| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/10/2008 2:56:31 PM | | you never seduce a woman over 50.....you treat them like a lady, you act like a gentleman.....and hope like hell you get the opportunity to get them to the most wildest orgasim they ever had.....you will be there friend for life.....many older woman have never had that opportunity... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/10/2008 4:54:56 PM |
If you want to cook in the evening, you have to preheat the oven...........................
I agree totally! How you treat her during the day will determine how she feels that night towards you! That's a lot more important then seduction, | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/10/2008 5:15:58 PM | Assuming your question isn't a wind up. I'd buy her a bottle of expensive winejavascript:smilie(' ')
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/10/2008 5:45:56 PM | Deep inside all women, regardless of age is a little girl ........ the seduction process...... if genuine and comes from the heart, will emit the same response whether she is 15 or 65.....Assuming of course she is receptive to a man in a romantic nature.....
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/10/2008 9:16:58 PM | How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Tickle her fancy. That usually works.
Seriously, women over 50 generally know what they want. And if they want sex, then they are quite direct in communicating this desire, both by their words and by their actions. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:12:31 AM | A woman over 50 wants love...
So...if you have this uniqual feeling for her...take her for great adventure...maybe the last one... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 6:18:36 AM | What a silly thread! I have never known a man or woman to be seduced who does not want to be. Seduction is the mating dance that men and women do. They let each other know that they are attracted, and willing to engage. From there, it's a matter of how you go about landing the fish. Stupid and clumsy tends to lead from attraction to turn off. The path from initial attraction to long term attraction requires all those things that relationships are made of - respect, listening, compromise - as well as physical, mental, and emotional attraction.
Although, to answer the original question, wine and dinner makes a good start. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 6:34:37 AM | | Numbers sonny. You have to talk to a bunch of them and gain experience. I've only cracked upper 40s, but their mental is the key. Most older women have been pretty cool though. They know what they want so you can keep it simple. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 9:37:07 AM | Posted By: WaywardSeeker on 5/10/2008 2 08 PM
Subject: How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Message: To me, seduction is changing the mind of a woman who does not want to be in a relationship with me, sexual or otherwise. The premise is that she will say no at first to whatever I propose and I will have to win her over with my great beauty and sparkling wit. Sounds kinda fun to me, but I haven't tried it yet. ...
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What you are describing is called "salesmanship." I have done selling and became quite good at it. Selling can be a part of your business life but there's no way I would make salesmanship part of my personal social life.
I am able to love, and that is quite a different thing from being able to sell. Loving is giving, selling is getting.
Selling usually relates to some particular commodity or product, and once the sale is made that's it. The salesman moves on to the next sale.
Loving is a state of mind and a way of life, it's lasting and there is no limit to it - the more you love, the more love you are able to give, and the more love flows back to you without effort. You don't even need to work on it the way salesman have to work to make a sale and seducers work on seducing. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:45:10 AM |
On the third hand, things like flowers, good food, nice music, soft lights and all show that the gent is paying attention and cannot hurt unless he brings along the attitude that the lady owes him for that effort anything more than a thank you and a smile.
...Thats never going to change, not for me anyway. I love all the romance, the flowers, music, lighting....it makes me feel special, that I'm worth the effort. Again, I can't speak for other woman but I remember those sorts of things, just as I do a first kiss.
Romantic games are all kinds of fun when the lady has already made up her mind, the gentleman knows it, and the lady knows he knows it, but that is a whole other subject
...ahhh yes, two consenting adults who have established how they feel about one another.....let the mating dance begin.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 7:42:01 PM | Posted By: maeflowers on 5/11/2008 10 10 AM
Subject: How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Message:
... things like flowers, good food, nice music, soft lights and all show that the gent is paying attention and cannot hurt unless he brings along the attitude that the lady owes him for that effort anything more than a thank you and a smile.
...Thats never going to change, not for me anyway. I love all the romance, the flowers, music, lighting....it makes me feel special, that I'm worth the effort.
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A question: Do you buy HIM things like flowers, good food, nice music, soft lights and all to show the gent that you are paying attention and that you do not bring along the attitude that the guy owes you anything more for that effort than a thank you and a smile?
Does it occur to you that HE might enjoy all the romance, the flowers, music, lighting ... that it might make HIM feel special, that HE'S worth YOUR effort?
Or do you imagine that if one person has a yaya where the other person has a yoyo that therefore they must have different feelings and desires?
When I encounter a person who is stuck in Jurassic Age gender-role assumptions I run a mile. But don't worry, there are still some dinosaurs roaming around the site and maybe one will find you. If that's what you really want, I hope you will. Personally I do not live in a Jane Austen novel full of gallant men and demure women waiting to be wooed. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/11/2008 8:20:36 PM | I remember...least I think I do! lol
Last relationship. We had a fine meal that I cooked, we did the dishes together. Adjourned to the couch. I took out my peppermint foot lotion and gave him the rub down of a lifetime! lol
Now there is seduction!!! Can't say what went on after...this is an open forum! Guess my point is? Seduction comes in all forms, can be done by both men and women... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 12:37:02 PM | A question: Do you buy HIM things like flowers, good food, nice music, soft lights and all to show the gent that you are paying attention and that you do not bring along the attitude that the guy owes you anything more for that effort than a thank you and a smile?
Does it occur to you that HE might enjoy all the romance, the flowers, music, lighting ... that it might make HIM feel special, that HE'S worth YOUR effort?
Or do you imagine that if one person has a yaya where the other person has a yoyo that therefore they must have different feelings and desires?
...Ahhh, excuse me, but isn't the thread topic " HOW TO SEDUCE A WOMAN?"
When I encounter a person who is stuck in Jurassic Age gender-role assumptions I run a mile. But don't worry, there are still some dinosaurs roaming around the site and maybe one will find you. If that's what you really want, I hope you will. Personally I do not live in a Jane Austen novel full of gallant men and demure women waiting to be wooed.
..With regards to the little dig "Jurassic Age" I could probably run with this one and have a whole lot of fun at your expense....but I choose to act with a little more decorum and good manners.
Therefore, in the future, I will not respond to your mean spirited comments and will look at whence they came from.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 6:46:00 PM | ...Hey Sammy, wanna play "Jurassic Park?" You can be the cave man that saves me from the dangerous ole dinosaurs and in appreciation, I show you how to make fire.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 7:01:37 PM |
To be honest, I kinda like the whole process of seduction if it's done well. It's an art form, not to be taken lightly. So I should put away the bridge-jumping bungee cords, or not? | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 7:34:09 PM |
..With regards to the little dig "Jurassic Age" I could probably run with this one and have a whole lot of fun at your expense....but I choose to act with a little more decorum and good manners.
Therefore, in the future, I will not respond to your mean spirited comments and will look at whence they came from
Aw, it would have been more fun if you had run with the dinosaur thing But great response..........this is a thread about how to seduct women! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 7:56:12 PM | ....Well now, I have this wild caveman fantasy in my head so I think I'll just curl up for the night and plot my own seduction haha
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/12/2008 9:09:02 PM | Mr Sam, YOU shouldn't bother trying to seduce a woman over 50. IF she thinks you are worth a second glance she will seduce YOU, and you'll never know what hit you, either!
"Practical" method??? Sheeeeesshh!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/13/2008 12:28:16 AM | When I encounter a person who is stuck in Jurassic Age gender-role assumptions I run a mile.
I like the Jurassic Age gender-role assumptions. I enjoy being a woman and I wouldn't be the least bit interested in a man who isn't happy being a man and playing the traditional role of pursuer and seducer and rescuer of damsels in distress at least some of the time. Not everyone shows romantic interest in the same way, but if a guy is interested in a woman for more than casual sex, he lets her know it. It doesn't necessarily take flowers, music, and candles, (although those are very nice) but he shows her in some way that he thinks she's special, that he cares about her as a person, and that she's very attractive to him. Maybe some people are fine with just letting the other know they're sexually interested and that obviously works a lot of the time if the physical attraction is mutual, but I don't see how that would be enough if either person wants more than sex. If a guy isn't doing any of the things I know from experience that every man who has been truly interested in me has done, then I feel pretty crappy about myself if I have sex with him anyway. I think I'm worth more than that. Thankfully there are still lots of men who have no problem actively pursuing and romancing women they're really interested in. It seems to come pretty naturally to most guys and I'm not sure they can even help themselves when they find themselves in pursuit mode when someone has caught their interest.
IF she thinks you are worth a second glance she will seduce YOU, and you'll never know what hit you, either
That statement doesn't apply to all women. I'm used to men making the first move but if I do flirt first and the guy doesn't respond as enthusiastically as I think he should have, then I'm pretty much done with him. I don't want anyone who isn't already sure he wants me too. I'm naturally seductive and I can't help it, but I keep it in check unless it's just for a little extra spice in an ongoing relationship or the guy has already let me know how he feels about me. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:53:08 AM | I agree with candy lily on this one -
I will usually flirt first because I know men are just as afraid of rejection as women are maybe more so, but after that initial contact if the man is interested he has to respond in some way I take no response as a NO!
And it's not about the candy and flowers it's all additude for me and the 5 senses
taste - a good kisser - not too wet not too soft - just right
touch - feels good under my hand and knows how & where to touch
sight - looks good - strong face, kind eyes, hard working strong hands
sound - a deep voice and someone that will actually talk!
smell - some great colonge to get and keep my attention !! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:23:06 AM | Cherish her, tell her what you like about her, let her know by giving her flowers.
Understand her, focus on what she is telling you, listen to her, ask questions and reflect back to her what you hear and that you understand what it is she is saying.
Respect her, if you understand her wishes, desires, needs and wants respect them. Where you can meet those things, do so, where you cannot support her in her process and above all, don't judge her, simply admire her for who she is, the entire pie, not just what pleases you, because it takes all the pieces to make a whole.
CUR=love.... you want it, do it, you got it. | |
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