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Posted: 6/6/2008 2:56:43 PM |
Why can't a woman rely on a man these days?
When I was younger I would be jumping all over this statement! Now - I see things differently.
If a man is capable of financially supporting a woman and the woman is content with the situation then sure...why not?
I highly doubt though that these sorts of arrangements are what they appear to be. I'd love to know or hear from some actual "Sugarbabies."
Hey! I just thought of a new thread! | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 4:47:09 PM | never, but any decent sugar mamas are welcome to drop me a line.  | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 10:44:00 AM | | It's funny I get messages from guys on a sugardaddy website. We trade emails, and he asks me what i'm looking for. I tell him what I'm looking for , friendship, etc but when I say I'm looking for financial assistance too, they stop emailing. What are these men doing on a sugardady website if they are willing to give the woman money? They don't know what a sugar daddy is. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 1:42:02 PM |
when I say I'm looking for financial assistance too, they stop emailing
I can think of two other possible explanations.
1- Even though they are on a sugardaddy site, deep down they believe they have so much else to offer they can keep the wallet in the pocket. Also known as being delusional or out of touch with reality.
2- They have control (or other) issues. The fact that you brought it up fist somehow bothers them. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 8:35:18 PM | Some guys just think they can buy anything. Maybe they think if a females attractive shes stupid and unemployed thats just crazy. I have the same issues with these bottom of the moral barrel guys. The few that topped the list was a Cali movie producer who actually had a arrangement as he called it with several chics which he disclosed and had a detailed plan for how much per month allowance depending on the value he thought the chic us worth, he bought the house, the cars etc and when he came around that was when he wanted his desires granted it was way too organized and very weird I told him my profile does not reek of man user it actually says you can not impress with money I am independent and need for nothing financially, he continued but I had to block him. The other recently it erked me because it took me awhile to figure this out but I had a manipulative buy you type man who acted like thats not what he was about and said he had nothing but really he was unappreciative of what his life had provided kids included he just wanted to buy me and 8573875875 many other females for when he felt like hanging out.
These type of men have issues that even Dr Phil can not address. Its sad but there are chics who allow this so these guys behavior continues since they have been successful buying no standard having females. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 9:55:51 PM | I never get offers like that, and if I did they would almost certainly have a massive catch.
However, if an attractive single man who fitted in around my lifestyle offered, then I would consider it. Problem is, why would they need to offer?
If they have to pay there's got to be a reason! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 2:39:51 PM | Sorry to most but have to say it... ang65, you are a hoot! And I think you are awesome! Thank you for providing not only moneybags with entertainment but myself also. I got it for free! No STD!
How many times have I read how much we respect people who "know what they want and go for it"? Is that not what these people are doing?
To the lady that said 20 yrs ago she would have been offended... Feel the same way. Having just past 20/20 ( 20/20 being 40 and seeing things clearer), confident enough in myself, my life, my thoughts... and not as bothered as use to be about what others do. Use to have a comment about everything. Maybe I still do but much more often I can see so many sides to each scenerio that I can carry on a one person debate for hours.
In a perfect world, we would all be financially well and have that special someone also but if someone out there can only have one of the two and they are happy, well, they are doing better a lil than I am at the moment.
It's simply not for me but PLEASE... Just let me get an offer so I can turn it down and feel (a) beautiful for getting the offter (b) little smug for turning it down and then (c) miserable for thinking of all the things I want but still can't have! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 2:47:32 PM | | Guys just have no clue what a sugardaddy is, especially these young ones under 50. Geesh ! Why do they worry about driving 50 miles and gas when they are suppposed to be worth 1 million and make 500K a year? And these single ones are so unwilling to bend when the married ones don't worry about driving and time, the poser sugar daddies do everything they can to be cheap. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 5:11:10 PM | This is just terrible. I can't believe these guys are offering to be Sugar Daddys.
Do you have any idea how many empty calories there are in sugar? This just awful.
So, if any of you ladies need a Splenda Daddy, please let me know. I'm available  | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 8:19:39 PM | I´ve never had an offer like that..............
splenda daddy??????
less calories more filling............. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2008 7:54:49 AM |
What do you think? Have you rcvd any of these awful offers?
I've had a few of those myself and I 
What do I think? Different strokes for different folks.
I'm too headstrong and independant to be "kept" by anyone but hey if there are people out there that it works for...more power to them. Not my place to judge their life style. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2008 8:02:13 AM | I never get offers like that, and if I did they would almost certainly have a massive catch.
Of course they have a catch. You miss out on true love, someone else controls you, lose your self respect, labeled by society and if you ever lose your looks you're going to be dropped off on the curb. Many sugarbabies do go homeless.
Why can't a woman rely on a man these days?
What about us guys? where are the sugarmommas at? Just kidding.
But the only valid reason I can think of for any man or woman to look for someone richer is if they have a risky job such as medical research, private consulting, you're starting your own engineering company, you have your own restaurant. Otherwise you're just mooching and giving up your respect.
Btw most people would agree that contrary to popular belief most rich people lead simple non extravagant lives and they have a lot to offer if they became rich (intelligence, social skills) | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 5:43:00 PM | | Anyone out there have an out of town sugardaddy that they see when he is in town? How is it working out? I have a potential sugardaddy that is coming to my town soon and we want to set up an arrangement. Do you stay at his hotel, etc? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 6:16:12 PM | Yes I have a job but the pay sucks. I work very hard but my employer doesn't appreciate it. It is never enough even though I sometimes do the work of 2 people (when a coworker decides to call in or stays out all night and can't come to work the next day). Hours are sparce though and my schedule is always different each week, plus with no car and living in a bad area, I have to work close to home. I do not plan to move to a better place because I might find myself not being able to afford the rent when my sugardaddy days are over, I stay at the cheapest place I can.
I can get more from my sugardaddy in a short time than I make in 2 weeks at work. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 6:28:02 PM | A woman can give herself up to countless "relationships" with men who care nothing about her and even make her pay on dates, and then he moves onto someone else (he had no intention of ever marrying her ) OR she can find a sugardaddy to indulge her with the same expectations in return as a traditional "relationship" and have fun, be treated, and profit for it.
Sex has nothing to do with love in today's society (does anyone really believe that all the welfare mothers with numerous kids by different fathers, actually was "loved" by all these guys? No, she was used and she let herself be used.
If I give you the benefits of being a husband, I want something in return, either a ring and committment or material goods. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 7:31:43 PM | I have NEVER gotten a SugarDaddy offer! I have gotten a Milk Dud though.
I would be highly suspect of a "SugarDaddy" offer on POF. That could be a scam to fleece you. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 7:35:47 PM | | plentyof milk duds on POF. I would never consider anyone one here. There are quality sites for that kind of thing and the men don't worry about who pays for dinner,etc, It's actually a class act. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 2:12:09 AM | I had a sugar momma offer once,
I dated this woman a few times. Nice lady, She had a masters in business, over a 100K a year. Went on to get a law degree and start her own law firm in Monterey California. Now she makes a lot of money. I always thought she was teasing me, the way she talked to me. We stayed phone and email friends forever. One day she broke it down and said that it was all real. she would marry me and I wouldn't have to work. I tried to let her down in the nicest way I could think of. I didn't tell her that there was no spark and aI wasn't that attracted to her. She got me a little drunk and threw herself at me the few times that we dated. I guess I left an impression. Ever since the conversation where I politley declined, she IMs me, but she keeps her distance. She wanted me to spend the weekend in her beach house, but I didn't want to take advantage of her, because our thing was more like a few dates, a sexual fling and then years of phone and email friendship. I think I hurt her feelings, but I'm not a user. It's one thing when you give into a woman who's encouraging you to drink and tearing your clothes off. It's another thing when you know she wants a relationship and wants to take care of you and marry you. Part of me says "Go for it! How many women have you put first and how many want to put you first?" The other part of me says, "This is a person, with feelings, no matter how sweet the set up is, you have to be nice and think of other people first." So, I say "No" and she thinks I'm kind of a jerk. I guess. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 7:56:48 AM | Maybe she got a high out of spoiling someone. That must be the reason why sugar mommas and daddies exist. BUt its quite dangerous not to work. You can be kicked out if that's what they decide. I would never give any woman that type of control over my life and a lwayer could very easily screw you out of alimony in that case.
Anyways how common are sugar mammas and sugar daddies? | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 8:49:41 AM | | there are alot of young women out there that jump at a sugerdaddy. they want everything they can get without having to work for it. i know some women that jump at a guy if they smell money. married even better for them then can break free with out problems when they stop getting paid. i you think the word sugerdaddy is out there for a reason. and that gose to the women that give us a bad name. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:30:48 PM | Okay ladies
you are gonna be pissed at me but this is the way I see it. To me, there is nothing wrong with havin a guy who wants to spoil my ass. Look at it this way, it's an off an on steady date, with no complications, if he's married well that's his cross, not mine. Hell yeah,
What's wrong with being appreciated anyway.
Sugar Daddies in Ottawa, look this way!! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:36:12 PM | ^^ You're 39 years old. A sugar daddy will go after the youngest and hottest girl possible.
There might be medical complications when his wife finds out about you and might think of hurting you. | |
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