| Sugardaddy offer
Posted: 4/11/2008 6:18:59 PM | | Few years back, I was dating this women from work who was very attracted for few months. Spent alot a time together, she was my girlfriend until i found out I was her affair. She had a suggar daddy and he was 24 years older then her. She was only with him because he would pay her car payments etc. Of course when I discover this, i was very disgusted. She had the nerve to ask me if we could still have sex on thee occasion but did not want me to see other women. I know slut. That was 6 years ago and now just trying to gain trust again in women. It really damage me or should I say for other women. I dont care how drop dead gorgeous women may be, I still will take it nice and slow.And get back round check of course. | |
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| Sugardaddy offer
Posted: 4/12/2008 7:25:07 PM |
Ask the atty to put the offer in writing! Then insist that his wife sign it too.
that's something that i would ask of anyone asking to be a sugar daddy to me. i'm not going to get caught in the tangled web. he would also have to show proof that he's std free and i would also like to meet his wife in person too. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 8:39:59 PM | I'm diabetic, must stay away from sugar.
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Posted: 4/12/2008 9:01:26 PM | give me a break. All you do is deliberately flaunt your tits, that alone is a turn off to any guy with brains because it symbolizes shallow narcissism, expecially at your age.
So gloat all you want about the penis brained losers, try to find a real man. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 9:07:05 PM |
What do you think? Have you rcvd any of these awful offers? Every 36 YO woman who flaunts themselves gets these offers. Think about it, you're getting exactly what your asking for.......
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Posted: 4/12/2008 9:21:45 PM | ok i am 32 now, over the years i have dated countless guys and girls who were just as broke as i am. guys who couldn't keep a job and the ones who wouldn't
I've never got anywhere hot and tropical for a vacation, I've had to fight for survival most of my life.
so i've decided to date only guys who have jobs and will treat me a little bit, i figure i could use a bit of spoiling, i've never been spoiled, and i think after what i have been though i damn well diserve it
i'm looking for love in the long term but I know i'll have to date a few frogs first i see nothing wrong with looking among the working guys, who have there shit together and can take me out on a date or buy me a gift...i would never let someone pay my rent or my bills and i would never be with someone only for money, i would have to care about them and them me...i am no toy to go visit when he wants to play
i see nothing wrong with that, only when money is the main issue and the people involved don't realy care about each other but are using each other.
well thats my op anyways | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 8:03:37 AM | OP, I'm not so naive that I don't know this stuff goes on, but if you're talking about getting these "offers" online, in my opinion the chances are someone's just yanking your chain. Having a little fun with with women they KNOW are going to getting huffy about such an offer. It's just a variation of the "asking for sex" theme I've seen thousands of posts written about.
These guys don't really believe anyone's going to meet them for anonymous sex from this kind of dating site, or that they're going to land a quality "paid" mistress. The real "sugardaddy" types - rich, married doctors/lawyers/ceos etc., are out there in the real world with their wealth and status so obviously on display they'd have no problem finding someone to fill the bill.
I'm quite sure the vast majority of the sex/mistress offers are bogus, from guys who have decided since they can't even get anyone to go on a regular date with them, they might as well get a little Internet amusement from the site. They either enjoy the negative reaction or laugh at the rare ones who fall for it. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 8:52:16 AM | t """"have you received offers from guys asking you if they can be your sugardaddy?"""
No, no one has offered to my sugardaddy. I'm still waiting for that. Most emails I get just say "you are very handsome" or something like that...
"""OP, I'm not so naive that I don't know this stuff goes on, but if you're talking about getting these "offers" online, in my opinion the chances are someone's just yanking your chain. Having a little fun with with women they KNOW are going to getting huffy about such an offer"""
and I think that post is valid 4/5 times. Sometimes, some guys might have money to "play with", maybe 1/5 offers like that. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 12:47:13 PM | | Yes I have received many of those offers lately. They usually say they are lawyers. They tell me I can have anything I want if I spend 1 nite a week with them. They say plastic surgery,home,rent payment,new sports car. I know it sounds great but I have more respect for myself. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 12:58:41 PM | Ok,
if you accept to sleep with a "married man" just for his money, doesn't that make you a hooker?
A rich married man asks you to be his mistress on the side, and offers you money/gifts etc and you accept it... isnt that prostitution?
Am I missing something here? | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 9:48:27 PM | I don't know about the whole "sugar daddy" concept, but the guy who owns my corner gas station is starting to look REAL sexy! | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 11:45:10 AM | | My profile was on here for about 2 months and I never got that. I am usually viewed as extremely attractive so it's not that. When I hear of this sort of thing I tend to think that there is something in a woman's profile that makes her appear as though she may be receptive to that short of thing. Not calling anyone hoochies or ANYTHING like that. It may not even be pictures. It may be the content of the profile, maybe even the way things get phrased. I dunno. Just my thought. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2008 9:50:23 AM | | I hate to say this but i have a dear friend of mine who is absolutely gorgeous and had a sugar daddy....she did not need his money, but he just loved her company and did/bought her many things....boob job, huge downpayment on a truck, things for her children, took her to plays, dinners,etc. She never slept with him...not once! Does this make her a bad person? NO! Was he married? NO! Does this make him a bad person? NO! I guesss my point here is that you should never judge or make assumptions of the situation at hand. You dont know what one persons needs / wants are....how do you know that it is not a mutual agreement....alot of them are, they are just not put out for the public to view in a glass house and why should it be? | |
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Posted: 4/24/2008 11:36:13 AM |
Gees, maybe they just wanted to spoil you! It is not a bad thing.
Yes, but this is sounding more like a more arranged form of prostitution with regularaly scheduled hookups.
It's kind of "Ewwwww" | |
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| Sugardaddy offer
Posted: 4/24/2008 11:44:23 AM | i think the op was lucky to get that kind of offer from what i can see.
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Posted: 4/24/2008 1:19:26 PM | I saw a profile of a girl whose headline was looking for a sugar daddy.
She went on to say how well she would treat her man in exchnage for being treated like a queen, being able to travel, fine dining etc.
Just for kicks I offered to make her the queeen of my tin mansion (mobile home) and pointed out I have crop checkin' as an interest and thought that driving through the country every now and then would be enough travel for her.
I haven't heard back yet | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 12:15:37 AM | My understanding of a sugardaddy is just a guy that gives you money...usually older and probably wants some quality time.
Men have used money to get what they want for years....so why stop now. They aren't. If they can't buy you, they will try it on the next female.
I've had offers and still get offers, none from POF (thank goodness), but either way I just graciously decline. I don't see it as a moral or value issue unless the person is already involved in a relationship (hence, this guy telling me my infant should have been his when he is married!).
But I sorta feel it as a compliment!
OP, they will get the point if you mean it. Are you having second thoughts? | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:32:00 PM | | While the sugar daddies are out there, let's be PC and remember the evolution of the sugar momma after all the wives of the sugar daddies have money to spend too. Heck there's even websites dedicated to it now. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 7:02:04 PM | | I have. Not on POF but I've definitely been approached by men with their wallet out and a snakey proposition for me. I just can't do it. Too much pride. Morale. Respect for karma, too -maybe. But I don't want a married man. I don't want someone who will pay me to demoralize myself or settle. I don't have a bill I can't dodge long enough to earn the money to pay if need be to go 'there'. I have friends who have and the closest I've come to it is accepting kickbacks from a friend (who's crushed on me for years now) for referring customers to him. I have to pay it forward-- I don't want any man providing for me but the one I want to be submissive to. Not happening. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:11:17 PM | | where do you find these sugardaddies? Definately not on POF, nothing but cheapskates here. I love sugardaddies. I love being spoiled and spending his a guy's money. Why shouldn't I? I gave him lots of love and attention. I dont' feel that need to be that independent, nothing fun about going without the good things in life. Pride can only go so far and doesn't pay for eating in the nice restaraunts. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 12:46:52 AM | Show me the way to the sugar daddy store..... I want gifts and lots of them.. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 1:28:46 PM | | In the far past I have, but now on here I get "you are so beautiful and sexy" .Can they not look beyond the face.I haved two degrees and am half partner in a computer business. One man does ask alot and doesn't always mention looks.I think he may be my first date and see where it'll go.LOL He seems very nice. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 1:46:47 PM | Hey, *loislane*, thanks for tarring us all with the same brush. The thought was very much appreciated.
You will not read me tarring journalists as voyeuristic vultures who earn a living by publicizing the misfortunes of others for a buck, or writers as a batch of penniless hacks who have not grown up and are still deluding themselves with the belief that others see them as having some culturally valued identity other than their day jobs (waiters, baristas, bartenders, etc. whatever stereotype jobs writers are supposed to have while they are trying to sell their unheralded Hollywood script or latest Great American Novel or whatever).
I did not need any formal education to learn how to be a "crass a$$hole" as you so eloquently put it. That's not exactly complicated. Crass comes in all origins, creeds, colors and professions.
Maybe I am nurturing an illusion, but I like to believe that I elect not to act in a crass manner, and part of that is judging people by what they say and how they act, rather than any preconceived notion of whom they are, based on what they do to pay the rent.
And to keep the post on topic, anyone that would offer to be a sugardaddy, and anyone that would accept that sort of offer, happen to deserve one another. By the same token, the rest of us deserve to see them removed from the dating pool. To follow the site's metaphor, rotten fish does not smell too good. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 5:58:05 PM | | Women who accept a sugar daddy's offer have only one thing going for them - looks. Sugar Daddies who dole out money for the "other" woman have one thing going for them - money. Basically you have two incomplete people. One without the skills to take care of herself in order to live the lifestyle she seeks and the other lacking the skills to keep his marriage going physically and emotionally. In addition said SD lacks the game/originality and EFFORT when it comes to meeting a beautiful woman other than saying "hey can I pay you in the form of cars, jewelry, condos, houses for your Escort services." And yes while it works it is still a sad commentary on the people involved. I don't care that they do it but I call it like I see it - two sides severely lacking in skills and caught in the age old deadly sins of avarice and vanity. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 6:06:42 PM | | Any sugarmammies out there? I need to be spoiled for a while! | |
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