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 ottawagirlie

Joined: 7/4/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:40:36 PM
btw girls, I have a pretty successful career but I like nice - no wait NICER things, and if a man wants to show his appreciation for the love that died at home I am all for that. I lived in a loveless marriage, so I can relate. Bear in mind, I never stepped out and nor have i ever been with a married man, always against my principles, seems as I get closer to 40 my ideals have changed and I am a little more liberal. Let's just say I understand what it's like to be in a bad situation, it's hard to leave a marriage, I can say this having worked in family law for 10 years, it's hard emotionally, financially and it's exhausting and that is why so many stay in a bad but comfortable situation.
Sure ideally I would meet a single man, maybe divorced too, and maybe with kids like mine, and he is confident in himself and his life and is ready to start over, but let's face it, a perfect world we don't live in and until that time I couldn't say that I wouldn't welcome companionship elsewhere.
 ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:51:17 PM
Well I'm over 40 and my sugardaddy offers have been mostly men in their 30's. Some men want young immature women for sugarbabies and some want a more mature woman closer to their age that they can relate to and work out an arrangement that suits both parties rather than the younger ones give me give me attitude. A real arrangement is talked about ande agreed upon in a mature way. Most men in my age range looking for relationship are either single and wanting to marry a much younger woman to have children or they are divorced with small children, which I am not interested in. I will spend my time with a sugardaddy and when I get too old to have one, the other guys my age will still be single (because no one seems to commit to anyone nowday anyway) and their kids will have grown up.
 _Red_

Joined: 12/14/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2008 4:47:29 PM

Gees, maybe they just wanted to spoil you! It is not a bad thing.


"Buy you" is more like it. No thanks
 nishimurasan

Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 6/29/2008 1:52:26 PM
You're missing a fundamental rule of nature. Guys, myself included, that can afford to have a girlfriend on the side do so, because, well, they can. As long as the wife and family are taken care of financially, men are allowed to be men. It's been like that forever, and it's still like that in most parts of Europe, and ALL of Asia. Its just here in the US, where you are so "moralistic"......Oh yeah, thats right, over 50% divorce rate in the US vs. 6% in Asia. Hmmm, doesn't that tell you something?
 ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/29/2008 4:45:54 PM
I have met many men who are decent respectable people who have good marriages but they are not happy with their sex lives. Most of these men provide very well for their wives but the wives don't appreciate it . I have no problem seeing a married man because I honestly think they are more sane than some of the single guys on these sites. After all when a married man wants to meet a woman, he can't do it through family and friends or just go up to someone in the street, whereas all these single men who claim to be so social and popular can't seem to find a woman through other channels and have to online date.
If a man finds a nice woman on the side and gets what he is missing from his marriage and he gives the lady what she needs financially, it's a win win situation and the marriage stays in tact.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2008 4:49:41 PM

You're missing a fundamental rule of nature. Guys, myself included, that can afford to have a girlfriend on the side do so, because, well, they can. As long as the wife and family are taken care of financially, men are allowed to be men. It's been like that forever, and it's still like that in most parts of Europe, and ALL of Asia. Its just here in the US, where you are so "moralistic"......Oh yeah, thats right, over 50% divorce rate in the US vs. 6% in Asia. Hmmm, doesn't that tell you something?


Disgusting sums it up. Men have morals. A true man has self respect, integrity, and honor.
 toomuch13

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 6/30/2008 9:44:40 AM
"You're missing a fundamental rule of nature. Guys, myself included, that can afford to have a girlfriend on the side do so, because, well, they can."

Just because you "can" do something, doesn't mean you should. I can go out and do horrible things to people, but that does not give me license to do it. My father would agree with you. He is French (born in France) and he kept my mother as a mistress without her knowing it. He told my mother he was divorced and had a vasectomy. Obviously he did not, because I am here and have a half –brother who is a year younger than me. His wife and children just found out about my mother and me two years ago. Now my father is VERY European and does not know why all of us Americans are upset. Maybe, because I could have married my brother or dated him since my father never told us and we lived 20 minutes away from each other?

We have morals and ethics so we do not hurt people. So saying a man has the morals of an animal, makes THAT man an animal.
 Heidi70

Joined: 6/27/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:14:18 PM
I have been the "Sugar Baby" and loved it. At the time, I was not ready to be involved in a real open relationship, but I missed the intimacy of one. I loved the fact that nothing was expected of me when we were apart. We would travel together, I would shop or laze at the pool during the day, while he went about his business. At night we would go to dinner, have sex and go to sleep. Was I treated like a bimbo? No, I do not think so. He was always very respectful and kind. When apart, we kept in touch via e-mail.

If it was offered to me again, would I accept? I don't know It would depend on the person.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:17:26 PM
Would all women really accept this offer?
 Heidi70

Joined: 6/27/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:18:07 PM

Anyone out there have an out of town sugardaddy that they see when he is in town? How is it working out? I have a potential sugardaddy that is coming to my town soon and we want to set up an arrangement. Do you stay at his hotel, etc?


Mine never comes to my town. I usually meet him somewhere. If he has a layover, he'll extend it for a few days. We spend 3 days together and go on our merry way. He has never to my apartment, and I quite like it that way.
 Bewildered100

Joined: 11/27/2007
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Posted: 6/30/2008 7:05:54 PM
What??? Am I to assume no one likes the smooth creaminess of this classic American candy???
 Heidi70

Joined: 6/27/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2008 10:42:47 PM

What??? Am I to assume no one likes the smooth creaminess of this classic American candy???



My mind went straight to the gutter with your post. SD's are very smooth and they do tend to get creamy. As for the classic American Candy, hhm I think they like sugarbabies as Arm Candy
 Kindredspirit07

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 113
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Posted: 7/1/2008 1:49:18 AM
Yes, I have met married men that wanted to have me as a side dish. Sorry, I want to be the main course.... not going to sell myself short,thanks.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 4:22:29 AM
Do married men know they don't have to pay to get laid? There are plenty of chicks who find the fact that he is married to be reward enough.
 lostintheshuffle

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 115
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Posted: 7/1/2008 4:40:09 PM
I have two female friends on here that I know in person. They have both gotten a lot of sugar daddy offers. Quite honestly I have had one sugar mommy offer from a doctor in Las Vegas. It was a little crazy so I said no.
 toomuch13

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:31:50 PM
John.duke12 you are VERY right with this statement, "There are plenty of chicks who find the fact that he is married to be reward enough. "

I know of single guys who say they are married to get laid with no strings. They even have wedding rings. I was surprised by this, but it happens.
 chickadeenie

Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 117
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:35:43 PM
I don't mean to be rude to the OP, but I looked at your profile, and also at your myspace as you direct people to your "sexy" pics, and I am just wondering why you are so surprised by this offer? I mean, almost every pic is an expose on your lovely breasts. It is easy to understand why some men, albeit those of little integrity, might think you are up for some playing around.
 beachbaby4summer

Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 7/11/2008 3:29:22 PM
Maybe you should take down your sexy pictures (the ones that are remaining as you say POF took the rest down themselves)...that probably will solve your problem. Men are attracted to what they see and if you look like you can't be taken seriously, they won't.
 Champagne Chick

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 119
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Posted: 7/11/2008 5:11:11 PM
I find this just hilarious! A few years ago a client at work offered me a Sugar Daddy Position. I assume the position (lol), salary and perks increase. I declined OF COURSE! It was not an issue of re-evaluating my morals, etc. I KNOW me!

Potential Sugar Daddy will never know this but I actually had a small (wee, wee, wee) bit of respect for him because he was honest and straightforward about what he had, what he wanted and what he wasn't willing to give up. With all the lies and games out there, I guess it was refreshing to actually have one guy be honest....with ME!

Still creepy and still a no-brainer for me!
 Desdemona00

Joined: 6/6/2008
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Posted: 7/12/2008 9:42:51 AM
Yeah, usually if someone if willing to willingly support someone for sex, then they are probably deficient, or they are smart enough to understand that no woman with sense of self is willing to do this for free,.
But why would anyone want to tether themselves and form and obligation to someone who has none to you and would dump you if his wife ever found out? I think women are smart to refuse.
 N*Love

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 121
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Posted: 7/17/2008 9:00:19 PM
I don't care what their damn deal is...
If I say "no thank you"...
They should stop emailing me... Im turning into a complete b*tch here and wanna beat the hell out of them right now...

Few pointers for those who attempt:
- stop emailing if you dont get a response or get 'NO THANK YOU'
-stop increasing the price (no I don't care , you are DISRESPECTING me in a huge way)
-stop listing off the percs to lure me in... YOU stupid ASS.

Bottom line:
If I want I'll do you CAUSE i want too, and for FREE...

I don't have anything against men who attempt... cause Im sure some girls are willing, what makes me blow the top of the roof is persistance and arrogance to my response...

OH im so mad right now ....

AND you get the gutz to call me a stuck up b*tch?
AHHHHH!!!!!

 Feedback1

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 7/17/2008 11:56:25 PM
I have some bills to pay.....I can use a Sugarmomma about now
 Ms.Sweet Sinful Seduction

Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 123
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Posted: 7/19/2008 8:25:33 PM
I haven't but my ex has a sugarmommy. As long as they are happy, I am happy for them.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 11:02:20 AM

I haven't but my ex has a sugarmommy. As long as they are happy, I am happy for them.


Sugarmamas don't exist unless the woman is ugly and old.
 919rider

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 12/12/2008 8:55:07 PM
I'll take a sugarmomma in a heartbeat...
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