| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/11/2008 10:46:06 AM | That is the conditioning of our society. We all suffer from this. Yet outside the us it is very different. Worse nature has played a trick on us sexually most women are in their peak after 30. While most men are in their teens and twenties. Yet with the demands of work most have little time to invest in social activities like previous generations. Our society is to blame as we are more puritanical that the Victorian age (upper classes) The middle class in something else entirely.  | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:25:44 AM |
I think it's one of the great myths in men's minds that women don't get along.
I totally agree, Cass. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:08:20 PM | Is this a serious question OP????
I have a question too...
A man on POF heard a comment from ONE woman saying she hated younger women. So he plaintively asked "do all women HATE younger women?"
Since one man is this stupid to think because ONE woman said this, maybe ALL women think this, does this mean that ALL men are very STUPID?
No, mine isn't a serious question. Sad that I need to even state that but I think I better!  | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:29:21 PM | "Hate"? Why would I "hate" younger women? Actually, that is a bit harsh if you ask me. I'm assuming your female friend made that comment because some men date younger women? If this is the case, hell there are plenty of men to go around for us all-in all age categories if your heart desires!!! lol
No hate in my heart for any female/person. I'm just living life and enjoy every day as it comes. To each his/her own on whom they want to date - More POWER to ya'll!
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/12/2008 8:10:42 PM | hell i'm a 24-year-old man and i hate younger women. every younger woman i've ever met was a superficial backstabbing succubus. (i really mean no offense, maybe i just met the wrong ones.) i go for women a couple years my senior because they have it together. they're more mature, more responsible, more stable (both financially and emotionally) and they're better in bed. 
my last relationship was with a woman who was pushing 30. that relationship opened me up to so much more, and i am a better person as a result. my girlfriend before her was 19, and when she left every ounce of my pride, self respect, and dignity went out the door with her. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/12/2008 8:17:22 PM | | To hate someone for something they have no control over (aka what year you were born) is ridiculous. Sounds to me like this older woman has jealousy and insecurity issues. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/12/2008 9:10:07 PM | We get along when we perceive the woman in question isn't a threat to us or what we have or what we want.
Once that happens, watch out and back off.
No one is going to come into this thread and say, "Yeah yeah, I hate younger women and I rock even though I'm 45 years old!"
Every woman in here is telling the truth, to a degree. The truth is most women don't mind other women, even younger ones. Except when they have what we want, are taking what we desire and matter more to people we want affection and attention from in life.
Here's how it really works. If a pretty girl gets a new job, she is instantly befriended by other pretty girls at about the same level. It raises our esteem to be around other pretty women and it has a multiplier effect on the kind of guys that approach us. Then there are some older women, unattractive women, overweight women, insecure women, pissed off women, all kinds of women who will hate the young pretty girl for pretty much no reason at all. Some of them won't, but it's not because they are so kind and wise and caring, it's because they are often too narcissistic to think the young pretty girl is a threat, they often think they are prettier, smarter, more interesting or have something that compensates with men for not being as young and as pretty.
There are some people in life who are actually kind and good people who are secure in themselves and will try to help you and be friendly. But like anything else in life, it's a very very small percentage of people, including older women, who are like that.
Do we hate? Hate is a strong word.
We have a problem with anyone who has what we want, especially if we can't get it ever, or who has what we think we deserve.
Some of the other women will tell you guys that I'm absolutely wrong. But deep down they are only afraid that I'm giving you guys a little too much of the truth. Many are afraid if men found out the honest to God's truth, that those men won't want them. What they don't get, in some cosmic display of blunt irony, is those men probably don't want them anyway no matter what.
Chew on that. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/12/2008 9:27:06 PM | WOW!
Some of the other women will tell you guys that I'm absolutely wrong. But deep down they are only afraid that I'm giving you guys a little too much of the truth. Many are afraid if men found out the honest to God's truth, that those men won't want them. What they don't get, in some cosmic display of blunt irony, is those men probably don't want them anyway no matter what.
Respect.
The most thought out and well stated post on this whole sight... Are you sure you are only 24?
Don Quixote
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/12/2008 9:42:50 PM | But, no, not all women hate younger women. Or, sounds like your friend might wish you were more attracted in someone your own age (her).
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But, if that's your style try some of these Hi IQ searches:
1. Is it true a bullet to the head is dangerous?
2. What's it like to boil water and drink it?
3. How can I tell if I am gay or not?
4. Does a bear sheet in the woods.
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 5:24:13 PM | I have always dated women my age, but the truth is I am starting to understand that age does not = maturity. I am starting to realize that there are a lot of women(my age) that just hate the world, I have been through a lot, that is not going to make me miserable.
if you look at the stat's 6 years is the perfect age difference ..... | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:00:19 PM | Uhm, no. Very few of us "hate" anyone, much less our younger sisters, friends, daughters or co-workers. Personally, if I take a dislike to someone (either gender, any age) there is a direct correlation to something specific. I don't suffer fools gladly, I rather despise deliberate cruelty or hateful behavior. And I think you asked a ridiculous question, but here I am responding to it anyway!  | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:15:54 PM | Actually Emerald, I think what you are talking about is insecure women, rather than women in general. You find this behaviour to be less prevelant in women who are sure of themselves and, in general, women who have worked hard for what they have gotten in life.
Unfortunatly, women are still trained by societal norm to be insecue and judge their worth on factors that become relativly unimportant such as beauty, grace, or other external factors rather than true achievments. The ability to give birth or attract a man does not make a woman special. The ability to form a loving relationship or RAISE a child well is something to be proud of along with the ability to excell at your chosen career or a host of other values that we routinly don't give or take enough credit for. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:32:17 PM | OK OK OK, It is a game of semantics but if i asked the question and replaced Hate with dislike, are annoyed by, think that it is unfair or irritating, then would you have constructive comments or just more of the Same HATERAIDE?
Yes I know that my friend maybe jeaulous and insecure (Not like everyone on this site!) But I can't fix her. I can only try and fix myself or at least find inconsistancies in my beliefs/morals/values or understanding so that I can try and adapt, grow or change?
Only the wisest and stupidest men never change.
Don Quixote
jousting one extreme
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:09:56 PM |
Is it not natural for a man to want a less mature woman and for a woman to want a more mature man?
Older/younger doesn't mean more or less mature.
You can say what feels natural to you, but not what feels natural to men or women in general.
I find older men great for attention, insight, and friendship, yet disgusting sexually. I prefer dating my age or younger because they often look better.
I dont hate younger women.
I think women that are insecure feel bitterness when men they want dont want them and they pick a trait to complain about. Youth, size, hair color, etc. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 4/13/2008 8:17:21 PM | | Don, I still think your question has the same answer regardless of the word hate/dislike/ ect..... It varies from person to person. I tend to dislike being around immature people regardless of if they are male or female. That has little to do with age and much to do with attitude. I prefer to be around people with some life experience or at least who take responsability for their choices and actions. I've run into the people who are immature in there teens all the way until when they are old and grey. I suppose that's the factor for me. It's not an age, but a maturity level and this applies to both men and women. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/3/2009 5:15:12 PM | Hm, funny. I actually find a lot of older women on this site, or at least on the forums, are supportive, encouraging and willing to share our wisdom with our younger sisters. I know I am. Personally, a lot of my friends are younger than I, and I work with a number of beautiful, smart, funny, caring young women, as well as a number of beautiful, smart, funny caring older women. Age is a number, it's relative, and often irrelevant when women interact. At least that's my experience.
As to this post:
They try to make themselves and others beleive that they still are the same as they were 10 -20 years ago and that they still are as good looking and beautiful and sexy as they were back then
Nah, you've got it all wrong. I certainly am NOT the same as I was 10 or 20 years ago. I'm more beautiful and sexier than I was then. Also more open, confident, have much greater self-esteem and much better self-knowledge as I did back then. And that's a pretty common thing among women over 40. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/3/2009 5:40:41 PM | | wow, not even a little..I actuall don't hate period...but I have no type of negative feelings for younger women at all..I feel for those who make the same mistakes that I did..try to get through to them...and am in awe of those that figure out 'stuff' early on. I didn't really grow to appreciate women as friends until I was in my 30's myself...I have a variety of friends...girlfriends that is , ranging in age from 22 up to about 58..whom I hang out with regularly. Guys I tend to hang out with older ones as friends cause the young ones are just so damn horny that they usually think women are binary ;-). But , I have a couple of younger males that I hang with once in a while..somewhere between friends and aquaintances. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/4/2009 12:29:54 AM | Beneath all strong emotions lie 2 things..fear or love....
WHAT DOES YOUR FRIEND Fear...??lost youth?life energy?
perhaps she had a bad experience with a young woman and generalizes..LIKE YOU
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/4/2009 3:10:08 AM | Age doesnt guarantee being mature.
Maybe some of the older ladies feel that way towards younger women for personal reasons, but I dont think it is a large number of women...perhaps some who have been left for the younger woman feel this way, but I dont see this as a regular occurance at all.
You will always have a small percentage in any mix of people who feel extreme about another group of people, but you cant say an entire sex feels one way or another.
Personally, I like my age, feel better about myself than ever before, and have absolutely no desire to go back in time...and I dont feel any dis like for the younger gals....sometimes I may shake my head because they are still learning some valuable life lessons, but all I think to myself when I see that is 'thank god I already went thu that and wont ever again'. No hate, no pity, just gratitude that I have passed thru a certain stage in development is all.
I find being around younger ladies at the office and such can help keep me on my toes, keep me listening to fresh new music, or keep me in touch with new fashions/fads and generally I enjoy it...it's about thier personalities, like anyone else really. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:25:33 AM | No I don't hate younger women - I don't hate anyone.............it's such a strong word. Plus I'm not sure why men get this impression of us older ladies.
If you're referring to us being "jealous" then I'm not. Yes it would be nice to be a little younger but then I wouldn't have my darling children. So the way I look at things is there's always a balance. If I was younger I wouldn't be as wise as I am now..............
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:45:36 AM | Hate them.......Good Lord.......no.
Frustrated and annoyed with them sometimes.......most definately!
But that feeling isn't limited to younger women.....it includes younger men that think they know it all too! | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:47:10 AM | I never worry about younger women, dont think we are sharing the same age range in the men market.
In other words I would never find attractive a man a man that likes women 10-15 years younger, not my type.
I personally prefer men older than me, so in that case I'm the younger woman...LOL.
Hey this sounds contradicting but I guess this is my scenario. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 10/4/2009 1:02:01 PM | | I wouldn't say all, but preferrably older woman mostly. And of course lot of them would still like to believe that they are 20 something again. | |
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| Do all women HATE younger women?
Posted: 10/4/2009 2:34:08 PM | Have to disagree with you Jacob. I had problems walking and chewing gum at the same time in my early 20's. So I'm enjoying this age.
But I adore the young ladies. In fact, work with a bunch of them in the evening and they tell me about their dates with their latest "hottie" and ask for advice. I am not threatened by them at all.
My favorite was a young lady I once worked with in a restaurant who was an ex Hooters waitress. My male customers would drool every time she walked by and I would ask her, "Do you mind posing for a picture with them?" She never hesitated, went over to the table and struck a pose (the one that only a really good Hooters waitress can do) and I took the picture. Bless her heart, she made me a ton of money. | |
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