| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/11/2008 7:02:01 AM |
True or his brain hit gravity and landed below his belt!! 
OUCH! I know your post was mean't to be funny AW. But, there are some men who are mature and know what they want, as Ankka posted.
Some men are in datingland again because of circumstances beyond their control, just like some women are. Unfortunately, men get a bad wrap when it comes to " the art of seduction" because women paint them as lewd, unsavoury characters and sexual predators. This seems so unfair to me.
Sure, there are a few men who want nothing more from a relationship than easy sex or one night stands. But for the most part, I think most men are looking for the same results from a relationship, that women are looking for.
How nice would it be if a man posted?
True or HER brain hit gravity and landed below HER belt?
If a guy posted that, we women would be all over him " like white rice" and full of condemnation.
Perhaps, seduction equals respect towards the opposite sex. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:06:33 PM | ^^^OMG OMG>..I am splitting my belly laughing at that one darlin!
Right on the money you are!!!!!! And I can't wait to see the replies to this one! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/11/2008 8:23:01 PM | | Easy sex, you say? I havnt had easy sex in years. I get winded just trying to get my pants off. Sheesh , what a work out !!! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:13:58 PM | First off, I have to say that I am extremely shocked at the negative attitudes toward seduction. I never knew it was seen as a negative. I have never thought of seduction as forcing, or tricking someone against their will...hmmmm why???
BECAUSE I AM AN ADULT AND NO ONE MAKES MY MIND UP BUT ME!
How totally insulting and ignorant to assume people/women are brainless idiots. I can tell you right now that anyone on here that thinks seduction is all negative and about force, doesn't have the talent to seduce. It is intersting how many of those posted definitions of seduction and only commented on the negative ones and completely ignored the positive ones, as if they didn't even read what they had posted.
For my response,
No man, not one could use a single, or multiple, words, moves, money, or anything to seduce me in any way, shape, or form, if he has not FIRST, spent time with me in conversation. Real conversation. Meaningful conversation. Not going on about him and not giving me the third degree, but just a common, non-earth shaking, warm hearted genuine exchange where we have a meeting of the minds. No one can plan this, or do this by force, or tricks. It is often called chemistry, or fate, but it is never premeditated. If we do not have natural compatibility, then I am walking anyway. Most importantly, he must show me he can communicate with me and we have interests in common on a spiritual level as well as anything else.
After a man has done this a few times, seduction begins to happen on it's own. To be honest, if it doesn't happen, frequently, from that point on, then we should not be together. He and I must agree on this point and the seduction, no mater who starts it, must be mutual. Seduction is a good thing. I like it, I want it and so does he. With it, the relationship will be interesting and will last.
I noticed that the man who HATES seduction and thinks it all should be a flat question and answer said that he uses dancing and other acts....hmmm I wonder what he thinks seduction is and did he not post the "other acts" because it would reveal seduction??? How pompous.
When I find the next man who can do all of the above, then I know he was chosen for me by God, the fates, or by nature and chemistry and He IS The ONE. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 1:31:15 AM | Dam woman! I believe in a longer "Hello my name is ..." than just 2 freaking e-mails" .... and I am starting to get back into enjoying the whole dating scene - but man - you so deserve today's TUDE award cuz you so have the attitude!!!
Oh and I'm writing this as a good thing! :) | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:57:08 AM | to moonchild48
Sorry, don't know where the joke is, where it starts, where it finishes, I am getting
more and more seductions than ever not in my 50's but in my 60's, not being
conceited, I have a young state of mind, and don't see it is any different being
seduced at 30, 40 or 50, if a woman is guillable and wants to make a fool of
herself at any age, so be it, certain women, such as myself cannot be seduced
at any age, (I do the choosing) not to being mean, I have pride and always had
pride not to let anyone seduce me.  | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:18:36 PM | Wish I could delete the above message, it does sound hard...What I meant to
say is that seduction should be a mutual feeling at any age, no one wants a person
to be above themselves or below themselves, the seduction, if it is a major crush
both parties have, will have a mutual seduction, at any age...Seduction doesn't
have an age! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:20:41 PM | No need to suduce
Just be yourself * and truthful
At your age you should be looking for someone with the same values, lifestyles, ect
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 1:37:36 PM | Why do women over 50 need to be "seduced"?
If we want to have sex with you, then we want to have sex with you. We are often not caught up in the same games as are younger women.
And that DOES NOT mean that we are desperate (remember what Ben Franklin said? boo!). It means that we know what we like and what we want. That also does not mean that we have sex with every man who offers or tries to seduce us.
Or perhaps I should only speak for myself. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 1:58:18 PM | Anyway...not even make love...a woman want to be everything a man could want...silk...honey...melting against her man...to be boneless...
To have the same dreams...
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/12/2008 11:02:07 PM | Ankkka, stop that, you're seducing me! 
Anyway...not even make love...a woman want to be everything a man could want...silk...honey...melting against her man...to be boneless...
To have the same dreams...
That, is absolutely wonderful! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/13/2008 2:55:26 PM | I find this thread, and it’s brother thread: “How to seduce men” very interesting. The other thread, going over 3 weeks now, still has over a page a day of posts. This one, just four days old, only has 4 pages – just a page a day, and post counts are usually at their highest during the first few days of a thread. Furthermore, other than OP’s posts and the usual bickerings, most posts in the thread are by woman – I didn’t count them up, but it looked to me like two-thirds of the posts on how to seduce women were by women. My own single post in here was really not worth a lot. I come across odd little trends like this and I always wonder why.
I don’t know ‘bout other guys, but with the prevailing ‘atmosphere’ in this forum that all (most? some? a few?) guys are just after sex, that there is little chance that I’ll sit here and review the best way to seduce a woman – let’s face it, we all know how to seduce the opposite sex, if that’s what we really want to do. But why give others the ammunition to label you ??
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. It’s just the way things are. You’ll not find many men in the Over 45 forum writing about how to seduce a woman anymore than you’ll find women writing about how to become a gold-digger – or any of the other demeaning generalities that get attributed to them. It’s a shame when people state generalities about one gender that they don’t realize how much it limits true opinion and self-expression.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/13/2008 3:29:32 PM | Why men do not write in this post seriously...
I give you answer.
Probably most of them dream how to seduce a woman...to take advantage of a woman...and brutally dump her...
Anyway...seduction always has link with dumping... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:16:53 PM | Gwedolyn is correct:
"Why do women over 50 need to be "seduced"?
If we want to have sex with you, then we want to have sex with you. We are often not caught up in the same games as are younger women."
For my part I have no desire to be with a woman who needs to be seduced.
Grown-up women know what they want and go for it.
"Seducing" looks like perusuading somebody to do something they would not do without your imposing your will on them instead of respecting theirs.
If you want to make a career of doing that then the local used car lot is hiring salesmen. | |
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