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 sam-spade

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 6:48:31 AM

Hopefully, a "woman over 50" has reached a point in Her Life where she is smart enough to SEE/KNOW the ' suduction', and Be In Control OF that 'enticement & luring', all the while letting 'him' think he is.....
Good. We want you to see and respond to it. It's no fun if you're blind to it.

When I was in college, a girl in our "crowd" said "We're going to a movie on Saturday (the next day), you coming?" I said "sure". Movie time comes and no one shows except her. We sat outside waiting for the rest of the people and no one arrived, so we went in to watch the movie. I dated her for 2 years and she'd introduce or refer to me as "my blind date".

While a player would seduce you for only one reason, someone who is attracted and wants to know you better is really more interested in taking it to the next level. It doesn't matter if sex follows seduction.
 Moonchild48

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Posted: 4/10/2008 7:25:32 AM

While a player would seduce you for only one reason, someone who is attracted and wants to know you better is really more interested in taking it to the next level. It doesn't matter if sex follows seduction.


Awe Sammy! That has to be one of the sweetest posts I have ever read here!
Seduction? Heck I am all for it. Nothing wrong with it whatsoever. As we have seen in previous posts, there are many ways to seduce. But I like the thought of "start with a woman's brain, and the rest follows". Works like a charm every time!
 MacKevinized

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 8:27:10 AM

Seduce: something that attracts or charms
Source: Merriam Webster Online Dictionary


Gee, when I checked it out it said:

1 : to persuade to disobedience or disloyalty
2 : to lead astray usually by persuasion or false promises
3 : to carry out the physical seduction of : entice to sexual intercourse
4 : attract

And from the Oxford dictionary.

seduce
verb [ trans. ]
attract (someone) to a belief or into a course of action that is inadvisable or foolhardy : they should not be seduced into thinking that their success ruled out the possibility of a relapse. See note at tempt .
• entice into sexual activity.
• attract powerfully : the melody seduces the ear with warm string tones.

I saw nothing about charm in there
 Phoebe48

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:31:30 AM
You must have sourced a different site. Your point?

Oh right! That was just you being seductive. ho hum.........
 maeflowers

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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:43:08 AM

Gee, when I checked it out it said:

1 : to persuade to disobedience or disloyalty
2 : to lead astray usually by persuasion or false promises
3 : to carry out the physical seduction of : entice to sexual intercourse
4 : attract

And from the Oxford dictionary.

seduce
verb [ trans. ]
attract (someone) to a belief or into a course of action that is inadvisable or foolhardy : they should not be seduced into thinking that their success ruled out the possibility of a relapse. See note at tempt .
• entice into sexual activity.
• attract powerfully : the melody seduces the ear with warm string tones.

I saw nothing about charm in there




The classic standard definitive....Roget's International Thesaurus.

Enamor or seduce....win one's heart, win the love or affection of, take the fancy of, make a hit with(slang) charm, becharm, infatuate, fasinate, captivate, allure, bewitch and so on ....


...maeflowers
 meteor 54

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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:46:40 AM
I like the 'BEWITCH' one Mae!

[sounds sooo underhanded!]
[I..Hope!]
 redarcangel

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 8:58:27 AM
We're still stuck on the semantics of this word.. does anybody else see the humor in this?

Is seduction a good thing.. or an evil thing?

I think for me.. it can only occur in a committed relationship. That's the time when I know I would feel most comfortable.. and acceptable to the advances of seduction. JMO
 Kobayashi

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:05:09 AM
Red, I read your contributions and I agree with you TOTALLY!

Ride on!
 Loz Hunter

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 9:12:16 AM
Guessing I know why Sam Spade is on a SINGLES SITE.

What do you think ladies.

Hint: Sam, think you are talking prostitutes they are all quick and easy at any age hun
 redarcangel

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:18:33 AM
I think this is such a touchy-feely subject.. because it usually draws from our own personnal experiences.. leaving for very narrowed views. This isn't something I know I even talk about.. at all.. with even my very very best friend. We can talk about sex straight out.. whether we did/do or not.. and with whom.. but.. always.. always draw the line on how (positioning included.. btw ).. so it becomes extremely personnal to answer.. with everyone having their own special take on what the actual word implies and how/if it is then carried off/out. JMO
 instride

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:28:15 AM
Will I get in too much trouble if I were to suggest, slipping her some Hormones first?
Just kidding!
I adore romance, seducing and being seduced. Knowing you are wanted is such a turn-on.
Having someone pay special attention makes the blood hot and sometimes causes the eyes to roll to the back of her head.
I've never been a man with money and have had to develop talents and other attributes to be attractive.
You may look at my pictures and say to yourself, " God, what a frog!"
I may be to some, but, when I am attractive to a woman, the hearts open wide.
Another attractive thing is self-esteem. If I don't like who I am, how can I expect a woman to like me either?
 AgelessWonder

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:32:48 AM


Having someone pay special attention makes the blood hot and sometimes causes the eyes to roll to the back of her head.


That could be scary... does the movie Exorcism ring a bell????


 instride

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:35:26 AM
Been a while??? ^^^^^
 sam-spade

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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:51:08 AM

Guessing I know why Sam Spade is on a SINGLES SITE.
Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Wrong.

Hint: Sam, think you are talking prostitutes they are all quick and easy at any age hun
Is there such a thing as a difficult prostitute? I don't know about England, but in Canada you don't even have to ask them. If you try to seduce them, they're likely to say something like "Talk faster cowboy. Giddyup."
 redarcangel

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Posted: 4/10/2008 10:21:29 AM
Is there such a thing as a difficult prostitute? I don't know about England, but in Canada you don't even have to ask them. If you try to seduce them, they're likely to say something like "Talk faster cowboy. Giddyup."

Canadian cowboys.. reminds me of spaghetti westerns..

Sorry Sam.. I'm from the US.. home of the "cowboy".. and I'm seriously not laughing at you.. but.. hopefully with you.

The way I see it is.. the only time anyone can be seduced.. is when someone allows the seduction to take place. That's why I happe to think it's best with two people who know.. and are more then just a little comfortable with each other. JMO

Sorry still..
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/10/2008 5:41:24 PM
Make light of the moon...put million stars on the sky...tell her...you have a room in Heaven...with the view of Eden...show her...you have gentle arms...and let her feel...that she's number 1...

it is everything you need...to seduce a woman...
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/10/2008 5:47:32 PM
But...be sure...what you want...her body...or her heart...
 notard

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 9:37:29 PM
This is a matter that I have yet to consider. I guess I wonder who would want to?
 azores55

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How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/10/2008 9:52:02 PM
Kinda sounds like fishing to me, no pun intended. Carefully tie the fly or lure, careful casting, hoping the bait will work. hmmm Wonder if it will be an Olympic event in the future. I can see why Naomi Wolf hates the Mars/Venus book. Oh well
 forum101

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Posted: 4/10/2008 11:21:42 PM
Good Lord, seducing brings to mind underhanded means to accomplish a sexual goal. who needs to do that? what type of man resorts to that? get her drunk, thats one way, if your of the low-life persuasion. If you havent learned how to attract women, at your age, why dont you quit now and put the women out their misery. your mind set is from the stone ages.
Respect, compassion, honesty, and integrity, give and gain those first, to get into her mind and heart, then the sex will come naturally, and you wont know who is actually seducing who. "Mature" men sometimes seem no different than teenage boys. Why do we even bother???
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/11/2008 4:50:47 AM
Sex come naturally...sure and later you are waiting for respect...honesty...so don't bother your senses...
 rearguard2

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Posted: 4/11/2008 6:13:42 AM

Why do we even bother???


Mostly because we are driven to it by our biological makeup. Its one of the beauties of life, and also one of the great travails of life. Even though I love women, I sure feel that the drive to seek their companionship has consumed far too much of my time, energy and resources. Apparently, as long as one is alive there is no other real option than to continue the search....
 Moonchild48

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Posted: 4/11/2008 6:26:27 AM
Sheesh! You all have echoed my thoughts exactly!
I think "why bother" when at times, the search seems terribly daunting and discouraging...Mr. R? You hit the nail on the head.

OT: Again, I think, doesn't take much for a man who knows how to "seduce" a lady to do just that! Speak to her brain first and the rest shall follow
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/11/2008 6:30:08 AM
Mature man knows what he wants.

Perhaps he doesn't know...if he has brain of 4 years old...
 AgelessWonder

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Posted: 4/11/2008 6:32:29 AM

Mature man knows what he wants.

Perhaps he doesn't know...if he has brain of 4 years old...



True or his brain hit gravity and landed below his belt!!

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