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 feedem

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 4/13/2008 7:48:37 PM
Buy her a new Playtex bra.....
Help her eat the candy....
Put water on the flowers.....
Learn to cook chicken....
Buy her a pedicure....
Use air freshener after you use the pot......
Lower the lid...
look in her eyes and feel behind her ears...
Carry the lawn chairs...
Show her how to drive the lawn mower...
Let her be in charge of the laundry......
Every week, tell her you'll buy her a ring next week....
 Landscaper

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 4/13/2008 11:19:18 PM
se·duce [ sə dss ] (past and past participle se·duced, present participle se·duc·ing, 3rd person present singular se·duc·es)


transitive verb

Definition:

1. encourage somebody to have sex: to persuade somebody to have sex, especially by using a romantic or deceptive approach


2. lead somebody astray: to persuade somebody to do something by making it seem desirable or exciting


3. win somebody over: to persuade somebody into giving support or agreement


[15th century. < Latin seducere "lead astray" < se(d)- "apart" + ducere "to lead"] not sure what to add here except nature will always take its course, shouldnt need to do anything, if its meant to be, it will if not, it wont, seduction is in the mind, hence the definitions, try being her friend, if she wants it to be more,, she will let you know,,
 outofthedesert

Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 4/14/2008 3:12:16 AM
I guess the reason seduction has a bad name is some areas, like here in the South, seduction was how you got a husband, not what you did to him after you got him.

Thank goodness some of us had a French mother and learned the art of seduction. She could walk into a room and everyman immediately turned and looked and stopped talking to whomever. She just had that kind of presence and looks. I did not get all her good looks unfortunately, but I did learn how to work a room.

To quote someone 'damm, woman, you are killing me' and all we had done was kiss a little.
 PeterC

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 4/14/2008 4:38:11 AM
Or alternativly........Rely on the fact you are both curious about each other and at loose ends, then let nature take its course !
 ankkka

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 4/14/2008 1:22:03 PM
Peter...
at your beautiful age...you don't have to think about seducing...your natural skills are wonderful...and whole world is open for you...
 PeterC

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 4/14/2008 1:53:21 PM
ankkka my dear, my ex was 46 and my current was 51..........so despite your throws of hilarity, im not far off the mark, im my experience.
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/14/2008 2:04:02 PM
Unbelievable...
but it is your choice...I can't say...right choice...
 PeterC

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 4/14/2008 2:15:23 PM
what ? Im no teen, and they seem to enjoy it while it lasts, so I dont see the problem....besides, its never how you imagine it........i cant tell the difference between 19 and 49, only they have less anoying stuff at 49 !
 debb1110

Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 4/14/2008 3:11:05 PM
No difference between 19 and 49???? You must be joking.There are so many differences ,too many to list.Experience for one,wisdom,maturity.Thanks for the laughs.
 PeterC

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 4/14/2008 3:13:29 PM
Dont think so babe, they all revert to sprawling horney teenage girls once in the sack, ok they no a few more tricks, its actually quite strange seeing someone old enough to be your mother acting as sexualy diverse as an 18 year old !
 maeflowers

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Posted: 4/14/2008 5:08:57 PM

Buy her a new Playtex bra.....
Help her eat the candy....
Put water on the flowers.....
Learn to cook chicken....
Buy her a pedicure....
Use air freshener after you use the pot......
Lower the lid...
look in her eyes and feel behind her ears...
Carry the lawn chairs...
Show her how to drive the lawn mower...
Let her be in charge of the laundry......
Every week, tell her you'll buy her a ring next week....


...So.....as Dr Phil would say, "How has this been working for ya"

...maeflowers
 Dynamic3

Joined: 8/13/2007
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Posted: 4/15/2008 10:48:07 AM
To feedem;
Wow, all women aren't monsters, you are losing the meaning of a True Woman,
not all women are as needy as you are expressing, some women just want to be
treated as a feminine, desireable woman, without the extras. We can be indepen-
dent as well as seductive. One thing that wasn't on your list, tell her how much you
care for her, and desire her, mean what you say.
 cutechickforu

Joined: 4/11/2008
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Posted: 4/15/2008 11:03:26 AM
I would like to write a quote from Andy Rooney,,,,,As I grow in age I value women who are over 40 most of all,,,A woman over 40 will never wake you up in ther middle of the night and ask you " what are you thinking? She doesnt care what you think....
If a woman over 40 doesnt want to watch "The game" she doesnt sit around whining about it. She does something more interesting, For those men who say " why buy the whole cow when you can get the milk for free here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? because women realize that its not worth buying the entire pig just to get a little sausage.....Just a thought...lol
 fra59e

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Posted: 4/15/2008 11:27:37 AM
CuteChick: " ... from Andy Rooney,,,,,As I grow in age I value women who are over 40 most of all... ".

Indeed. I think women over 40 can become more and more sexual, less inhibited, more colorful personalities, more desirable human beings to be around.

Why? I don't know but here's a guess. Maybe in their childbearing years women are dominated by their biological drives towards motherhood. Perhaps once that is out of the way they have a better chance to develop personality and unique identity. Hopefully they have racked up enough life experiences to have some interesting things to talk about. They have figured out that they really are O.K. just as they are and no longer feel driven to be homecoming queens or dating material. They are well-rounded human beings with some accomplishments and the ability to feel good about themselves.

Now there will always be the old dudes with thick wallets who want arm candy and go for the trophies. But smart females know that trophies just get their heads hung on the wall while the hunter goes out seeking new prey. The intelligent secure female sees menopause coming if not already there and she has moved on beyond the parenting thing. Yet with luck her sexuality isn't over; it's just starting to blossom, as Aristotle recognized (he says women of 40 should match up with 18-year-old men.)

Yesterday I watched the YouTube video clip of Sally Field giving her speech at the Emmy awards last September. I fell instantly in love with her, because she is so alive and so passionate. If you see it be sure to see the uncensored version. It is amazing that Sally Field is over 60 yet really has what it takes to turn a man on even more than Gidget. Frankly, if I had the chance, I would love to make her mine for a while. Really, age is just a number, and women can in fact get better and better with age and I suppose around 40 is the major turning point.
 lover_I_am

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Posted: 4/16/2008 10:48:40 PM
[To be honest, I kinda like the whole process of seduction if it's done well. It's an art form, not to be taken lightly.]


I agree...I belief that Lovemaking and seduction are one and the same..And...it is an all day romance...if you are a giver to your mate, not to just get some, and you really want to please your mate....you will be romancing, seducing, your mate from first light, to last light....That does not mean, sex being the goal....Mates truly in Love with each other, are givers. They do romance and seduce thier mate, and they truly do not take it lightly..
 rasputing

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Posted: 4/17/2008 5:40:26 AM
any woman who`s honest to admit money aint everything love his the main thing and understanding someone strong to live life up and downs age from 17 to 20 want to have fun 20 to 30 want to get married or have partner`s thrirty want kids and fortys might want a new love life forthere partners go atray at timers or in my case die which can happen anytime i am trying hard to put things in respective for i have tried so many times not to offend but like i said a poor mans roses cand be better then a richmans gold look at sir paul mcartney and the divorce he wernt through to me seducing women dont come gift wrapped it tootake easy get to know each other i beleave in understanding give and take not wants in wallet or purse or bank its love that matters first an formost seduction means just sex to me and i dont beleave in one nighters i had enoughof those when i was in a band i was in
 ankkka

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Posted: 4/17/2008 8:41:04 AM
It is so sad to me...that often I hear from a man money means a lot for a woman...It can't be true...
Take that money from a woman...and... she is naked...
 feedem

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Posted: 4/17/2008 9:16:33 AM
OH.........sweet smelling maeflowers........can I offer you a breath mint?
 cdn*guy

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Posted: 4/17/2008 10:03:07 AM
I’ll leave the moral judgment of seduction alone, for depending on the reasons and ultimate goal, seduction can be good or bad. But to be really successful at the ‘art’ of seduction (and yes, I believe that it is an art), you need to stop concentrating on what you’re doing and instead focus on the one you are seducing. For then, you’ll see the reactions. Everyone is different, and different people react favourably to different things. And if you’re fully aware of the person you are seducing, you’ll spot these reactions, signals and signs – even the hardest to see ones. And you’ll learn what to do as you go along.

Personally, whenever I find myself with someone I wish to become more intimate with, it becomes an ‘art of seduction’. And if I’m lucky ... I mean, really, really, lucky ... she’ll be doing the same thing to me. It’s so neat how it works out, sometimes.

cdn guy
 chesterjane

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Posted: 4/17/2008 4:33:03 PM
Im a woman over 50.
Seduced? that sounds very " Mrs Robinsonish"
Basically we need to be stimulated mentally as well as physically!
I love to meet aguy who can challenge me to a good debate as well as 'whisper sweet nothings'
So few and far between ???
Think most guys seem to prefer women who seem vulnerabkle and looking after.
It seems that men are afraid of an intelligent feisty woman.
Would love to be proved wrong!
Dont mean to generalise but thats just the way it seems.
Anyway Im up for seduction with a glass or two of wine and/or a meal . Always happy to do research

Jane (54 going on 24)
 TimothyNC

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Posted: 4/17/2008 4:58:01 PM
Seduction does have a lot of negative connotations. However, It can also mean finding a mutual attraction and deepening a connection with someone that you think well of. To me, it means talking to a lady and showing interest in her. Genuine interest, not false flattery. False flattery just goes nowhere. It's much easier to be sincere at my age than it was when I was in my 20's and looking for a physical liaison.

There is a lot to be said for romance. A nice restaurant with a conducive atmosphere or a quiet evening with soft music and soft light goes a long way toward seducing and being seduced.

But when all is said, the seduction causes the two people involved to move together emotionally on a higher plane.

You have to have your priorities in order and know the consequences of your actions.

Just my two cents!

Tim
 maeflowers

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Posted: 4/17/2008 5:11:41 PM

OH.........sweet smelling maeflowers........can I offer you a breath mint?



...Hmmm, not quite sure how to take that * breathes into her hand just in case*
Now are you offering cause your just being nice and this is part of the seduction process or is there a problem?

...maeflowers
 cuddlybuddy

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Posted: 4/19/2008 7:09:28 PM
If a man can't keep my attention on an intellectual level, or is so arrogant and puffed up that he assumes he will succeed in the seduction, his chances of success are nearly nonexistent. The only thing that might save the man who can't keep my attention on an intellectual level is his great sense of humor. The arrogant man hasn't got a chance in he** of getting to first base, let alone hitting a home run.....

 Phoebe48

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Posted: 4/21/2008 12:53:46 AM
Let's see? You're 38 so your Mommy is probably over 50. Why don't you run along home and ask her.
 Moonchild48

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Posted: 4/21/2008 5:19:44 AM
Hmmm...couple of comments posted earlier are the exact reason why I don't
waste my time dating younger. Actually turned my tummy to read them!
Ignorance at it's ultimate!
OT: The art of seduction, I believe, is as was pointed out earlier. It is an all day thing. The touches, the way you speak to your partner. It all works up to "special evenings" if you do it right...




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