| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/11/2008 5:13:57 AM | | I can see where trying to build a relationship on sex alone could be a problem,unless of course you're in the relationship just for the sex. If there's someone that I'm truly interested in,and the sex is really good,I make it a point of dating her as well. Go for dinner,a movie,or a walk in the park,then have sex. That way you get to know someone other than just in the bedroom. | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:50:16 AM |
I never considered having over-the-top, fabulous, all-night-long, passionate, hot sex a problem!!
Sadly it is - if you want a full package respectful relationship - that is not only stemmed in sexual contact! If you want to be a full person and not just a sex object! | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:58:52 AM | | No when ever I find someone and we have passionate sex those are the ones I hang on to. I think it is very hard to find someone with passion these days. So no sex has never hurt a relationship of mine if anything it helped it along. | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:07:17 PM | and somehow im left wondering, how long they are going to stick around if the sex is bad? | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/11/2008 2:04:28 PM | | my x tells me she is having problems in this area..i mean she has to come back to me to get the job done right..im sure its wrong to "service" your x, but we still get alnong and i hate to see her deprived. funny thing though..she was the one to cheat on me and cause the problem in the first place..now she has to"return to the scene of the crime" LOL!! | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/12/2008 4:44:07 PM | I've had a few partners my history that were so compatible (sexually) with me that we never developed the other aspects of the relationship. We never really talked to each other. EVER! Each time, the relationship eventually died. - cyn3100
This has never happened to me, but logically I can see how it happens. If you don't do things in the right order, (ie- talk, get to know each
other, fall in love, have sex, LTR/marriage, family, etc), you see what I am getting at? It's kind of like building a house. You have to develop
a solid foundation first. If you try just building the bedroom, without thinking of ALL the other ascpects of your life, well it's not going to be
a home, or even a house, is it? | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/12/2008 6:33:20 PM | | OMG, yes! having great sex is a HUGE deal breaker for me!! I'd shove him out the door first chance I got! Sorry b*****d...the nerve! sheeesh | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:06:20 PM | | yes it has, it was purely sexual, and nothing much else, and harder to say goodbye for something that wasnt working cause that one thing was working so well. | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/12/2008 11:40:05 PM | | I have had this problem, though I tried to cope with it by changing to fit someone else. In the end though, while great sex is good (and lets face it, it really really is good. Everyone needs to have an all nighter at least once every other month.) If you are looking for a relationsip that isnt just between the bedposts, then great sex wont hold everything up. It will just make a slow decline in the amount you and your partner do things together, then eventually, it all comes out as one big crap storm and, blows up in each of yours faces. | |
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| Good sex a problem?
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:33:35 AM | | hence i say you get to know them first before the sex itself. atleast you know that's more than just the sex... | |
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