| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:14:28 AM | Manners ??? How about common sense ??
Just the other day some male offered to carry my groceries ??
No be in line with me and pay for some of them!!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/27/2008 8:45:10 AM |
manners are free and most women of any age (sadly) aren't used to getting them from the men in their lives I disagree on "most". In fact most do. The world isn't an evil place.
Sam? Have you ever met a woman that made you want to be a better man?
If not you need to get out more. I don't really see how getting out more could possibly make anyone be a better man. In fact, I have an extremely good argument for the opposite being true on many levels.
I've been everything from puppy to aloof and can honestly say that every single time I wanted to be "a better man" for a woman, I was being manipulated in a very unhealthy way while the SO was concentrating on "finding herself", or I was trying to get a little more reassuring emotional feedback to easy my own insecurities. But I'm more mature now and a pretty good man already, and having someone wish I were this way or that way is likely to be very disappointed.
I think the first thing you need to do to seduce a woman, before anything else, is to get comfortable with being yourself. If you're not, then you're sitting on a time bomb. I'm not saying that if you're yourself it'll be easier to do, quite the opposite, if you are yourself you'll probably have a harder time finding someone you can seduce. But that's not a bad thing really. It helps weed out women who won't like you in the long run.
The goal of seducing a woman is not just to get her in the sac (take that with a grain of salt ok?), it's a stepping stone to discovering someone you're compatible with for the long haul. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:04:47 AM | It's not even so much a matter of ~Seduction~....
Admiration is usually inspiration enough, for me...
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....the same way that I'd seduce a woman under 50....
Manners...Charm...and a Unique Dancing-style..!!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:12:09 AM | | Very interesting viewpoint our Sammy, and one that I have been struggling with over time. As we get older, I really do believe that if one "seduces", it should be with their own unique style and on their own terms as who they are. If one chooses to act/be something other than themselves, they will for certain get caught up in it at some point in the relationship. Perhaps that is why we have failed to this point? Price of hot tub to seduce $6,000, bottle of fine wine $26.00, being able to seduce and succeed based on who are you and it is joyfully accepted? "Priceless". | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/27/2008 12:48:32 PM | | Most effective method I have found is to give no indication to the woman that you are even considering seducing her. Let her think she is entirely in control. Of course, she is entirely in control, so its just not that hard to do.... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 7:31:42 AM | Hands Maeflowers my universal remote complete with instructions. Since my brain surgery I need someone to at least turn me on in the morning and off at night. Or is it the other way around, I forget? There are other buttons that do interesting things as well.  | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 9:10:18 AM | Glad to see someone else who finds inteligence and conversation sexy. I thought I was the only one after watching my friends! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 9:32:41 AM |
I can't speak for anyone else here, but I love being in total control
While wearing black, thigh high, high heeled boots and a mask, perchance??????????
(RG is checking his air miles account....) | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 4:22:33 PM | It's an interesting word: "seduce"...
In my opinion, he has to stand out from the crowd.
He has to be self-assured and confident.
Challenging in conversation whilst at the same time, allowing you to be totally yourself and bringing that side out of you, where others have failed.
Make you wonder?
Whilst acting like a gentleman, suggestive words which you can take the way meant or take it as "is that what he is saying"...
Women love to talk... Men hate to listen. He listens to everthing you say, never puts anything you have to say down and answers only to sentences where he can make her feel great about herself.
Women are emotional, he never points that out, allows you to speak your peace, holds nothing against you and lets you be you.
And in "body language", he knows the art. May touch your shoulder as he walks by but he keeps walking.
Waits to read yours, seduces with his eyes, reaching into a soul..
Never talks about future, but never says there won't be one, suggested words that have you thinking you have to seduce him, he's not easy...
Doesn't call, text, email daily, leaves your message for a day, makes you wonder...
But ultimately when together, makes you feel whole and like a woman...
Not with mushy words, just with the smile and touch.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 4:51:32 PM | | seduction is everything even when you know you are going to get it......men have to work at it and women expect it | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 7:05:39 PM |
Hands Maeflowers my universal remote complete with instructions.
...The universal remote.....I'm honoured.
Since my brain surgery I need someone to at least turn me on in the morning and off at night. Or is it the other way around, I forget? There are other buttons that do interesting things as well
...Well imagine that....I just happen to be good at both. Seduction comes easy when ya got the right tools haha
...maeflowers | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/28/2008 7:15:56 PM |
While wearing black, thigh high, high heeled boots and a mask, perchance??????????
(RG is checking his air miles account....)
....How about knee high black leather?...and the mask.... are you trying to tell me something? Seduction is easy, its the distance that gets in the way.
...maeflowers | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:36:45 AM |
Seduction is easy, its the distance that gets in the way.
Now that i know that you can help me with my fetishes, I will move to Saskatoon. That ought to solve the distance problem.... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 4:23:29 AM |
Seducing a woman is an art. I think a woman over 50...is not the same woman as over 30... (maybe 40 since they mature faster. supposedly). She is sophisticated and probably has huge experience of life...I wonder...it is hard or easy to seduce her? What practical method to use?
Guys like you give men like me a bad name. You have a whole lot of growing up to do. One day, you will understand that a woman isn't a project with a "practical method." And isn't a woman over 50 also over 30? And 40?
Good grief.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 4:27:47 AM | tell her she looks good
say " I love you " when leaving for work or going to the store .
If you want to make her happy and you . do what she likes . maybe it's listening to her talk about something for the 83rd time .
never let her " think " she knows what you want because she is not merlin the mind reader .
when she is with you on a night out tell her " thank you for this night " don't rush home and have sex with her UNLESS SHE says .
NOW . guys try these and things SHOULD work . I have thried that and they don't work.
 why am I still single if it is so easy ? | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 4:36:43 AM |
seduction is everything even when you know you are going to get it......men have to work at it and women expect it
I have found that some men can smile in just the right way, look at me in just the right way, speak intelligentl---be himself and that can be very seductive. If he is working at it, I couldn't tell. Maybe he was just seasoned................ | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 6:33:14 AM | | I don't like it when a man is trying so hard to seduce me. Kind of kills the mood for me and makes me think that he either has had so much practice it is worrisome or he has not had enough success with being himself when with women that he has to resort to the seduction method to try to attain his goal so to speak. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 6:42:50 AM | It has been so long since I have been seduced, I forget what it's like?
Wait a minute... have I ever been seduced?
I will give a door prize to the first man that can seduce me!
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:15:51 AM | " ... ....You should start and advice column fo single men ...I can't speak for anyone else here, but I love being in total control...
...maeflowers "
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I met a woman who impressed me because she insisted on treating me always as her equal and being treated by me as her equal.
Then she moved in and I let down my guard when she took more and more control in our relationship because I saw that she always wanted what was best for me without giving up any of what she was herself. I became more healthy and more happy than I had ever been.
Now I have a problem. I have met lots of fine women since then but none of them measure up to the quality of that one. The problem is that I have seen what a great experience it is to be able to commit yourself to a fine loyal female who cares about your wellbeing, and it's hard now to get to understand another woman without making comparisons.
I even asked her if we might get back together again but she prefers to be single. *sigh* Oh well life goes on.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:45:44 AM | OMG WHAT GARBAGE!
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Whilst acting like a gentleman,
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What's wrong with not "acting" (yecchhh) but just "BEING A GOOD HUMAN BEING?" The word "gentleman" suggests a ROLE, not a PERSON, and the way you use it here suggests that you are walking around with a measuring stick called "gentleman" - as defined by YOU, not by HIM - and you expect others to live up to the standards YOU impose on them. Well, any time if I want to "act" I know the way to Broadway where the theatres are. I do NOT want to "act" a role in my personal life and don't want to meet women who "act" instead if living REAL lives in private life especially if they think I am an "actor" who will "perform" for them or entertain them.
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.... suggestive words which you can take the way meant or take it as "is that what he is saying"...
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Hey sister not all men want to be comedians making double entendres - why not let people say exactly what they mean with NO hidden messages and NO reading between the lines. What's wrong with honest straightforward communication from the heart? If I ever meet you and say something and instead of HEARING what I actually say you sit back interpreting it and trying to guess what you imagine I really mean - then I will run away FAST because I say straight up exactly what I mean and listen carefully to you to hear you say what you mean and want to be around only people who are forthright and honest.
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Women love to talk... Men hate to listen.
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Ye gods what childish generalization - totally thinking in stereotypes. Well sister you can count me out of your silly boxing up of people into labeled categories. In my case you are just SOOOOOO wrong. I LOVE to listen AND love to talk and if I listen to you it will NOT be because you are female, it will be because you are saying something intelligent and worth listening to.
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He listens to everthing you say, never puts anything you have to say down and answers only to sentences where he can make her feel great about herself.
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What total BS. Don't you know yet that YOU are respsible for what you feel. If a woman needs a man to "make her feel great about herself" she needs a shrink, not a lover. I want to meet only grown up women, self-directed free women, not just a child who needs approval from a parent to "feel great" about yourself.
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Women are emotional,
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More generalization. Well, I am a man, as male as you can get, and listen up sister I AM EMOTIONAL, deal with it. What do you think men are? All strutting peacocks or roosters? Why not let people be exactly what they are? Any woman who preens as a princess and expects me to be her john wayne on a white horse will see my back FAST. I don't do roles, and in private life am an artist and a lover not an actor or a therapist or rescuer.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:52:56 AM | Posted By: ak transplant on 6/29/2008 4 29 AM
Subject: How to seduce a Woman over 50?
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Seducing a woman is an art. I think a woman over 50...is not the same woman as over 30... (maybe 40 since they mature faster. supposedly). She is sophisticated and probably has huge experience of life...I wonder...it is hard or easy to seduce her? What practical method to use?
Guys like you give men like me a bad name. You have a whole lot of growing up to do. One day, you will understand that a woman isn't a project with a "practical method." And isn't a woman over 50 also over 30? And 40?
Good grief.
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Sir you are so right. If you ever show up at my door I would like to buy you a beer. You make sense. It is pathetic to see so many immature would-be-princesses here. As for me there is no way I am going to climb meekly into anybody's box where they can put a label on me and file me away in some cabinet labeled by age, gender, or anything else. I am what i am, will be exactly what I choose to be and let her be exactly what she chooses to be.
Life isn't about grading each other. It's about making free informed choices and about taking responsibility for yourself and letting others be what they are regardless of what you or anyone else thinks they "should" be. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 6/29/2008 8:07:42 AM | | There is two line superhighway...one to her heart...and one to her mind.But don't speed too fast...you can lose control... | |
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