subtlely flirtatious, when with a man I'm interested in getting to know better.
A gentleman and gentlemanly behaviour never goes out of style, in my books. Movies and popcorn are part of a courtship, in my world.
Seducing a woman is not a race to the finish line. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/11/2008 4:16:21 PM | Phoebe48
"Gosh, what kind of men have you been dating? Sweeping generalizations implying that " men are shallow. Meh!!!!"
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lol... Not at all Phoebe, it's a simple thing like A PHOTO - If i stick my photo up, i get messages, WOW your georgeous, like your photo, could help but send you an email, you look good... Now that is shallow, simple. Okay, you like what you see, fine, keep it to yourself and send me an email that allows us to get to know the "Person", don't click because you like a photo what about the profile, words, things i like, me? | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/12/2008 10:32:02 AM | | Well, I disagree the woman isn't different over 50 than she was at 20-30. I know who I was at 20-30 and believe me a lot has changed since then...I don't have to 'feel that it is necessary to have sex in a relationship' now before marriage....where in my 20s-30s, I made some mistakes. Nowadays with all of the STDs-one should be EVEN more cautious than every before. When it is right...sex will happen and not before. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 7/12/2008 7:59:20 PM | Nicely said.
What I see is that men get in a hurry. Seduction is like gourmet sex. If he is in a hurry to seduce her, he will forget about foreplay. The fun is in building the energy between you.. a comfort level, and trust. She's a lady and he's a gentleman and the flirting is part of the seduction. A woman's age does change her perspective. She expects that he has been thumped on the head for being in a rush and he understands that his time is well spent slowly warming her motor. The rewards are enormous, as a woman has the ability to take a man to places in the ethers he can't obtain thru any other means..... surprise her and she WILL surprise you. | |
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