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Posted: 4/19/2008 9:48:22 PM | | Ravin, It sounds to me like the young woman was afraid... inexperienced... etc etc... not sure of herself... I think that it took guts for her to send you such revealing text messages... If she wasn't feeling them... I can't see why she would send something as personal as these texts... Have faith... take your time, you have a lifetime to be with one special person, enjoy life, get a sitter, get know the fun side of you... explore and discover the kind of woman that you wish to live your life with. Take your precious little ones photos off the site. Like someone mentioned... only reveal with contact... emails, however... have patience. Its easier said to have patience. I wish you the best. Chalk this young woman up to a stepping stone to the many women that you will encounter.... And yes, Thank you for helping to keep us safe. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 9:59:13 PM | | By posting an I Feel Sorry For Myself Cuz Women Don't Like Me message, you have just instantly lost 99% of the women here who may otherwise have been interested. You have made one of the biggest mistake you can possibly make here. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 10:05:04 PM | this may be an assumption, but since I lived my life of dating (I am pretty much done) and see how it works in this country whereby SO MANY women never leave a guy that they don't really care for because being alone is too tough for them to take so it'd be better for them to whore themselves out to retain a guy that she'd leave upon one suitor coming along (that suitor was often a guy like me and when I found out she just dumped a guy to be with me, I dumped her right away - i will not put up with someone so lame as to stay in a relationship they didn't like and this is the single largest factor why I am single...........when a woman cannot leave based on the merit of the situation of her relationship, i cannot respect her).
THIS IS WHAT I THINK: THERE IS STILL A MAN IN HER LIFE as many women do not let go of a guy until a new guy is involved, and so she doesn't give herself enough time of being completely single, no dating whatsoever for months until a new guy comes along, so this gal may have had something going on with some other guy recently or if from a more distant past a guy is re-emerging. She could simply be in a quandry of whom to choose among as women get this responsibility from how the system functions and she can mess up for years in her decision-making process as it's her right to mess up.
It sounds as though you were being too nice.
nice guys finish last. let a woman call me a whiner, I do not care. they can throw their insults out personally while I will not do likewise to them. let's not be in denial.
next time play a game to undo the women psyche - do not see her the following day. Make her beg for you to show up and if it doesn't occur, be ready to find another woman. You let women get the best of you and they'll walk all over you (of course not all of them, so no need for any woman rebutttal trying to inject the word "ALL" into all [sic] of my statements. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 8:55:35 AM | Well brother, from some of the female replies here, you should be able to see that some chicks are already fawning over you. No need to give up, then. And props for manning up and taking care of your kids. Every woman is portrayed as some great saint when she does this, so why men don't get the same praise is beyond me. That's the thing about being a man though, we're supposed to step up and take responsibility and not get credit. Double standards, I guess.
I can relate to your story. Some time back, I was seeing this chick and everything seemed to be hitting on all cylinders. I even decided to put a few women that were interested in me from the online dating scene out of the picture, so as to make her a priority. I don't know why I f^cking did that, because three days later, it was POOF! She was gone like a fart in the wind. No explanation, not a damn word as to why. I was a bit pissed, but then I thought about it and just came to the realization that at least I wasn't in it for the long haul with some girl who was apparently screwed up in the head.
No doubt that it hardens you up some, but take it like this: she was just in your life for a few days to make you a bit happier. A bit more hopeful. Use that bit of happiness to give to your children in the form of another kiss or hug. Use those feelings inside you to reflect positively upon them. Try not to feed off the bitter end of it.
To those who would question why the OP mentions his USMC service, please take a moment to read this:
Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference. The Marines don't have that problem.
--Ronald Reagan | |
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